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Someone attacked me in a forum. Shared the screencap on Discord and everyone blamed me for it.

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CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Edited Sep 14, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
The other day, I posted some funny meme related to rhythm games. But then out of nowhere this jerk shows up and says this:

"You are by far the worst thing that I've seen happen to rhythm games in the last 23 years."

Obviously, that's a pretty dickish thing to say. But luckily, my skin was thick enough to dismiss it, accept that he's constipated from being so full of shit and laughed it off.

So I decided to screencap those kind words and shared it in a Discord chat for all my other buddies to see and laugh at.

That's when it happened.

They instead blamed me for it. That's right. Me. They had the fucking audacity to say to my face that it was MY fault that guy was a jerk. They told me that he was a jerk because of some apparently unacceptable behavior of mine, even though there was absolutely NOTHING in that comment that even remotely suggested that it had to do with what I did that was apparently wrong. And THAT'S what legit pissed me off, much more than that comment. Whatever happened to "says more about them than you"?

Roasting, I can tolerate. What I can't tolerate is people claiming that it's my fault; some shit I did warranted it in the first place. I suppose if I try to start a friendly conversation with someone at the bar and I get beat up for it, it's 100% my fault for annoying them with my presence?
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:iconjengajangle:
jengajangle Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
sounds like a bitter asshole. best to leave him alone so he can be bitter somewhere else.
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CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Edited 4 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
The problem was he wasn't bitter to anyone else. Only me. I find it hard not to take his bullshit personally because I've already got evidence suggesting it is personal.
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jengajangle Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
of course it's personal on his end. sometimes people can be so sad that they target a random person that angers them just a bit.
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LizzyChrome Featured By Owner 5 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
I got donuts. That solved my problems for the day. I suggest trying donuts.
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LizzyChrome Featured By Owner 5 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
I want cake.
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DumbledoreAskedCalm Featured By Owner 5 days ago  New Deviant
The cake is a lie!
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:icondrakensson:
Drakensson Featured By Owner 5 days ago
Nahm gonna who0p yoh liddle ehssho!
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:iconlpaki:
LPAki Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Professional General Artist
Context? lol
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CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I put up a shitpost of a Bemani game is all and that's how the attack happened.
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Rhiethreal Featured By Owner Sep 17, 2020  Hobbyist General Artist
Maybe you don't know what thick skinned means.
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:iconcysys8993:
CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Sep 17, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well what's your definition of "thick skin"?
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:iconrhiethreal:
Rhiethreal Featured By Owner Sep 18, 2020  Hobbyist General Artist
The correct one
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:iconcysys8993:
CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Sep 18, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Can you be more specific?
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:iconrhiethreal:
Rhiethreal Featured By Owner Sep 18, 2020  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes, I can.
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:iconcysys8993:
CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Sep 19, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
So why aren't you?
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:iconrhiethreal:
Rhiethreal Featured By Owner Sep 19, 2020  Hobbyist General Artist
You didn't ask.
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Dissonant-Wasteland Featured By Owner 5 days ago  Hobbyist Artist
They did ask. :stare: They literally said "Can you be more specific?".
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CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Sep 19, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
bruh
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TooSilence Featured By Owner Sep 17, 2020
Ha "KaizenKitty" is stupid, it She being huge fucking assholes, and you
did Nothing. I think it's best to You middel Ground.
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DumbledoreAskedCalm Featured By Owner Sep 17, 2020  New Deviant
Learn grammar!
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TooSilence Featured By Owner Sep 17, 2020
Don't touch that's I'll Laugh on You hahaha!!!!!
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DumbledoreAskedCalm Featured By Owner Sep 17, 2020  New Deviant
Um... what?!
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TooSilence Featured By Owner Sep 17, 2020
You hear me I'll LAUGH ON YOU!!!!! Hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!
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DumbledoreAskedCalm Featured By Owner Sep 17, 2020  New Deviant
Okay...
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niotabunny Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2020
that sounds about right.  miserable people trying to bring you down to their level of misery.  don't tick off the fans/posse things never go well with that.  that's a net thing, that sort of herd mentality can be seen everywhere.

read the updates: at least the mod of said area realized the situation and corrected it and didn't kick you out in the process, there have been times that admin of said area are just as bad as the others and side with them and not with the victim.
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CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
"there have been times that admin of said area are just as bad as the others and side with them and not with the victim."
That actually happened to me once in an online game guild. Once I joined, someone started to keep harassing me, but when I complained to the leader about it they accused me of being "sensitive" or some shit then precede to casually give the harasser the cliched "He'S jUsT hArDcOrE" excuse. I've left, and vowed to never log in that game again ever since. To this day they believe all that shit was 100% my fault.
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CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Edited Sep 16, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
KaizenKitty
Dissonant-Wasteland
I'd like to clarify something else: I actually PM'd the mod of the sub regarding if memes/shitposts were actually acceptable or not.
He told me that they're actually fine, and the only problem was that, as some people addressed in this post, I posted them too often.
The sub had no problem with memes/shitposts, only my unchecked posting frequency.
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Dissonant-Wasteland Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2020  Hobbyist Artist
So, the people attacking you over it are being huge fucking assholes, and you literally did nothing wrong.
God, people are stupid.
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CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
My only wrongdoing was that I got too happy with posting memes. That's it. But does that still warrant a random verbal attack? Doubt it.
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Dissonant-Wasteland Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2020  Hobbyist Artist
Yeah, getting a bit too excited to show off memes is nothing to harass someone over.
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Koma0w0 Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Those aren't real friends then.
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AlyDreamer Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Wow I can't believe people who were supposed to be your friends would blame you for something rude someone said to you. How does that make sense lol
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CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Edited Sep 15, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It's how people become doormats, because they start to believe anything that happens to them is unconditionally their fault.
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AlyDreamer Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah true
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CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Edited Sep 16, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Update: The mod (and the only one) in the sub noticed what was happening and removed that comment. That definitely compensated for the bullshit I had to deal with these past few days. :)
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Agent-Sarah Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2020  Hobbyist General Artist
Good to hear.
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CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Edited Sep 17, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Not all Reddit mods are bad and incompetent. No different than not all police officers are corrupt and racist. My experience is living proof.
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Idleye Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2020  Professional Digital Artist
Ok so wtf is bermani anyways. Those posts are just cringe and anyone interacting with them are as well. There are plenty of dweebs and salty losers on reddit. Move on.
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CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Bemani is Konami's rhythm game division, and is the reason we have games like DDR, iidx, Pop'n Music, etc.
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Idleye Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2020  Professional Digital Artist
I see. Anyways, looks like you have shitty friends. But I think I said it before, but it's hard to determine who's really at fault when we don't actually know you. The thing is if they actually are your friends and they are blaming you for whatever, then I think it's best to reevaluate your actions and/or talk to your friends as to why they think that way and see if there's a way you can fix that issue or find a middle ground. Communication is important in any relationship and sooner you guys talk it over, the better it'd be. Or just say fuck it and leave 🤷‍♂️
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blackbook668 Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2020
Pretty dickish? Sounds like one of the more reasonable comments honestly and probably true. Bibibibibibibi, what the hell is that?

Of course reddit types in their delusion always do take things far too seriously though.
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CYSYS8993 Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Oh that, it's from this rhythm game called Sound Voltex and one of the songs is called "Bi". It's become a subject of an internet meme where people repeat the Hiragana letter for Bi or any other letter with the same pronounciation. You should listen for yourself. It's quite an interesting song, actually.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6qDdgZUqD7o
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razorg456 Featured By Owner Edited Sep 15, 2020  Hobbyist General Artist
Since I only have your words to go off of, I can't really offer any
suggestions. I do know that cancel culture or online shaming
has become a real problem over the years. It's like we can't
have a difference of opinion anymore without everyone
taking things to the extreme. I do admit that some
things are thoughtless and need to be censored
but at the same time you only force the beast to
retreat until conditions are more favorable for
them to rear their ugly heads again when you
proceed in this manner. I would possibly
consider agreeing to disagree with them on
the meme or post or ask what about it
made them feel that you were at fault.
Knowledge is power after all. It's up to
you how you proceed.
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art-dude Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2020  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You have OCD dont you lmao?
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razorg456 Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2020  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm sorry, and even if that were true, do you take pleasure in that fact?
I'm not sure what your basing your assumptions off of, but its never a
good idea to pretend to understand something especially when it comes
to mental illness. If you had an actual PHD in psychology--which you don't
other wise that wouldn't have been your opening statement--you would
know not to poke fun at something you only have a limited understanding
of.
But if hurting others gives you a brief moment of gratification then by
all means take it. You need it a lot more than I do. Easy to take cheap shots
when your sitting behind a computer screen. You can have the low hanging
fruit.
I would also be careful because no sooner you take delight in someone else's
problems you might eventually learn you might have a few chinks in your own
armor as well somewhere down the line.
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art-dude Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2020  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Oh my you take so much offence on your own liberty!
I have OCD you paranoid moron!
I can relate, its funny...
I cant relate to taking offense at simple human interaction though, sorry for you, hope you manage to fix that <3
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linxminx Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2020  Hobbyist Digital Artist
omg why are people so sensitive lmaoo he was just joking. yeah mental illnesses suck but sometimes its better to laugh about it then cry. I have schizophrenia and bpd and I make jokes about it every damn day! chill out (:
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art-dude Featured By Owner Edited Sep 16, 2020  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
People have been conditioned to be overly sensitive, cant really be blamed on a individual level, but we can choose to do something about it on an individual level <3
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