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Define your own beautyYou can't possibly expect society to accept a definition of beauty when you can't even appreciate yourself. If you want things to change, start with how you look at yourself. Learn to love and consider yourself beautiful regardless of what size you are. People follow by example. Be that example.
Society changes for no one but it’s own whims and what is popular.
“I want a flatter tummy. Or I want society to change so I can feel better about myself.”
No, things don’t work like that. If you want to feel better about yourself, you need to deal with your own insecurities and learn to appreciate yourself as a whole, flaws