boyfreinds and why are they so hard to find?


darkstar11111's avatar
I haven't pot much thought to boys
honestly but I was at a Christmas party today and I was thinking wouldn't it be
nice to have someone to dance with? and then I started to think it would be nice
just to have someone to spend time with ya know guys?

but its hard to find good people in my home town there all older then
me if they are good men and if there my age there on all kinds of drugs
for real or they drink a lot or are just bad people non of them are nice
so what should I do I mean when I say there bad people I mean

there the kind of people to try and beat you and hurt you and cheat on you
so has anybody got any ideas for me? id kind of like someone to spend time with
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Vixuzar's avatar
you just gotta wait for that special someone
no matter how long it takes...
darkstar11111's avatar
pop2810's avatar
I'm a tall girl here 
it hard to find a good taller boy TuT
and i'm in a friendzone with my bestfriend ORZ
darkstar11111's avatar
must be hard there aren't a lot
of tall guys anymore my problem is that
a few older guys think im there age I guess I don't act my age at
all lol last one was 23! at that time I was 14
xillustrativeheartx's avatar
If you jump the gun, you're going to kiss a lot of toads before you find something even resembling a prince charming.

I know it sounds cliche but I am speaking from experience. It will happen when you least expect it, or when you think you want to give up.

You can find a dance partner anywhere, a date, what have you. But if you want something meaningful, waiting is best.
darkstar11111's avatar
ok i'll wait then!
Umbrayl-and-Paynx's avatar
It can sometimes take a lot of time and a lot of heartbreak to find "the one" though. Love can't be rushed but only found.

My perfect guy took me a lot of pain when it came to being with assholes till i found him :3

Everyone will have someone.
Gemdrop's avatar
Aww you guys. I had my first boyfriend when I was almost 19, and I know many people who have started much later. The time will come.

I do remember being kind of desperate too, but let's not talk about that :paranoid:
darkstar11111's avatar
heh I guess I should just wait!
Gemdrop's avatar
It's worth the wait :nod:
darkstar11111's avatar
true i bet it is!
Get---Out's avatar
:eyes:

My requirements are that you must be;

* 8 feet tall

*  86lbs

* 5 1/9 shoe size

* XXXL glove size

* vagina

* three breasts 

* two eyes

* Purple hair (must be natural)

* Carpet must NOT match the drapes

* Carpet will be rainbow colored (must be natural)

* must speak Shyriiwook (Wookie language) as first language

* must have evolved beyond the need to shower

* must have zebra ears

* must have donkey teeth

* fish lips

* triangle toe nails


I don't know why finding a girl like this is so hard.
Umbrayl-and-Paynx's avatar
beidoll's avatar
Don't worry about it.

When you're 30...then maybe start worrying.
darkstar11111's avatar
yeah ya know I shouldn't worry about it thanks!
LockStockCreation's avatar
All iv seen on fb newsfeed over the past month is "...... is in a relationship" and im sitting there like Julien Are you fucking kidding me ......seriously when is it my turn!!![EXO] Kris ''Legit'' Crying Emoticon 
darkstar11111's avatar
ahh you too huh? happens to me every time
I even fond someone nice on there that lives in MY TOWN and hes in a relationship
I was like Face Palm 
LockStockCreation's avatar
yes unfortunately and its driving me nuts X( the last guy that was interested in me and he said "Im sorry I do love you...as a friend" BOOOM friendzone.
lol karma can be a b*tch
darkstar11111's avatar
haven't be friendzoned yet but im sure it well happen
that would be my luck! lol
LockStockCreation's avatar
Lol i have bad luck so its no suprise to me x) but iv have managed to get out the friendzone once :3
darkstar11111's avatar
really how in gods name did you do that? that's
like imposable lol
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