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January 22, 2013


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Rinni-Boo Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2013  Student
When you think of a date, you probably imagine a romantic dinner at an expensive restaurant, right? Or maybe a chick flick movie at the theater. Then, the guy always has to pay for it because its "the gentlemanly thing to do". Or MAYBE the girl drags the guy all around the mall to go shopping.

Well I think thats a bunch of bullshit.

Yes, I think a romantic movie here and there is fine, but really, no wonder your boyfriend doesn't want to go on dates with you! In almost all cases, it's the girl who wants to do the things on the date. Did you ever once consider what the guy wanted to do?

Girls, if you start to think that maybe you're the one I'm talking about, try to imagine if you were in his position. Looking at designer clothes all day and waiting for you to try each and every one of them on, is not a date. He's just sitting around waiting for his 7 o' clock shave to grow back.

Try to do things that the guy wants to do, like playing video games for example. It probably doesn't sound like fun, but if it's something that both of you can participate in, you should at least give it a try. I don't mean playing an M rated game like Grand Theft Auto (however if she does like it then winner winner chicken dinner my friend) but something like Mario Kart or Smash Brothers. I don't know if this would be biased considering I love video games.. but still.

Perhaps, seeing a movie like The Avengers or some kind of action movie is his thing. Just something that HE wants to do.

Just a thought.
For the record, I'm a girl. So I'm not being sexist if that term even corresponds with if I would have been a guy.

Does anyone agree with this?

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FalseShepherd Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
I don't have a Calendar. :S
Rinni-Boo Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013  Student
D: Then you'll never know the dates!
FalseShepherd Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Oh wait, I do have my original, limited edition Mayan Calendar! Maybe slightly outdated though...
xRaeVen Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013
Those who slay together stay together ;D
AllieJacques Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013   Digital Artist
Shopping or video games aren't very good date ideas. The point isn't to do what one party wants, it's to find a mutually fun activity wherein both people can get to know each other. Every date I've been on always involved making plans we both like.
And then when you've been going out for a long time, eventually date night consists of wearing sweatpants, watching netflix and fighting over who has to make dinner :no:.
Lady-Platypus Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013  Student General Artist
Well,in my first date,we spent all the day playing RPG's,then he fell asleep over my lap.I freaked out and called his mom.
" Hehe,nice way to sleep,son.I'm sure you are enjoying it...huhu.."
"Nah....why?here,take your DS!You can play until he wakes up...
or you can sleep beside him....:iconheplz:"

Fine,I played for 3 minutes,but the battery was too low.*bip*Play time was over.
I didn't wake him up,but I think he is a somnambulant.He took the RPG game's king figure and sayed(with the eyes closed):
"See?This guy is awsome."
And he hugged me.He then released me and layed on the floor, continuing to sleep quietly. I went to the door to get out ... but ... HIS MOTHER LOCKED THE DOOR!!!!!

I hate that old woman.
jessi07 Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
Wow going shopping and looking at designer clothes all day?! *sigh* I feel like I'm w/ my girly friends. i wonder why i am friens w/ them :shrug: and when I DID had a boyfriend I was the one that wanted to play video games. i think he didn't really...liked or cared about that... And I TOTALLY agree w/ you. Girls should do things that the guys want to do on a date. i'm such a tomboy =D oh well who cares :dummy:
wolfos96 Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Is it wierd that when I saw "dates" I thought of the dried fruit thing?
mraaronmarker Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Good but the tiny crunchy seeds are a turn off.
KorukiKonaru Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013
If I caught myself a bloke who's really into video games and would want to play with me, I'll have hit the jackpot.
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