Have you ever gotten really upset or angry about something, then looked back however long afterwards and realized how stupid, insignificant, irrelevant or whatever it was in the end? If so, do tell. Schadenfreude pleases me.
I have a lot of times before I left my teens, I can't think of anything specific right now, but I know I've took things the wrong way loads of times and begun insulting people back, though they may have been joking or meant something entirely different.
Now I take time to think about it and it's a great advantage toward these situations, when I can manage to.
It happens but most of the time it's more the accumulation of small problems and frustrations, I could be upset that a group of DA refuse my work just because I've had a bad day at work for example. Car is probably the most typical place where such explosion happen, it's stupid, but it's human