I tend to not hold grudges long, if at all. The exception was when my ex-fiance cheated on me. I refrained from doing anything nasty at the time. But the circus isn't over til the fat lady takes a bow, so who knows the time, the place, or when, a red headed Irish woman will get even.
When I'm wronged I feel the need to give them a reason to watch it, seeing as they didn't respect me for being a person,they can respect me for my power over them. I've had one instance when it made me laugh my ass off, and another when following someone's advice and ignoring was a whole lot more peaceful for me, otherwise I would've had to be annoyed further by talking with the person even if my messages might've dealt some blows I didn't get in otherwise. Those are my most recent and I won't disclose further info. I don't really view revenge as venting, I do it as my own measure of offense being the best defense in some situations.
I believe in justice, I believe in vengeance, I believe in getting the bastard, Getting the bastard, Getting the bastard.
Nah, I do believe that payback is the right thing in certain situations, but it's very important to be aware of potential consequences. Also, when getting revenge on someone, it's important that the subject is aware that what is happening is a consequence of messing with you. In order for me to seek revenge, you'd really have to piss me off - but it has happened...