I like smart, sensitive, funny guys who aren't boring and that I'm able to carry a conversation with. He must also have manners, show me respect, be creative (or at least have a little imagination), and secure. Not necessarily secure in life, but secure in mind more than anything. Paranoia and smothering behavior will not be tolerated.
(Also, currently taken by a guy who meets the above criteria. Sorryyy. )
I've been thinking about that for many years, and I've only come up with one thing: I really don't know. I've liked guys that have different backgrounds, different personalities, etc. and I haven't really come up with a common factor in all of them.
people who are like....open. but not too open! they're not all defensive and judgmental and stuff. judgmental and prejudiced people really piss me off so in a guy it's just 100% no. money really isn't an issue for me. i don't care if people are rich or poor so long as they don't beg money off me/mock me for being poorer than them. people call me rich but i never really noticed until recently? it was just a thing. i don't think i'm actually rich per say. back to qualities: honest. and not going off cadoodling with other ladies.
tbh i don't have a clean-cut ideal for perfection? i just kind of know who i like and i don't oops. good looks do matter but they're my own personal taste so...yeah.
I think I answered this before but here I go again: I know what doesn't attract me. You know what is a big turn off? The type of men who are full of insecurity/negativity and when you watch TV with them they sit there and toss insults at the different people they see on TV. They'll do the same thing on sites like this one. They'll get all critical with strangers or attack them verbally. They have nothing nice to say to anyone. It makes my brain feel like it's rotting.
I like guys who won't rely on pick up lines to impress a girl Pick up lines are cheesy, and more of a joke than anything to be used seriously.
But on with the serious (though the above was also true) answer. I am not very picky when it comes to appearance, but I like a guy who is smart, funny, who has similar beliefs, and generally just a guy who is different. I don't really care if a guy has money either. As far as good looking, I do have a thing for guys with long hair and ponytails. I also like kinda skinny guys in general, muscular might also be nice, or even a bit pudgy might be okay(though I might shy away from someone who is pretty overweight). I also am not picky about height either. Tall guys are nice, but I like being proud of being taller than them >:D Half of guys might be able to beat 5'9 though. Short guys might be cute though :3 Idk, that's just my general preferences.
For the record I am dating someone else. And I'm also not very pretty. In fact, I look like a dude if I'm wearing my hair/clothes right.
Someone with an open mind, who is always willing to learn and understand life around them and doesn't think of themselves as some God just because society keeps enforcing that males are the by all and end all instead of being some testosterone fulled chest thumper who's idea of fun is to pound their chest to football.