It's a very serious question guys, so I look for normal answers. I opened this thread because I got a lot of critics in my life, lot of people used to make fun of me, and I can't get over it. The worst case was when a boy ran after me, asked me to turn around, then he laughed and said: how ugly! Now I have a sweet boyfriend who loves me, but he had a really beautiful girlfriend before, and I only think about that he certainly wants to be better with her than with me.. I thought all my life that I'm very ugly, and still think the same, I can't do anything. It's not about getting comments that 'Noo, you're not ugly', or anything like that.. Just tell me, what do you think, what makes a girl or a boy ugly. Don't be a hypocrite, I don't want comments like "only intrinsic values matter", because it's not true. Everybody looks at the outside first. So let's go.
It depends on the arrangement of the features on a particular face. I've seen some physically ugly people, but that is fleeting when you talk to them cos they're usually worth knowing. An erect carriage, confidence, warmth, sweetness, intelligence, good humor and curiosity are big pluses. They are still attractive.
I find people with hard eyes really unattractive, you can see the ugliness in their souls, and the older you get, the more obviously it manifests itself on the face.
You were bullied. Bullies pick where's there's meat(people who are different). The quality is irrelevant.
Celebrities and those who insist on looking like them/following aspects of their style. The wealthy. Tanning Mom. Chris-chan. Any member of the Suleyman, Gosselin or Duggar families. Also pro-lifers, treehuggers, people who deny that overpopulation exists and anyone with a fundamentalist religious view instantly becomes as unattractive as the aforementioned once I learn about those views.
I don't often see someone who's actually ugly, at least to me. Usually, I find human faces becoming or annoying, rarely beautiful or hideous. When I meet someone, I offer them a chance to prove they're pretty on the inside, or, well, ugly.
It's a bit different story when it comes falling in love, I'm a bit more picky then and I guess it's some kind of genetic instinct. The same pickyness also prevents me from actually falling in love with someone for quite some time now. Damn...