Hmm... There is something to be said for the tactical aproach wherein one flames every opponent. If she had posted scientific papers proving her point, then people would probably go off to the next thread and forget about this. Whoever, this (the flaming) ends the purpose of debate and raises the attention people will give to the subject. The remaining question is: Does this affect people coming across in a positive or negative manner? The problem with that question is that we cannot answer it by using the internet, since the existance of the silent crowd.
... How the hell do you back that one up? By scientific standards the full conception of romantic love is several different psychological, endocrinological and neurological processes happening at once, some which can happen entirely seperately and others which cause one another. It can be highly influenced by our psychological and rational decisions, sometimes.