In all honesty, you should've kept all the personal details of your life regarding women to yourself and kept the description of your thread as general as possible (i.e "What are your opinions of women?")
Now half of this thread consists of people trying to woo you back over to dating women again (And your hidden misogyny) where it all should centered on discussing people's opinion on the opposite (or same) gender.
i think you have been meeting the wrong sort of women.
A good women can make you feel complete and even when you have had the worst day imaginable if you come home and see a beautiful women smile and ask how your day went you cant help but smile back and say it was bad but its looking a lot better now I am here with you.
unfortunately I haven't had that for years now but i live in hope that one day i might experience it agian
I agree with you about women being like roses. We are made the be beautiful. Personally I think girls who are not pretty shouldn't even be considered girls at ALL. I mean, beauty is natural to women, women should be beautiful, don't you think? Why shouldn't a girl try to be beautiful? is she isn't she is failing her job of being a girl! V_V
Yeah women can hurt guys and guys also hurt women . . . Like for example. I know what you mean about how the friend zone really sucks, because I am right now friendzoned by the guy I am in love with!
He keeps on dating these stupid girls who cheat on him and abuse him. They are all uglier than me, stupider than me . . . the worst part is, he and I are PERFECT for each other. We have the same sense of humor, same taste in food, we can tell each other anything, always there to help each other out . . . I wrote three essays for him last year in school!
But yet he always passes me up for the girls who treat him like crap!
So can you tell me why men do stuff like this?! I just don't understand men at all!!
Fetishes (There is specifics of the subject that turns them on/example: all cheerleaders, all wearing boots, all with a specific hair style, and so on)
It might help to see what they all have in common to figure out his stimulation interests that attracted him to the past girls.
You have to ask yourself though, "Do I really want to change myself, to get the guy?"
Your options look grim on both sides here:
If you tell him, you might lose him as a friend as well as a lover. If you do not tell him you might end up fading out of the picture after high school or worst be side lined at his wedding, watching him get married to another woman.
Trust me, if you do tell him your feelings, make it not in front of the rest of the school. It would be very embarrassing to get rejected in front of everyone else. It should be personal anyways.
You wanted to know why a guy would keep going back to women that did not work out for him, IF the guy has triggered on fetishes of interest based on what the girls are wearing or how they act, it is pretty much like a moth to the flame and he keeps going for it.
Who knows though, maybe there is no fetish and the guy just has bad luck with how he chooses women.
The thing about roses and women is that they very rarely exist just for you. Either they're wild and exist for themselves, or they're planted. Probably by your neighbor. And I don't think your neighbor plants a lot of women. They have difficulty growing roots in soil, so not a lot of gardeners even attempt it, these days.
Women are human, which means they are each unqiue, with their own life experiences and character traits.
To keep with your Rose imagery, these lead to her either inflicting pain on others or herself (thorns) or giving her the strengh to live out to her full potential and provide stability and happiness to those around her (roots- the other end to an uncut rose you havent considered)
Rather than generalizing that all 'roses' are the same, take the time to find the right one.
That said, generalizations are never true and dont help anyone move forward in life.
Women and men are objects to me at best. Emotions is the last thing that comes in mind. I'd be more inclined to be with a woman only for reproduction reasons and also financial+domestic reasons. If I was a woman, I'd be more inclined to be with a man for pretty much the same reasons. We're just a set of chemicals. You and I seem to be most likely won't exist.