She is selfish egoistical moron for: -Falling in love with an inmate (relationships between staff and inmates are forbidden) -Putting not only herself but also her daughter near an ex-killer who lacks self control
Well, it's not smart to be in a relationship with a murderer, because the sort of person who commits one murder is likely to do it again, on purpose or by accident. He/she probably has mental issues of some kind.
That said, every case is different, and I have no problem with the basic concept of someone falling in love with a murderer.
Depends on what you mean by society. On this forum, or in real life?
IN REAL LIFE: No, it is not okay for them to judge her at all. It is her choice, and hers only. If they can't get over that fact, then they must forgive their loved ones easily, showing that they are not very good friends/relations/whatever.
ON THIS FORUM: Well, the word "judge" is kind of a harsh word. Think of it as an opinion. You posted this forum, and all forums get haters. It's natural, trust me.