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Help, my girlfriend is a nympho

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Tsunamiworlds Featured By Owner Dec 3, 2007
So, I've been dating this girl for a few weeks, and she recently admitted to me that she's a nymphomaniac. Unfortunately (?) for her, I've yet to tell her that I'm a virgin and I'm waiting for marriage. My folks like her, and we get along great, but I don't know what to tell her. When we are with other people it's never a problem, when we're alone the topic always comes up. Always.

Part of me wants to tell her she's fine to go screw around with other guys, but the other part is kind of wondering if I should just go for it (if you will).

Please help. What do I do?
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Wrathlon Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2008
Stop being a fucking baby and have sex jesus christ. Or wait until marriage to be a failure at sex and lose an obviously great girl. "Oh noes my life is over because my penis was in a certain location on the planet before I was married". Its dumb, get over it.

Failing that give me her number cause if thats true she isnt going to stick around.
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megachaos Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2008  Professional General Artist
if you're abstinent, then you shouldn't be with her at all. you shouldn't be unequally yoked with someone whose beliefs don't parallel your own
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psychogizmo Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2008  Hobbyist Photographer
Well, sex is an important part of a relationship, my friend.

Personally, I think that the tradition of waiting for marriage is sooo outdated. What's the point? So you can give your future wife an awesome gift? I think it would be an even more awesome gift if you got some practice in and were able to give her some pretty mindblowing rather than awkward sex on your wedding night.

PS. Sex is awesome.
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Kaemon1243 Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2008  Student Photographer
OH...wow hard indeed! try to talk to her ok? if she loves you then she'll wait till you get married or whatev. or you could go against your morals and do it ALL NIGHT LONG! but talk to her please. it usually helps
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skkulptor Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2008
if u dn't someone else will :) it's jus a matter of time. Be a man and give the women what she needs.
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YTcyberpunk Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2007  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
If you don't want to do it don't do it. I'm sure this girl is nice, but it's usually only one relationship in your life that will last forever. Don't throw away something you're saving over a relationship that probably isn't permentant. Just my 2 cents.
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AmberGlass Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2007
tell her how you feel and to not keep bringing it up. if it continues and you still want to stay a virgin then your going to beak up. its a lot of tension, especially because you both don't understand each other. If you stay together then one of you is going to have to give something up...in this case its sex or virginity and a girl won't want to give up sex. :)
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Villanelle Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2007   Photographer
It seems you two are incompatible. Even if you have sex to please her (and OH GOD DON'T, do it for YOU, not someone else!) you'll still be walking on two different roads with the sex thing.

Unless, of course, she's not actually a nymphomaniac and, not realising you're a virgin, is telling you this so you'll like her more. Keep that as a possibility.
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Cenaris Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2007  Hobbyist General Artist
If anything, I think girls are more interested in sex than boys, it's just nature.
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fullmoon-child Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2007   Photographer
well, i guess either you change your opinion or you should break up. i mean, someone who love sex, don't wait. when you like to swimm or whatever, you won't stop just because your boy/girlfriend are afraid of water. yeah love can do alot but every human being have their own needs and if you can't give her what she want, then sooner or later she search that on someone else.
i think you just live once. when you love someone, why not share something special together and discover other worlds together. i don't think sex is a sin or somethin' like that. sex is a way of share closeness, love and the feeling or being something special.
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