so, I've already posted about 3 times about advices on how to confess my feeling to the guy I like. I told him I liked him, and since then he won't speak to me, and avoid me at first I thought it would be awkward for a couple of days then it's forgoten, but no. it's been 2 weeks now, and he avoids me as much as he can, and the only word he speaks is "hi" or "bye" and he looks any other way than me when he talks to me. we ride the same bus, and that doesn't really help, in fact, it makes it worse. he treats everybody else the same but ignores me. when I sign in on msn he sets his status to busy or away and sometimes even once he blocked me(i checked with someone else weather he was on or off, but I don't go around stalking him.). anyway, what happened??why does he hate me all of a sudden? why did he do that, why won't he speak to me? couldn't he just say "sorry I don't like you in that way" or just making any signs that he doesn't like me in the same way?? I know it was a mistake to tell him in the first place..but..oh well, it's a mistake and im paying for it now. so I want to make everything right the way it used to be(which is, we used to talk alot, played games together and more stuff). help me!! I don't want to to lose him as a friend if I can't make him understand that I really REALLY like him withought executing a "killer" grip on his neck and make him hate me even more.

sorry for the wall of text guys, but I hat to let it out.

Just let it go, kill him with a smile an walk away, they say kill your enemy with kindness, well guess what it does work TRY IT!!

He is quite the typical man, I know that comment sounds typical but hey, all of my exes are just that way, and it irritates me what they gave up. He is giving up you, but you shouldn't give up you. It sounds kind of corny, but take it. Some people are just too rawkin' for men (or women) like that!
My advice is not so good today.

he's ignoring you because he doesn't like you. Guys don't often come right out and say things like "I don't like you" or conversely "I do like you", the famous example being of course the guy who's totally unwilling to say "I love you" even if he does. Guys just don't do that, they aren't very vocal about those things. That stuff that he does, the blocking you and avoidance is just his way of saying "I'm not interested, leave me alone". He's probably also not interested in going back to the way things used to be since he's made it abundantly clear that he doesn't feel comfortable around you anymore. Just let it go, it's hard, but it's the only way you'll keep your pride and not get hurt anymore than you already have. Give him time and lots of space, for this silence is the best thing, and if he does come back in the end to be friends or whatever then great. But forcing the issue into the open by asking him to be friends agian will probably at this point force him to just say no outright. If you lay low he may change his mind later on. Best of luck to you!

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Ah, 'the typical guy' huh? makes me feel....bad....
He feels uncomfortable around you, and if you keep edging towards him, he'll only start ignorin' ya and want to escape.

He doesn't want to hurt you by sayin' that he doesn't like ya.
But at times he probably does, but can't.

I think us guys would hate ourselves for saying such a thing. But we suffer every time we see 'that' girl and avoid her by making it seem like there's even a hope, when there's not.
Every time we see her. Every time we avoid her. Every time we ignore her.
Growing an unreasonable hate. It kills us inside.
A curse to 'being the kind guy'. We just can't say it.
Agreein' with Rastaban, give him space, a lot of it. And forget about that possibility, move on from it. Dunno, it might feel better if you hated him for a lil while, maybe it'll kill him-even more- to see you like that.

^^" apologies if I don't add anythin, especially to Rastaban's reply.

Btw, it wasn't a mistake sayin' that you liked him.
It's better this way. As a guy, I'm saying this because it's better you not waste time trying alone if it takes two to make it work.
Because I don't think a guy would completely avoid a girl just cuz she said she liked him.
But he wouldn't want to see her try when it's pointless either- it only makes it worse.
And it kills him inside every second seeing you.
He might have had a doubt in his mind a for a long time.
....Ah, I dunno the guy....but I am in a very similar situation....being that guy....the 'typical guy', feeling bad about it. He may not feel like what I've described, but it is atleast what I'm feeling right this second....and now....I dunno if I would want 'her' to see this or not....

Tell me, how would you like a guy- you are trying to know better (to say the least)- to say that he doesn't like you?

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Evasive boredom gets the best of us procastinating fuckers.
There shouldn't be a reason in order to interact with someone, other than that you can.
Do not fear affecting someone's life, the only person to blame is the one who can't handle love.

ah,
=3
sry that's a bit long....just....the same reason/excuse you had.
I had to let it out...


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Evasive boredom gets the best of us procastinating fuckers.
There shouldn't be a reason in order to interact with someone, other than that you can.
Do not fear affecting someone's life, the only person to blame is the one who can't handle love.

some guys are idiots. i had a guy ignore me for 2 weeks after i said i liked him before telling me he didnt feel that way. (the prick phrased it as (somebody told me you....) yes i know someone did. that was ME!!!!

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Give him time. It might have made him feel pretty awkward, or scared.

If you give him a while and he still hasn't gotten over himself, forget about him and move on. He's a dick.

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I guess you're right. maybe I should just ignore him. everytime I see him these days I have this weird feeling in my stomach like I want to just leave. and you know what? I'm starting to hate him already. so..I think it's up to him now if he wants me back as a friend.