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Gawd, I SO know what you mean. There's been so MANY times where I just didn't realize how much I didn't need those kind of people. Guilt tactics always took hold of me, and afterwards I would figure it out and feel so stupid and hurt even more. I agree with you totally. If you haven't done anything wrong, there should be no apologizing. Besides, friends should understand that friends make mistakes, and if they're willing to admit them and try to make things better, then dropping them is stupid.
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Two wrongs are only the beginning.
Yep. There is one however, who I really should have let go. She was telling me that she was ok with me asking her all these questions, and then later on, she just up and left me for that reason. And she slagged off in her journal about me putting some secret of her's in a fanfic, when she had told me she was more than happy to let me do that. I should have put more value on myself, but instead, I made myself look very cheap.
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Yea. It sucks when we do that. But the best thing to do is think of it this way: They made themselves look like more of an ass by dropping you.
It's a confidence booster.
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It's a confidence booster.
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Two wrongs are only the beginning.
I've been in both positions -- as the one discarding the unwanted friend, and the one being discarded. Generally, if you want to get rid of someone, then they have done something to annoy you...but you're right, the best reaction from both parties is a nice big 'Fuck you.'
Burn those bridges. Burn them to the ground.
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If I wrote down the things in my head, they would call me crazy.
Burn those bridges. Burn them to the ground.
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If I wrote down the things in my head, they would call me crazy.
Yeah. But still, if a friend is being annoying, it's best to just say "What you're doing is annoying, please stop" the first time that person does that, if the two of you are friends. Otherwise, he(like myself) could end up feeling very used and abused.
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I just stopped talking to them unless they had something I needed. Right now one of them has one thing I need, and after I get it, I'm done with them.
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Three tips for successful living: Quit bitching, lighten up, and get a job.
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Three tips for successful living: Quit bitching, lighten up, and get a job.
i dont know if thats such a cool thing to do =/ not only does it make them feel right to treat you the way they do and people like myself would be very hesitant to be your friend in the first place.A reputation you will make indeed =/ I am not saying you are useing people but it sounds like it
You got it exactly right 
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"You're a jerk. Good bye!"
That's all you need to say.
Yes, this is a weird thread for the "Help With Life" forum, but I had a feeling that there is something that needs to be done for people like myself, who don't have any self-respect, and depend on others for approval. Then maybe there would be alot more happy people out there.
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