I accidentally told her I loved her...
4 years ago I became best friends with Abby, who I later developed romantic feelings for. I never told her how I felt up until she transferred colleges to Minnesota. Sometime later I started dating Chelsea. Two weeks into our relationship, I found out Abby liked me and I still had feelings for her. Chelsea told me to break up and go with Abby so I did. But I was conflicted because I liked both of them, but I saw Chelsea everyday and Abby was in MN. After two excruciating weeks of stress, I ended up choosing Chelsea. I broke Abby's heart and I really REALLY hurt her.
I later found out it was the wrong choice. Chelsea ended up breaking my heart. I still have feelings for Abby but I'm pretty sure nothing will come of it since I hurt her so bad. We are still best friends and we talk all the time, even though she is training in the Army. We were talking last night about the hints we gave each other back when we didn't know we actually liked each other. And I accidentally slipped out the fact that I loved her. Now I'm freaking out and she never replied back on it. I didn't mean to say it and now I'm worried that I damaged our friendship (again). I'm such an idiot! I don't know if I should give her some space or try to talk to her?
I messed up.
I'll be visiting her in VA in October so we will probably do stuff there like go to the beach or something. And she loves minions (she hasn't seen the new movie) so we are going to watch that together. It'll be a silly date
I'm not sure she is a flower person...but then again I've never tried so I don't know for sure. Rose is in her middle name so maybe I'll send some roses!
Postcard/letter is a great idea! I don't think I'll be able to send her one every day haha but I'll definitely mail her something!
Also, here is something interesting for you: www.psychologytoday.com/blog/o…
The article is pretty great! Thanks for sending it to me it is really interesting and quite applicable.
If she agrees to be with you then great! But if she says no at first, there could be a way of someday turning the answer into a yes. Best of luck!
I hope she says yes! I ended up asking her out but she says she will have to wait until after her Army training is finished to give me an answer because she isn't allowed to date until then. Sooo...does that mean she will say yes?
Either she is still weighing her options and is using the training as a way to get more time to consider everything, or she does want to date you but doesn't want her training to get in the way of the beginning of your honeymoon phase. I say this because when they say "no dating" it has to translate to "no distractions". She wouldn't be punished if she was already with someone when she started her training.
Both of these options are in your favor though because if she didn't want to be with you she would have just said "no."
Haha we won't get much of a honeymoon phase since we won't see each other much but oh well.
We are also planning on going to Alaska together next September, just us too. So that'll be awesome too!
Maybe it'll all work out!
then I would say get a catapult of write her name in the sky.
Or pour out all her feelings to her, look her in the eyes after driving hours to get up there, say it to her face and ask for an answer.
If you get her, gummy bears.
If she says no, get gummyworms.
If she still isn't sure buy her a 25 pound gummy worm.
There's gummy candy at the end of all results.
Love is friendship ignited. Best of luck to you, sailor!
Gummy bears sound like an awesome idea haha! I'll mail her some if she says yes lol
And then bring her a 25 pound gummy worm next time I visit her!
Thank you!
Another option is cooking for her.
Girls love a man who can bake.
Send her baked goods, and a hand written card.
She will go nuts.
I suck at baking though. I follow the directions and I still fail miserably D:
But good idea! You're brilliant!