I'm sorry that I offended you. I didn't mean to do that. I am trying to convince her myself. I've posted a bunch of comments on that journal, sent her some links, and I'm planning on drawing her a picture to cheer her up. I just don't want her to make a decision like that. I'm sorry I offended you by posting this in the forums. I did it because there weren't any rules I could see against that, this forum is for helping other deviants in tough situations, and finally because I read her journal and the comments, she's feeling very loved and helped by the comments she's been receiving and I posted this here so other well-meaning deviants could give her some kind words as well. She's not trying to get away from help, please read the comment threads in the journal and you'll see what I mean. I realize you think I shouldn't have done that and I'm sorry I made you feel that way. I just want to help her.