I need a girlfriend too!!! Wait, I don't Do I? Let's see... supposing that a month has 43829.1 minutes & I only felt the need of needing a girlfriend for only 15 minutes & 73814.1 minutes feeling happy to be a single, so that means I don't need a girlfriend after all, sorry! That said Supposing that you're from America, if you need a boyfriend. All you need to do is to get drunk in a bar full of men. Best of luck
may I point out that people that freak out in a, you know, real panicking way, might be arachnophobic? Being scared of spiders most often isn't a reasonable response, and it's rather obvious they won't harm us and are indeed most likely more afraid of humans than we are of them. Sadly, even the best arguments fade when face to face with spiders.
However, this is no reason to be in need of a boyfriend. You already got some pretty good advice here I suppose so theres not much to be added from my side. You like male attention? Go out and be a flirty girl (not saying 'hey, jump straight into bed with them', but go and have some fun, many men actually like giving a pretty girl attention and will be happy about a nice flirt). You are an independend woman, thought. There is certainly no NEED of a boyfriend, althought it might be convenient at times. Rather, find some good friends that will help you out in stuations like this
I havnt had a boyfriend for years and my relationships before then were sporadic to say the least, so I know I havnt NEEDED one, I misworded it, I was being silly whilst thinking there was some logic to it also, just like if you worked 16 hours a day and you hired a cleaner, you life would get easier in one department
You don't need a boyfriend to get a spider out of your clothes. Just dump your clothes out of the bag an into the floor. If the spider doesn't dart out of your clothes, the grab a stick or coat hanger and throw your clothes around until you see it fall off of them. Then suck up the spider with a vacuum cleaner. Problem solved.
Its a little bit more difficult than that though, I zone out and become crippled with fear. Its not abit of anxiety or nerves that you can just push through, my body can turn to jelly and cannot move sometimes. Other times I have managed to get a cup over some like I said
Ha I have other phobias where the same thing happens. I've been to see a therapist many times over the past few years but the only thing that has helped is avoidance or lacing myself with various concoctions. Exposure doesnt work for me. I would have to have a pet spider that was proven to not bite probably to overcome it, but my fear is not of the little ones its the ones that bite. I also have fear of insects getting inside any of my holes :eek: I still do things, it just makes the situation not enjoyable at all and quite traumatic, like if I go camping I have to check the whole area, make sure everything is sealed in and everytime I think something crawls on me I turn a light on, but eventually I become less concerns.
Also you know that species change really quickly in the UK for such a small space, some spiders in other areas dont bother me as much.
Lmao at all the people getting offended; is it that big of a surprise that some bfs do buy their gfs things? Lulul people that like free things?! Blasphemyyyy zzzzzzzz and gl with that spider, theres so many of them in my house that iv even accepted chilling with them in the shower i vaccuum them when possible though..since you said you dont wanna kill them maybe they could still be alive in there youneverknowwwww
I think maybe it is just the way we brought up as children. I know alot of men who just do nothing in a relationship but change their relationship status on facebook and have sex occasionally with the person they are in one with. Maybe that is what people mean when they say there is more to relationship.
No vaccum, my friend told me to do that but I couldnt, so mean.
From your other replies though isn't sex one of the things you want in a relationship anyways? ;D and also based on those, there's something else that a "relationship" calls for that you either don't understand or don't really care about. In either case, sex + free stuff, it's all good. And if you love them so much just poke them out D: I had bugs trapped under clear cups and then brought outside cuz they were too big to squish indoors and would make a mess ==;;
depends how you wanna look at it. If you wanna break everything down, then in the end we all die so why you bother posting on this forum? But not everyone likes to be that pessimistic, and assigning values to things brings happiness to us :3
Sometimes you need to make yourself feel good. Instead of being afraid of spiders stand up to them. Also satisfy yourself go out and buy yourself stuff. When you feel bad smile it away, laugh, and try to find joy in the little things you have.
No, you are not a bad person. You just have a very unfortunate perception of relationships.
Nobody needs a boyfriend. You might want one, but you don't need one to be happy. Also consider that getting rid of spiders and buying you things doesn't qualify as a relationship, so if those are your only reasons for wanting a relationship then you're not ready for it.
No not the only reasons but some of the main ones, other things like sharing bills, making my social standing better, sexytime, sexyholidaytime and to have a photographic subject(although only one of my ex's was a poser the rest hide when i ask them to strike a pose incase their wife sees i think)
They are weaved into everything though for me I think.
I buy a guy present, I only do it because I care about him and think it will lift his spirits for a while. I think then I think maybe he thinks im trying to buy him so will say ' hey I dont wana nuttin from you'