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is drawing erotic things makes u a slut or a fcking whore

:iconedaofblacklagoon:
edaofblacklagoon Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I am so fucking sick of my sister or maybe my cousin or brother..

right now, my sister entered my room because I forgot to lock then suddenly saw my finished work art being super erotic? ---> [link] just judge.

and she was like. "Holy fcking shit! I'll just pretend I don't see anything and get back and go and close the door".

I mean guys! please! what the hell is wrong with all this people. I wanted to draw more anatomy and shit or some sexy thing. but then, my brother or cousin or all my sister call me a slut because of drawing one.

they fcking cannot understand that drawing a body or sexy things makes my art better for something. I'm not even not lust on it. I JUST FCKING LOVE DRAWING ONE~~


but I feel so down on making one or just stop because like my sister. once we fight or someday that we will fight. he will nag me about how slut and whore I am. why am I drawing erotic things. (Take note! I am not fcking drawing some private parts.. only the sexy one. and I'm 24. free to draw one). but then my brothers calls me a pervert! what the hell.

everytime I have to draw. I really have to lock the door so tight. to concetrate on drawing. or sometimes. keeping my sketch book in a very safe place were my brothers couldn't see.

please help me, whatever I explain to them that I love drawing sexy things. they call me repressed or slut or pervert even tho, I mean WOW! does it makes u a dirty bitch if u'll draw erotica's.

right now, I'm so excited that my cousin will request me to draw one of her FHM crush. so atleast someone understand how I feel. I'm straight by the way. I just love sketching ladies. enough said my god! -___-
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NeutraStaff Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2013
Well...no, not really. It's like this, everyone has a dark side, but it can be expressed as art. A lot of people don't like Marylin Manson because they say he's a devil worshiper and stuff like that, but in reality he's very intelligent and sophisticated.

Anyway, you can show art that's unusual and stands out, but deep down you could be a completely different person then the art you represent. Let me put it this way, in some of my novels I put in all kinds of heavy language, swearing and sexual themes at times. In real life, I don't swear at all and rarely talk about sexual themes. Just because you have a piece of art that may seem dark in real life, doesn't mean that you as a person are the same. Just like actors, most actors in real life are nothing like the characters they portray, think about that.
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WatchHerFly Featured By Owner Feb 7, 2013
You like to draw that kind of stuff. There isn't really anything wrong with that.
I'm thinking your siblings are reacting the way they are because it's not something they're used to seeing, and it's not something they personally would like. It was also probably one hell of a surprise.

I think they could have chosen their words towards you better. I suppose you could try to explain to them what you said about you not being a perv or a freak, and tell them that what they said to you hurt you, even if your tastes in drawing did make them uncomfortable.
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Keeper-Of-Pickles Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2013
Your sibling needs a dictionary.
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slimoracle Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
The only way drawing erotic art would make you any of those things would be if you were having sex with it. Other than that, I'll echo what other people have said and say that you can draw whatever you want to draw and who cares what other people think of it.
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JessicaAnn87 Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
A lot of people think erotic art is slutty. I beg to differ
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DarkDevil16 Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
ART IS ART. It might be erotic, gothic, childish or whatever, but it is still art. And most important of all, is YOUR art. So please, keep doing it,it is the best food for your soul :hug:
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zombie-goldfish Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2013  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
There's nothing wrong with drawing erotic art, I'm thinking of starting drawing some myself, it's a great way to practice human forms and proportion.
Your picture is definitely not porn or whatever your sister makes out it is, she sounds very immature to call you names for drawing a picture.
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prosaix Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2013
Well they might not be entirely wrong. Maybe you're starving for an active sex life or something, unwillingly letting out your inner 'slut'. :)
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:iconedaofblacklagoon:
edaofblacklagoon Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I don't know what to say about this :lmao:
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prosaix Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2013
So it's true? :evileye:
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edaofblacklagoon Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
what if I said yes :XD: just kidding. ofcourse, nooooooo...................! :turbopoke: :meow:
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Aristedes Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2013
Well the ancient Greeks believe that the human body was a beautiful thing and to be ashamed of it is a insult to the gods who we are made in their image. They also believe to be ashamed of the body means your a shame of yourself. By calling you slut it show their childishness and inexperience.

Oh btw are you really in north Korea O.o?
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EbolaBears Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2013
Oh yeah. Make sure you draw a HUGE piece of art in your style, like the size of a door!:w00t:

That way no one can ignore it in your room.:iconsawthatplz:
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EbolaBears Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2013
You do what you want and the rest of the world can kiss your ass. It is your art. You own it. If anyone objects or disagrees tell them to take it to the complaint department and then point towards a toilet.

You answer to no one when it comes to your personal work.

:hug:
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RavynneNevyrmore Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2013  Student Digital Artist
There's no such thing as a slut.
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EbolaBears Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2013
There sure is such a thing, the definition just needs to be updated and made gender neutral.
Sluts and whores are just as real as hard workers and sponges. Your agreement or approval is not relevant.
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RavynneNevyrmore Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2013  Student Digital Artist
A "slut" is someone who has more sex than the person using the word deems appropriate. Since the opinion of the accuser is of no relevance, there is no such thing as a slut.
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EbolaBears Featured By Owner Feb 7, 2013
So then the opinion of an accuser who claims someone is a thief, or a liar, or trouble maker is of no relevance either.

That fits in great with the grey haired men in the republican party that
want women who claim to be the victims of rape to be re-titled accsuers instead of victims while anyone who claims to have been robbed or assaulted is still a victim.

Brilliant!
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RavynneNevyrmore Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2013  Student Digital Artist
"So then the opinion of an accuser who claims someone is a thief, or a liar, or trouble maker is of no relevance either."


Let's go over these definitions again.

thief: someone who has stolen. "Stealing" is defined as taking someone else's property without permission of the owner.

liar: someone who has told a lie. A "lie" is defined as a false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive.

trouble maker: someone who has started trouble. This, too, could be somewhat subjective, but could be defined as purposely instigating a conflict without noble intentions (such as challenging the status quo because it is believed to be unjust). Dictionary.com says "a person who causes difficulties, distress, worry, etc., for others, especially one who does so habitually as a matter of malice."

slut: someone who has "too much" sex. "Too much sex" is defined by the opinion of the person using the slur, according to that individual's personal moral code.

Please share with me your intended strategy for accusing someone of objectively having "too much sex" in a court of law. Then I will give some examples of how someone could objectively be proven to have lied, stolen, or incited trouble out of malice. (Frankly I'm not even entirely sold on that last one.)



Alternatively, it could be argued that me saying "There is no such thing as a slut" is inarguably a correct statement because I only have to adhere to my own moral code when stating it. If I believe that no actions qualify one as a "slut," then there would effectively be "no such thing as a slut" as long as I am the one saying it. You could say "Everyone is a slut, including the pope" if that agrees with your own personal code of acceptable sexual conduct and it would also be technically a correct statement, but only as correct as my contradicting one.

It's like when you say "Orange is the prettiest color" and I say "Orange is the ugliest color." Neither of us can be accused of telling an untruth because our statements are only based on opinion.
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Calvero Featured By Owner Feb 7, 2013  Student
If you go by that then you might as well get rid of any word that is based on opinion.
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lukasbennett Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2013  Professional Photographer
your just appreciating the female form... which is very beautiful (i must add)

it doesnt make you a slut or a whore, their just naive and childish and dont understand.... their just very narrow minded.

ignore it, dont rise to it and they will simply get bored.

or just be more careful where and when you draw to avoid the negativity!
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DamaiMikaz Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Art is a form of expression. You shouldn't let yourself be limited in what you're expressing, just because other people think it's bad.
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Mihaihen Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013
"does it makes u a dirty bitch if u'll draw erotica's" Yes it does!
But then i am a whore too :3 Yey! Join dirty whore club, all the hipsters are doing it.
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HailTheePete Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013
I don't find that pic to be super erotic nor distasteful. I see nothing wrong with it. I guess it just depends on a person's beliefs and tastes as to what they find good or bad.
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Juliabohemian Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013
Are they like 12?
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:iconedaofblacklagoon:
edaofblacklagoon Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
my sister is 17. ;3
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:iconjuliabohemian:
Juliabohemian Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013
Is she Amish?
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:iconedaofblacklagoon:
edaofblacklagoon Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I dont know what is amish :(
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Self-Epidemic Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
Shrug and forget it <:
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WhiskyOmega Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Professional General Artist
Some people are more prudish then others, so don't take it personally.

I've already made it very clear to friends and family that I am a sexual person, I watch porn, I enjoy everything to do with sex and nudity, so it may or may not show up in my artwork and don't be shocked if it does. Whether they chose to accept that explination or not is up to them, but I am who I am and that's that.

There will always be those out there who don't approve of what you do or like it, it's just something that comes with life and being an artist, especially. Or so I see it, anyway.
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edaofblacklagoon Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
but sis. they know how I hate porn :x. I am always bashing porn in front of my brothers faces whenever they are pissing me off. :(
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KingStephenArthur Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Student Photographer
if it was up to our bodies to decide, we would all be sluts and whores. it's just the way we are supposed to be, lol.

though sex is hardly referred to as a survival technique anymore, lol.
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DutchConnaisseur Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013
They are morons. Ignore them.
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healthy-addictions Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013
Brothers and sisters job is to annoy the shit out of their siblings and they usually know what will push your buttons. You don't have to justify your reasons or motivations, it's a drawing! Wanting their approval is pretty much putting fuel on the matter. You can tell them it's dangerous to repress they're human biology and that they shouldn't be so nervous and uneasy about sexuality because you know what they have been doing but you don't judge them for it . (be vague but very confident about it,Because every
person on this planet has a thing (some a lot) that they don't want people to know and often they project it on others.
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:iconedaofblacklagoon:
edaofblacklagoon Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
thank you. :')
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FeralTao Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013
Well, they are uncomfortable with their own sexuality. What you draw is none of their concern.
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Mercury-Crowe Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Professional Artisan Crafter
Welcome to the real world.
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:iconedaofblacklagoon:
edaofblacklagoon Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
lol.
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SadistSkunk Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
You should draw whatever you feel like drawing. But maybe, if your family has problems with it, it's better to keep it to yourself.
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edaofblacklagoon Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
thats what I'm doing right now. whenever I'm alone cause were sharing rooms with my sister. so whenever she is in school then u know. its showtime. hahahaha Xp
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SadistSkunk Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
=P Haha, good solution.
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Anobu Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Student General Artist
I draw stuff that are 1000 times more erotic than that. Uploaded elsewhere of course, if you were to google "Timothy Ross hentai" you'd find some of my stuff. Just a thought.
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EbolaBears Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2013
I did that and there is a picture of guys sucking each other off on the first page:puke: :bucktooth:
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edaofblacklagoon Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
;3
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ReptillianSP2011 Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Student General Artist
Complaints topic.
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Jinolu Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Student Digital Artist
The beauty of art is that itīs not real. Draw as pervy or crazy or fucked up as you like. Itīs fine :3
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angelxxuan Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Student General Artist
well what about those who write about these sort of things? the same thing can be thrown into this situation, but I don't find a person to be "like that" because they write, draw or whatnot. it's an art, it's different than what is normally seen, so I don't see the big deal about it. don't be ashamed or afraid to be you and draw/write what you want to, it doesn't make you like that, it means you are into another art style from them.
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edaofblacklagoon Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I also right one that has a lot of favorites here in dA that I disable it. cannot delete it because of too much likes. so if thats what they caught and read. for sure I am more in a big big trouble. its a lemon fanfiction tho,
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junete Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013
Draw what you enjoy drawing. It's crazy that someone would call you or think you a slut just because you draw something a bit "erotic."
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edaofblacklagoon Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
true
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