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I've been masturbating and now I feel bad...

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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2013
We all at one point or another get sexual urges right? Well I've been having them often and when they hit, I usually just lie in bed and go nuts when everyone else is asleep. Yeah, it feels great releasing the tension and it makes for good stress relief, but is it okay for me to be doing so in the first place?
Let me clarify what I'm experiencing in a not that graphic manor.
Bed, mild warmth, touch, better touch, sweaty hot, orgasm, relaxing sensation after orgasm, cooldown, "Did I just do that?" moment, shame, moderate regret, curiosity if God is nodding lightly in shame at me and all others who play in the valleys or shine their flutes, inner debate about whether it's a sin to masturbate, think about health benefits (yes, it's proven it can be good for you... at least for men) to counter argument, have so many questions I don't know the answers to... repeat roughly 4-7 nights later.

I'd like as many of these questions answered as possible.
Am I committing a sin when I do this? Does the Bible say anything against masturbation?
Is there a way to combat the sexual urges effectively if I need to stop?
I do have a crush on my friend, and I think about him when I "goof off." Would it be okay to tell him?
Are there any health hazards, like STD's or infections you can get from playing by yourself?
Is it okay to feel guilty about this? Do you feel guilty if you do it too?
What if my desires get the better of me and lead to me acting a bit too sexy than my friend would be comfortable with?
If for some reason I should be pleasuring myself for my own benefit, how much is too much?

I'm sorry if this is something that is grossing you out, but this is pretty heavy on my conscious. I don't want to be upseting God by doing something I legitimately enjoy, but I'm worried about how else I'm going to express these sexual urges in a not sexual way
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M-G-Studio Featured By Owner Feb 13, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
Masturbation is basically you exploring your own body and figuring out what you like and how you like it. God would never punish you for such a thing, why would he even give us the pleasure sensation if it was wrong to feel such a thing?
The only thing you have to make sure is that your hands are always clean, touching yourself with hands that either have lotion or are not clean (lotions have chemicals in them that might not be the best to get to such a sensitive place), such things can cause infections or much worse. Always keep your area and your hands clean.
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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Feb 12, 2013
Would an Admin who sees this please close this forum? My questions were answered about a week ago, and everyone is just saying the same thing. If anyone else is reading this, is there anyway to contact an admins I can close this forum? I don't think I can close it myself.
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TheArtOfCBYoung Featured By Owner Feb 12, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Masturbation is one of the little proofs that God gave us to show us that he loves us and wants us to be happy. Yes, this world is horrible at times, so he gives us little pleasures to make up for it. Candy, orgasms, true friends, etc,
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nishi Featured By Owner Feb 11, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
Am I committing a sin when I do this? Does the Bible say anything against masturbation?

Hopefully someone answered it by now, I don't think so! I don't think you're committing a sin. Everyone worries about that at some point but later you'll do it plenty and know it's normal.

Is there a way to combat the sexual urges effectively if I need to stop?

Uh the other way is just by dating someone and doing things with someone else other than yourself. Can't really stop or suppress it - you just feel like you want to be able to.

I do have a crush on my friend, and I think about him when I "goof off." Would it be okay to tell him?

Haha, he might like it, start slow and enter a sexual conversation with him gently. It might be weird, if you can talk about sexual things with him openly you could bring it up. (:

Are there any health hazards, like STD's or infections you can get from playing by yourself?

I don't think so - you can get yourself a lil' bruised if you're rough! And I don't know anything about yeast infections, just be careful if you use any kinda lotions and keep your objects clean!

Is it okay to feel guilty about this? Do you feel guilty if you do it too?

It's normal to feel guilty, I used to, don't anymore, couldn't imagine it now. Unless you fap to something you don't wanna but it happens too. ;3

What if my desires get the better of me and lead to me acting a bit too sexy than my friend would be comfortable with?

Everyone makes mistakes, you'll learn if you do. (:

If for some reason I should be pleasuring myself for my own benefit, how much is too much?

Like I said, don't get bruised! And maybe get outside a lil' here and there if you're stayin' inside too much doin' it. Just enjoy yourself, really!
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Zayata Featured By Owner Feb 11, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
It's perfectly normal; many doctors consider it healthy.
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GeNeRaLLuLz Featured By Owner Feb 11, 2013
It's fine, back in my day we did it all the time
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MrSpeedyPanda Featured By Owner Feb 11, 2013
If god is all mighty and didn't want us masturbating he would of done something to stop us like taking away temptation or sexual pleasure therefore it is not a sin.
Basically by masturbating you're combating sexual urges from going any further.
I don't recommend telling your friend until you're in a close relationship and you're will to start a sexual relationship.
The worst you can get from playing with yourself is an infection or thrush which isn't fatal.
It's okay to feel guilty because your religion and culture tells you it's a bad thing. I don't feel the slightest bit guilty because it relaxes my sexual stress and urges so I can think like a regular person.
Do it as much as you feel the need to.
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saykha Featured By Owner Feb 11, 2013  Student Writer
This is a very interesting topic: I remember when we were discussing it in Bible College - it was awkward but very interesting. The Bible doesn't mention anything about masturbation. The only thing it came down to, was what you were "thinking" about while you were masturbating. You see, it's not really the action that's a sin - but your thoughts at the time. I'm sure you fantasize about people when you masturbate - this is the only thing that God is not ok with. You see, the thought and the act are one in the same with God:

"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matthew 5:28

But other than that, I didn't find anything wrong with masturbation at the end of the class (nor did anyone else really). My thoughts on it is just to be careful not to fantasize about people, and to make sure you don't give yourself a lust problem by masturbating too much. Remember, too much of something causes problems for you in the long run.

God loves you and I'm sure He's pleased that you're asking about this because you want to do things that pleases Him :heart: You'll do fine if your life is well-balanced.
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Imnurhest Featured By Owner Feb 7, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
No, you should not feel bad. Pleasure is not a sin, especially if it keeps you happy, gives you health benefits, and erases stress to make you more energized.
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Mihaihen Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013
Yea, happens to me too ;_; I fap then i can't fap again for like 10~8 minutes, sux man. I wish i could fap non stop!
All hail Slaneshi!!!
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Nightshade255 Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Let me put it this way.

Does schlicking it every once and a while hurt you? Does it hurt anyone around you? No and no. So no problems there.

Do you do it excessively? It doesn't sound like it.

Can you think of ANY NEGATIVE CONNOTATIONS other than "God might getting pissed at me"? Ill let you think on it, but the answer is probably no.

Are you a human being with primal instincts? Yes.

So where is the problem. Who gives a shit about what you do to your body on your own time.
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senf-a Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013
1. AFAIK, the bible doesn't directly address masturbation, but does discourage lust.

2. Cold showers, exercise, and focusing on other things can help, if you feel you need to stop. Understand that from a psychological perspective, masturbation is considered totally healthy and normal unless you can't stop yourself from jerking off in public/masturbating so often it interferes with the rest of your life.

3. Most people would probably rather not know you've been masturbating to the thought of them (unless you're dating). If you have a crush and want to tell him about your feelings, go for it.

4. Not under normal circumstances.

5. It is okay to feel whatever you want to feel about it, but understand that mental health professionals consider masturbation to be normal, healthy behavior under most circumstances. I personally don't feel guilty about it.

6. Boundaries - respect them.

7. From a mental health perspective, it's generally only "too much" if you masturbate so much that it keeps you from doing what you need to (EG: finishing homework) or if you can't stop yourself from masturbating in inappropriate situations.
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Zero587 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2013
This is pretty typical, lol. Even at my age 22, i still get very horny sometimes. But do i feel guilt afterwards? Eh... not really. Maybe a few times for i dont know why in the hell why.. lol!
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ApAtHeTIcBuNnY Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'd say fiddling with yourself is the better option rather than going out and getting people pregnant/picking up STDs etc.
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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2013
How can I make someone pregnant if I am one who can become pregnant? XD
But I see what your saying
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ApAtHeTIcBuNnY Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Aha my bad, I assumed you were male :giggle:
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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2013
Nope. XD
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hkepoetry Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
According to some religious beliefs, such as Catholicism, it is considered a sin, yes. However, it is not mentioned anywhere in the Bible (from what I've seen) that it is a sin. I don't think you need to worry about this, because there are lots of things out there that are considered to be much worse. Like, let's say, killing someone.
Besides, can't you just go and ask God for forgiveness? Just go to church, make a confession and ta-daah: God forgives you.

If you feel up to it, go and confess your feelings for you friend. (But I advice you not to tell him you masturbate while thinking of him when confessing. Wait until you've been a couple for a while.)

From my experience, I feel that masturbating helps keeping my "erotic feelings" at bay. If I haven't done it in a while (let's say 2 months), just a slight touch on my neck from my fiance will make me go absolutely crazy. So I actually advice you to masturbate. At least once a week or so.

You can't get any STD's just from playing with yourself. At least not to my knowledge (and experience).

Don't feel guilty. Playing with yourself is normal. Everyone does it (although far from everyone will admit it when asked).

I'd say that if masturbation is the only thing you can think of and cannot do anything else without thinking "I must masturbate" every second of the day, then it's too much. If that's not the case, then you're good.

I'm not grossed out. Don't worry. :) If anyone is grossed out by this, then it's their problem. :D

Hope I could help. :D
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pink-anthony Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Am I committing a sin when I do this? Does the Bible say anything against masturbation?
It has never been outright mentioned in the Bible as a sin, so no. You mentioned that your father is Catholic though, and coming from a Catholic background myself (though thankfully not particularly strict), I know that everything is seen as a sin.

Is there a way to combat the sexual urges effectively if I need to stop?</>
No. It is inherently human to have sexual urges. Almost all human beings have sexual urges and it will probably just cause you frustration problems if you try and ignore it.

I do have a crush on my friend, and I think about him when I "goof off." Would it be okay to tell him?
I... wouldn't tell him. Masturbation is one of those things that we all do but no one really talks about. And he might not be comfortable with knowing.

Are there any health hazards, like STD's or infections you can get from playing by yourself?
You can get infections if your hands aren't clean. But unless you've had your hands all over someone else's infected genitals and immediately touched yours, you can't get an STD.

Is it okay to feel guilty about this? Do you feel guilty if you do it too?
It's okay to feel guilty. Especially when you come from a religious background. No one can tell you what you can and can't feel guilty about. But masturbation is A. perfectly healthy and actually good for you. and B. a great way of learning more about your body and what you like. And no, I don't feel guilty about it, it's awesome.

What if my desires get the better of me and lead to me acting a bit too sexy than my friend would be comfortable with?
I don't really know what you mean.

If for some reason I should be pleasuring myself for my own benefit, how much is too much?
When you get bored of it, I suppose.
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TheLightsWentOutIn99 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2013  Student Writer
Am I committing a sin when I do this? Does the Bible say anything against masturbation?

You are committing a sin, according to some denominations. Most don't care, though.

The Bible specifies that a male spilling his "seed" on the ground is a sin.

Is there a way to combat the sexual urges effectively if I need to stop?

You could try wildland firefighting. You'll go two weeks without the time or the privacy for anything other than work, eating, and sleep. Unless you're on an engine crew. They have plenty of time to fiddle around.

Also, you could try wearing oven mitts all the time. That'd probably stop you.

I do have a crush on my friend, and I think about him when I "goof off." Would it be okay to tell him?

I would not recommend this course of action.

Are there any health hazards, like STD's or infections you can get from playing by yourself?

You can get yeast infections and other things from using dirty hands or objects. Keep yourself and your belongings clean.

Is it okay to feel guilty about this? Do you feel guilty if you do it too?

I guess it's okay to feel guilty, whatever works for you. I try not to feel guilty about much of anything.

What if my desires get the better of me and lead to me acting a bit too sexy than my friend would be comfortable with?

Then, uh... heck, I don't know your friend.

If for some reason I should be pleasuring myself for my own benefit, how much is too much?

It's too much when it hurts, when it detracts from your life, or when you become fixated on the feeling.
Stay hydrated!
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StripedPower Featured By Owner Jan 31, 2013   Digital Artist
Why are you following a religion if it makes you unhappy?
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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2013
This has nothing to do with my happiness towards my religion, but weather it;s okay for me to masturbate based on my religion.
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StripedPower Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2013   Digital Artist
*whether

What do you prefer? Religion, or masturbation and a life free of stupid guilt for harmless acts and thoughts?
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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2013
I can't just abandon what I believe in right there and walk the life of an atheist... I don't think you'll fully understand, because I'll have to explain it in many paragraphs (which I don't have the time to do) but basically I choose not to drop my faith and lifestyle surrounding it, as I feel It's made me who I am today, and I like my life as it is... almost, but religion isn't the problem that's causing my depression. If anything God has helped me find a better life and rise out of that hole that makes me all mopey... or so I believe.
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StripedPower Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2013   Digital Artist
What makes you think you have to be an atheist if you don't have a religion?
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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2013
Atheism is the belief that there is no God, and all forms or religion do have some kind of God or spiritual entity that one worships. If I belive in God, it makes snese that I do at least slightly fllow some form or religion, even if the beliefs aren't exactly like simmilar religion.
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StripedPower Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2013   Digital Artist
You don't need a religion to believe in God. You only need to be theist (which you already are, anyways).
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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2013
So what your trying to say is that I should just abandon my christian beliefs and yet still keep God in my heart and then I can be happy... masturbating?
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Knightster Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2013
Why I can imagine her saying "Because hell" or "Because Jesus"?
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StripedPower Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2013   Digital Artist
It's to be expected.
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Kiryuin-Satsuki Featured By Owner Jan 31, 2013
Its 2013 ... catch up


Masturbation is an NORMAL human function. Read a science book instead of that BS book thats trying to control your life.
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MichaelRowlandson Featured By Owner Jan 31, 2013  Professional Photographer
Religion is too controlling and should be left open to interpretation.
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der-freishutz Featured By Owner Jan 31, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
God is all loving, and has given you this pleasure, so enjoy it and thank him for it in prayer. Just as long as you are not masturbating to blasphomous stuff...infact i would stay away from porn entirely or you'll end up with strange tastes like me.

dont tell your freind that you masturbate to him, thats retarded.
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Just-a-Witness Featured By Owner Jan 31, 2013
after the fifth in a row i feel kinda bad myself.
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TheLightsWentOutIn99 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2013  Student Writer
Stay hydrated, dude.
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Just-a-Witness Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2013
definately.vitamins and minerals help too.
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domitar Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Am I committing a sin when I do this? Does the Bible say anything against masturbation?

Depends on the church you are in. But just so you know, you aren't wasting genetic material, it just gets offloaded into your urine every few days if you don't masterbate

Is there a way to combat the sexual urges effectively if I need to stop?
There are some chastity cages you can buy that help, as well as some fiendish devices that prick you if you get hard, neither are really necessary. I think the best bet for you would if you didn't want to masturbate would be to start thinking of really boring things to try to distract yourself

I do have a crush on my friend, and I think about him when I "goof off." Would it be okay to tell him?

I don't recommend it, what you think of when you masturbate is generally considered a private thing even for many long term couples.

Are there any health hazards, like STD's or infections you can get from playing by yourself?

Nope. None. Unless you do something silly like stick your hand in a jar of pubic lice and immediately started masturbating or something bizarre like that. There are no known health risks that I am aware of, as a practicing biomedical technologist.

Is it okay to feel guilty about this? Do you feel guilty if you do it too?

If it is against your faith, feeling sorry for what you did against the rules is the first step towards being forgiven. I personally do not, but I have found I keep myself more healthy down there if I remember to tickle the bean every month or so

What if my desires get the better of me and lead to me acting a bit too sexy than my friend would be comfortable with?

It is a problem, but one I would think you should deal with when the time comes. If you think there is a chance, let your friend know how you feel and ask if the feeling is mutual

If for some reason I should be pleasuring myself for my own benefit, how much is too much?

Your own body should be the best to tell you what it requires. At 16 it might be fairly frequently. If you suffer from depression,it might be even more frequently (or not at all). I think most guys masturbate in average 1.5 times a day? That statistic is hazy for me though. Some of my male friends rack up 4 to 5 times a day regularily to no ill affect
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MenagerieCat Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
For the love of god, I cannot believe people are throwing out such BS at you.

It's natural and perfectly well alright to masturbate. It's a part of being a human, part of being an animal, and part of life.

`No, masturbating is NOT A SIN.
`Yes, you can stop urges to masturbate. For example, I just take it to my imagination and completely zone out.
`NOOOOOO don't tell him that you think about him when you masturbate, because if you two aren't in a relationship it's going to sound really weird, really awkward, and really really super awkward.
`No, you cannot get any STDs from masturbating.
`No, there is nothing to feel guilty about. Like I said, it's a part of being human and being alive. Humans have masturbated since the dawn of time.
`No, your desires will NOT get the better of you, because you're not a skank like I'm sure half the people in your school are.
`Masturbating IS for your own personal pleasure and benefit.

You're not upsetting God in anyway. Humans are sexual beings, just like every single other animal on the planet. You're not doing anything wrong, and you're not upsetting God. This is a part of puberty, and anyone that tells you that masturbating is a sin has absolutely 0% brain matter. and anyone that tells you that they've never done it is a liar.
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dinysrawr Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013  Student Digital Artist
THIS. ^_^
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WandereroftheDeep Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
To the people saying masturbation is a sin, here's a link to what the Bible has to say about it: [link]
And surprise, surprise, it's only about male masturbation (or at least no overt reference to female masturbation is made).
So technically, the Bible doesn't say that it's a sin for women to masturbate.
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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Jan 31, 2013
It's seems it's more of a sin to spill seed upon the ground so... and also to have sex with others that aren't your wife. I only really saw one thing in there about masturbation directly anyway.
Also, I do know that sometimes the human species is commonly refred to as Man, usually because men were dominate. (Think "Mankind")
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WandereroftheDeep Featured By Owner Jan 31, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
That should resolve your concern of it being a sin then.

And frankly, the clitoris is not known to have any other function than pleasure; so, if we weren't supposed to use it for that purpose, we shouldn't have been born with one in the first place.
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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2013
Yeah...
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Officialpoypoy Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013  Student General Artist
i try not to anyways sin or not cuz its making me lose my self control. I want to achieve alot in my life and if i cant even control my own actions then I wont be even be able to get thru awesome things. Plus it makes me feel bad too.

the best thing you can do is just only do it once a week, Iv done it that way for months, until i started gettin a lil horny recently lololl
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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013
For me it's always been at night after the day is done...
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singingstranger Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013  Student General Artist
I dunno about what God is saying but my philosophy is, that god is way too busy to peek into people bedroom windows at night like a gossip loving housewife, just to see who is sleeping with whom.

Here are some religious thoughts:
Don't feel bad for the way God has created you, he created us all with sexual urges and you know what? I. don't. believe. that he would seriously force us to suppress our urges. Sex is there to reproduce, and it is so much fun, because otherwise we WOULDN'T reproduce (see the problem here?)

I do not want to speak ill of the church, but do not forget, that the catholic church suppresses women since for ever! We women, the back bone of the church, are forced into the crippling roles of housewives and nuns. That is church-tradition. But honestly, is that the will of God or the will of man (not human, I'm choosing my words very specifically) to control women? I think that if you want to pleasure yourself then it's nobody's business! Yes, in the catholic church they tell you that masturbation is a sin. But you know what? It's one of the things that they teach us that makes the least sense!

Here some thoughts on your friend:
I don't know if you should tell him, I wouldn't, but if you do? WHat do you think will happen? No offense, but you don't sound like you've ever had any sexual experience. Telling another man that you think of him while "goofing off" (which is really a not so nice term to be honest) is more or less an invitation to bed. Just so you know that. If you want to be his girlfriend, then try to approach him differently. Talk to him about your shared interests, at some point you might even admit that you really like him. Then at some point you might want to take it to the next base.

Here are some health thoughts:
Up front: You do not go blind and do not get hairy palms from masturbation. That's a stockpile of BS.
Next, I suggest you wash your hands before and after and until you've read a bit into sex and masturbation (I seriously recommend you to read about this stuff) not to use any... equipment (aka toys). You cannot get STD or infections from masturbation. But if you should overdo it or rub to hard it can happen, that you inflame the skin. Try to be careful that your vagina doesn't dry out, that can be an invitation for all kind of... whataretheycalleds... yeast infections? YOu know what I mean. Those don't come from masturbation, but dried out vagina's do.

Here is some friendship and dealing with all of this advice:
If you act sexy cause it makes you feel good and your friends don't like it, then that's their problem, not yours. You're still the same person and you have a right to explore your personality.
The second thing: There is no right and no wrong to masturbation and there is also no "too much". If YOU feel like you're overdoing it, if YOU feel bad or exhausted, then YOU are the one to decide to stop or cut back or whatever. (By the way, I'm jealous that you can bring yourself to orgasm. Many girls have trouble with that)

There is nothing you can change about your sexual desire: It's part of you, it's the way you have been created!
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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2013
I see. Thank you for your words.
(As for what you said about jealousy and orgasm, I'm surpried you said that... Women can orgasm, but for some it kinda has to be forced out... there is a way involving rubbing inside in some certian way and then pushing on some spot, but I won't go into detail, and personally I don't need to do that.
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thiefofnight Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2013
(Sorry for my childlish english)
Please stop telling him things like "it's not a sin". Idk how about baptists, but in catholicism masturbation IS a sin. People who say otherwise are ignorants(if one of you are reading this you must to know you are). Arguments "bible doesn't say anything about it" have no sense, so please dont take them seriously. So if you really want to know what connections are between this what you do and your religion take my advice. Ask about it priest who literally studied about his religion and should answer your questions(otherwise only people who you really trust). I know that forum like this seems to be ideal place to call for answers but you must know that people are really ignorants about religions and they usually say a LOT of untruth about it. I read enough of nonsense about my religion in each forum with similar topic to know that only ONE reliable option to know more is asking right people, not waiting for someone in internet to tell you anything he wants.

I cant say much about your rest questions exept one. Feeling guilty it's really common so my secend advice is do not think that you are. If you want to stop doing that, yea it is a bad thing if you lose control but humans are humans. You can't be perfect. Everyone loses sometimes control in this way or another. What truly matters is if you do some steps from it. Even if this steps are tiny that the fact that you do something is the most important.

Ps. Because of fact that masturbation is a sin I understand why Your father could be angry. But he shouldn't blame you or anyone. This thing happens very often (even to me) and he should be prepared for this kind of situation to know how to support you.


I am truly sorry for my enlish again. I hope everyone will understand me. :(
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ChibiBlu Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2013
I understand.
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Bulmacorp Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2013
**"you like someone then you're sinning and will burn in hell"

(Sorry, I'm not very good with phrasing)
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