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Depression with girls, need pro help :(

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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
i have been suffering from heartbreak for a few months now and ive tried nearly everything, im not waiting any longer for it to just disappear, i need to take action now!

im asking for a few solutions to my problems not just one, plans, rules hints, tips, anything that can help me basically

theyre a few girls i like but theyres atleast 1 problem with each one of them. 1 has a boyfriend, 1 of them ive never spoken to in my life and the other is my sisters bestfriend :S

im really depressed at the moment so my head isnt thinking straight, if you want to get involved and help me you MUST be active on DA, there is a lot of infomation and too much to explain in 1 forum thread ^^;

word of warning i can be stubborn sometimes so advice can be hard for me to intake unless i see that it will work out
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Zetikla Featured By Owner Mar 19, 2013  Student Photographer
same here, but I decided not to care about love for now, I have better things to do
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Mar 19, 2013
good idea, i have a new girlfriend now lol
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NepetaLejionh33h33 Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2013  Student Digital Artist
one day you will find someone who's right for you!! it might not be any of the girls you like now, or maybe it will, but you can't force love. your first step should be talking to the girl you haven't spoken to before. who knows, maybe she likes you too!! and if she doesn't, don't worry, because it'll be your first conversation and she might fall for you later

if worst comes to the worst you could always join eharmony :33

also, i don't think you should take anti-depressants, because they can't cure a broken heart, they only bring your brain chemistry back to normal
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2013
i started speaking to my ex again, i dont love her like i used to but maybe things could turn around??
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NepetaLejionh33h33 Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2013  Student Digital Artist
you probably shouldn't get with someone just to be in a relationship!! if you and your ex broke up there was probably a reason for it!!
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2013
it was because her parents didnt like me, things were kinda perfect at first so i dont see why we cant sort things out but thats only a part of the story..

theres reason i dont love her anymore
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NepetaLejionh33h33 Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2013  Student Digital Artist
ohh, it sucks when parents get in the way. : (( why don't you love her any more??
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2013
could you note me?
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NepetaLejionh33h33 Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2013  Student Digital Artist
can do!!
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renstalker Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Dude what happened for you to get such heartache?
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2013
alot and enough for me to leave DA, im literally just leaving now
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renstalker Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
What why?

If you ever come back to DA, I'm always here to talk
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2013
my heartbreak is getting worse the more i speak to the girl who broke me, i wont be back for another year or 2 at least.
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renstalker Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I know it's hard, but sometimes you just need to let go. Otherwise you are just tearing open your wounds again and again.

Shame, it would have been nice to talk and perhaps help you out. Good luck in your future endeavours I guess...
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2013
i am letting go which is why im leaving :(
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renstalker Featured By Owner Mar 5, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Ah I see - because she has a profile on here or something? That makes sense if this is the case. You don't want to be stalking her profile all the time.


Good decision :-)
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Mar 5, 2013
do you think there could be another way?
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eeveelutionlovermoon Featured By Owner Mar 2, 2013  Student Artist
I'm sure there's someone out there who's right for you ^^
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Mar 2, 2013
the girl who had a boyfriend is now single :3
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eeveelutionlovermoon Featured By Owner Mar 2, 2013  Student Artist
nice ^^
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Anobu Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2013  Student General Artist
Why is every post about someone being depressed?
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2013
people who need help are usually the depressed ones
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2013
people who need help are usually the depressed ones
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scalman Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2013
well if tis your ex ..it means ex.. second u cant be just pussy and cry over for ex hanging with someone ..thats way u just show her u week realy ..maybe she that type who dont like those kind guys. so less attention u will show ,the more reaction u will get..and it goes both ways realy ..break up is for reason ..its not something u can just take back becouse u will try hard..is no matter how hard..whats matters is reason for braking at first place..if u find it and do soemthing about it then u got chance..or at least will show that u not some weak and desperate person ..thats good in any way ..
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2013
when i was first dating her i wasnt insecure or anything, i dont know what changed but i just want things back :(
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scalman Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2013
is she wanna things back too ? if not ..then ask yourself why ..if u fnd out why then maybe u can do something about it..if u dont know why she dont wanna back then u dont know what u must do to get her back ..
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2013
i keep asking her, what happened and why.... she says its because of her parents :/
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scalman Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2013
yeah so what about her parents then? they not like you or what
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2013
they hate me ahaha
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scalman Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2013
and the reason for that ? see u might be will find out reason after all ..
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2013
because i never liked them... eventually it got to the point where i wouldnt even go in her house and we would spend every day at my house
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Bluefire-the-Dragon Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Please forgive me, but what exactly is it you are depressed about? That you cannot talk to these girls?
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2013
my ex breaking my heart by cheating and flirting with other guys
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Bluefire-the-Dragon Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Got it. If I may ask, since your breakup up until this point in time that you decided to take action, what have you been doing?
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2013
hanging out with friends and basically the usual, playing xbox etc.
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Bluefire-the-Dragon Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Well, the fact that you are taking a stand against your depression is a good sign. You need to accept that some people are not worth getting depressed over, especially if they cheated on you. It doesn't prevent the pain, but it helps in coping with it. You are better than her. Just let it go. Roll it up like trash and throw it out the window. Cleanse yourself of it. There are plenty of other girls out there. Have faith that you'll meet someone with no problems attached. If you keep a positive attitude, you will attract like minded people. Of course, it is not enough for me to tell you what you can do. Just meditate on it.
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2013
i can make things right with my ex though, she wont cheat again if i do it right, she never used to be that kind of girl
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Bluefire-the-Dragon Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Do what right, exactly?
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2013
change her from being a tart to a classy girl
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AESCHYNITE Featured By Owner Feb 24, 2013
You should just make a break and try not to think about those girls. I know its not easy but if you are occupated with something else you will slowly forget them. Try occupying yourself with something by doing a project or designing graphics.
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 24, 2013
i still have feelings for my ex anyway
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AESCHYNITE Featured By Owner Feb 24, 2013
Then try forgetting her if you have to...
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 24, 2013
i cant
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AESCHYNITE Featured By Owner Feb 25, 2013
You can, its a matter of if you want to or not.
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 25, 2013
i dont want to move on though
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AESCHYNITE Featured By Owner Feb 25, 2013
You dont want to move on and keep the depression? LOL what is your problem then?
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 25, 2013
she made me happy and i just want that happiness back
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2lazy2talk Featured By Owner Feb 21, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
a heartbreak takes from 6 months to an year to fully heal. Most guys recover more quickly, but you seem to be takiing longer.
as a girl, i'm not sure this would work with you but here it goes: my advice is to have fun an focus on your chores. take a time out from the opposite sex and just focus you. in 4-5 months from you'll notice the hot guy (girl, in your case :P) that just passed by you. That's your brain telling you that you're ready.
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TheChronoWolf Featured By Owner Feb 21, 2013
im speaking to my ex again and i have no idea whats going on with her
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2lazy2talk Featured By Owner Feb 21, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
well that's not a very smart idea
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