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January 22, 2013
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:iconttfnjinx:
TTFNJinx Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2013  Student Interface Designer
Weirdest question has popped in my head. I recently got in huge fight with an ex and blah blah blah yucky past bs. (I'm really tired so I have little energy to elaborate.) But instead of feeling hurt lonely angry or anything after so long of feeling like that I feel nothing. Nada. So what's wrong with me?

Has anyone else felt this empty, neutral feeling after being in love with someone for so long,? Or am I just THAT crazy?
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:iconravynnenevyrmore:
RavynneNevyrmore Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Yep. It was after I had finally put up with so much bullshit that it just wasn't worth it for me anymore. The breaking point. It's liberating. Welcome to it.
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:iconlukasbennett:
lukasbennett Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2013  Professional Photographer
no, it just seems like it came about naturally you fell out of love!

there is always going to be some bitterness and regret and hurt... people who have been an item, cannot be friends. especially after a horrible break up or some nasty fights.

dont worry!
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:iconthemarcher:
TheMarcher Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
You seem to be exhausted and I felt the same until I got some distance to the events. Then I start to feel again, but it takes some time.

When you have all the strong feeling and they go away they are leaving an emotional vacuum that takes time to fill up again.
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:icond3fect:
d3fect Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2013   Digital Artist
give it time. It's not the end it's a new beginning
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:iconkey-master-himeko:
Key-Master-Himeko Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013   Traditional Artist
You've driven up over the hill, over the hardest part of a breakup and are now in a plateau of apathy. It's a good place to be.
Or, you might be in denial and the mourning period will hit you when you least expect it. Everyone copes differently in life, so there is no "normal" in this situation. Only what is best for you.
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:iconskytch:
Skytch Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013
Yeah you're pretty much over him.
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:iconashiharalover:
AshiharaLover Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
One of my friends also felt like you when she broke up with her boyfriend, but after some time she started to feel really bad like, I guess, you "normally" do when you break up with someone you used to love, so maybe you are gonna get some other feelings soon?
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:iconttfnjinx:
TTFNJinx Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013  Student Interface Designer
Aww crape I was hoping I wouldn't....
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:iconashiharalover:
AshiharaLover Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
But its not sure
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:iconmew-sumomo:
Mew-Sumomo Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013  Student General Artist
That happened to me after I basically had it with my last boyfriend. At that point I knew it was time to take control over the situation because my emotions weren't getting in the way anymore and I was able to think logically enough to tell him I was completely done with him and his horrible behavior towards me. Really glad it happened too, because ending it all was pretty pain-free.
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:iconttfnjinx:
TTFNJinx Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013  Student Interface Designer
Thanks that's what I was hoping to hear. :)
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:iconebolabearvomit:
EbolaBearVomit Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013
Shut up troll.
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:iconttfnjinx:
TTFNJinx Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013  Student Interface Designer
Youre annoying me and I'm very close to calling you a stalker.
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:iconssensory:
ssensory Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013   Writer
You're fine. This happens to everyone who is in shock - they block out their emotions and all. You're okay. :)
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:iconnicetints:
nicetints Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2013  Student Digital Artist
you're in shock, chill out
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:iconpetrova:
petrova Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2013  Hobbyist
I think it's because you're over your ex. Those we no longer care about don't sway us either to upset or happy.
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:iconkemcar:
kemcar Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2013
I think you are cool with the fact you guys fight and its over, it doesn't matter to you anymore. And I won't say there is anything wrong with you, you sound normal.
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IncandescentInsanity Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2013  Student General Artist
You simply don't give a fuck
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:iconspookyink:
SpookyInk Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2013   Traditional Artist
Sounds like your just done with that relationship and your ex in general.
Nothing to be worried about.

You're moving on much faster than most people.
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:iconlegendarysuperman:
LegendarySuperman Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
"You're moving on much faster than most people."

I guess you haven't been in HWL lately :lol: The other day, the OP had 4 threads on the front page of HWL, every one of them about this ex. And I think I've seen others from her prior to that.
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:iconspookyink:
SpookyInk Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2013   Traditional Artist
Oh shit, I haven't been. My mistake.
sounds obsessive
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:iconlegendarysuperman:
LegendarySuperman Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Obsessive is probably an understatement :stare:
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:iconspookyink:
SpookyInk Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013   Traditional Artist
And she claims your stalking her lol
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:iconlegendarysuperman:
LegendarySuperman Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Really? :lol:
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:iconspookyink:
SpookyInk Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013   Traditional Artist
Yep. Probably blocked you too.
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:iconlegendarysuperman:
LegendarySuperman Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I wouldn't be surprised :lol: I called her out on making too many unnecessary threads the day that she had 4 on the front page. I figured I would have been blocked then. Probably was, actually.
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TTFNJinx Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013  Student Interface Designer
Gee I can see these posts remember. I'm not obsessive I just have questions because this ex has caused me so much f-ing amount of trouble I cant just ask my teenage friends who believed I should have gotten revenge o. The guy and my parents don't give a fuck. So really I just wanted some advise. No need to complain about it.

And LegendarySuperman please don't stalk me I don't like that thank you for the help though.
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SpookyInk Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013   Traditional Artist
Then refer to my first post.

L. Superman isn't stalking when you post it online.
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