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Accidents happen?

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Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
I made a terrible mistake earlier and am now getting all sorts of hate. I feel terrible. It was an accident and I told everyone that, but they still keep hating on me. I'm crying and really thinking about suicide right now. I know you're probably thinking that it's a stupid reason to be depressed, but to me it is! I'm emotional and on top of it, I have depression. I just want somebody to talk to me right now... I feel so bad...
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:iconkaty-l-wood:
Katy-L-Wood Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Student General Artist
:lock: Per OP request.
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SmarticleParticle Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Don't worry, I did that once. Eventually I just didn't bother reading the comments and didn't say anything about it, and people forgot. If you just move on and don't acknowledge anyone who says anything about this, then people will forget.

The important thing is that you can learn from mistakes. What I'm trying to say is that you should lurk more next time. :D
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hkepoetry Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You either grow thicker skin, or you stay off the forums and go live in a cave for the rest of your life.
Also, if you seriously consider killing yourself over such a small thing as this, then I highly recommend seeing a therapist about your incredibly low self esteem.
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DariaDzyuba Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
:icondrphilplz: :iconsaysplz: Deactivating your account is good for you.
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:iconladydeven:
LadyDeven Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:iconlocksignalplz: And go do something far away from the computer, preferably involving chocolate.
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shane002 Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012
ACCIDENTS HAPPEN is a wickedly funny and surprisingly moving fable of family, fate and misfortune in American suburbia.
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darkanddefiant Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013
can i borrow your post? op blocked me.

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:iconlolwutplz: isn't that calling the kettle black, miss suicide?
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:iconlifeisstillsweet:
Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Never heard of if...
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:iconkausawolf:
kausawolf Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Man I really don't want to sound rude or anything, and please don't take this the wrong way.
I understand being depressed and having depression already, but if a couple of people being slightly rude to you deviantart makes you suicidal, you are gonna have a REALLY hard time with life.
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:iconlifeisstillsweet:
Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Its all ok... Dont worry. I was just acting on emotions at the moment. I feel better now and realize that nobodys opinion matters but mine and my friends...
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kausawolf Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
:3 Good! I'm glad you learned that so early in life.
It takes a lot of people a lot of time to realize that, and it only ends in bad feelings.
Though honestly, your friends opinions on you don't matter either.
Only yours really does.
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Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Okay
:)
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:iconatlantech:
Atlantech Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
learn not to give a shit
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:iconlifeisstillsweet:
Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Ok
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:iconautumnalessence:
AutumnalEssence Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012
Grow a thicker skin, please.
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:iconlifeisstillsweet:
Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Trust me, i wish i could
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dorkface4 Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012
Why let a bunch of people who you don't know, never will know and don't matter to you get to you so badly? If it is upsetting you then do not read their comments, delete them as soon as you get them and stop posting threads. Log out of your account and go and do something else.
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:iconlifeisstillsweet:
Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Ive tried.. Im just a really emotional person. I dont like hate and i just want people to be happy and loving to one another
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nonecansee Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist
I do hope you have a therapist or take meds if you have clinical depression.

Anyway, if you're able, take it in stride and realize that this is the internet and it's a very free place. In fact, so free that people leave their inhibitions and can be as frank about their opinions where they can.

It's okay to feel bad but don't let it consume you. This is normal on the internet :)
Have a friend, parent or someone in real life talk to you about this.

Also =P one mistake means just means there's a new lesson for you to learn.
:pat:
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:iconlifeisstillsweet:
Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Thanks for understanding. It really helps. And youre right. Now i wont make that mistake again:D
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:iconludwigvankickass3:
LudwigvanKickass3 Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Professional Traditional Artist
Man up, bitch.
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:iconcelestialsheep:
CelestialSheep Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Talk to a therapist. If words cause for suicide, help is needed.
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:iconlifeisstillsweet:
Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Okay...
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:iconjade-abarai-kat:
Jade-Abarai-Kat Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
Hate is such a strong word, i perfer "deal with it"
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Pokey-Bunny Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
This isn't going to help you...
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monkeydoodles Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012
Complaints is notorious for being pissy and hating everyone. In the grand scheme of things, you basically did nothing wrong. You just posted a bad thread, it's not like you went out and mugged a little old lady. Get off the computer and go for a run or bake a cake or something.
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Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Dude you guys were making fun of my looks also...You know that can lead to suicide right?
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JessaFlux Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013   Photographer
I don't see a thing wrong with your looks. Like Monkeydoodles said, people who troll complaints like to be nasty. I guess it makes them feel better or something. Just don't take it seriously. Sometimes you gotta roll with the punches or laugh along with them.
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Juliabohemian Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012
If you were to take your own life, the only responsible party would be you. Why would you want to give total strangers that much power over your existence?
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:iconlifeisstillsweet:
Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Because than theyd maybe feel sorry... Than they would learn not to bully
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Juliabohemian Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012
They won’t feel sorry. They probably won't even care. Why should they? If you take your own life because you are hoping people will be sorry, you are rather disillusioned. The best revenge is to go on living and do something great with your life.
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Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Yeah but than they might get thrown in jail for it... That would make me happy
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Toxicotic Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013
What the fuck is wrong with you? Upon seeing your first thread, I almost felt bad for you. But now I think you're in desperate need of professional help.
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:iconlifeisstillsweet:
Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
I might go see a therapist soon because of thus
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Juliabohemian Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012
They won't get thrown in jail. If you kill yourself because someone said something that hurt your feelings the only lasting effect is you being dead. You having low self esteem does not equate to them having committed a crime.
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Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Oh .. Well honestly i dont care anymore... That giy was an ass and i just now realized his opinion never mattered
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Aldarune Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012
It wouldn't make you happy because then you'd be too dead to feel anything.

In any case, it's a pointless and petty little scheme. Seriously? Considering killing yourself in order to get people punished over something you could have ignored? Here's what you sound like: "Bawww internet people are so mean to me. I'm going to end my own life instead of growing a thicker skin. To show them."
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:iconlifeisstillsweet:
Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
I was acting rashly, and i'm quite sorry for that. Sometimes my emotions just take over. I feel great now! And I really don't care about this anymore
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:iconmonkeydoodles:
monkeydoodles Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012
Are you getting treatment for your depression? This is a serious question.
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:iconlifeisstillsweet:
Lifeisstillsweet Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Im on meds
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:iconmonkeydoodles:
monkeydoodles Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012
They don't seem to be working so well. The depression is coming through in a lot of your posts.

You don't have to leave dA. People don't actually hate you on here, even though they may act vicious. In a week, everyone will have forgotten about your thread. A lot of people have done the exact same thing as you and they're still here.
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:iconpenhuin:
Penhuin Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
We don't hate anyone. We're probably the happiest people on DA! :lol:
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darkanddefiant Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013
I GOT BLOCKED YEEY
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tacosteev Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist
I can second that. I always get a laugh in complaints. Only the most cheerful can provide that!
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:iconcelestialsheep:
CelestialSheep Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
If the saying "liar liar" had any merit, your home would be a nuclear wasteland right now.
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:iconpenhuin:
Penhuin Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I live in Nevada. It already is a nuclear wasteland sooo nice try.
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:iconcelestialsheep:
CelestialSheep Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
If this was a video game forum, I would have responded with "I see what you did there."

But yeah.
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:iconikiska:
iKiska Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Student General Artist
Indeed -- with shenanigans like this to keep me busy on these cold winter nights, how can I not keep in good spirits?
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iKiska Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012  Student General Artist
I wouldn't throw the word "hate" around like that with this one, to be honest. Apparently she thinks we ACTUALLY hate her and it's really bringing her down. :lol:
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lovebehr Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2012
Yeah surssly. :ohnoes:
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