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December 28, 2012


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Am I a mean girl??!

IndigoSparkles Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm very forward with people and throw insults at them without thinking how they might react or feel inside and the I say I'm joking.
I have mood swings and when I'm down I pick on people without aplogizing just so I can let my feelings out somwhere.
I love my best friend and would do anything for her but usually when she's frustrated or upset I often don't know how to help her or don't help at all.
I say boys are boring even when theyr'e not.
I just want attention from my firends and sometimes go to extreme measures just to get noticed. Many of you who know me will say I'm hyper and childish and unfeeling.
I get called ugly and brush off the comment but inside it really, really hurts.
I get jealous and disagreeable when people I'm close ot start doing something or are better at something than me.
I cry for no reason when nobody's looking and when they ask what's wrong I say I'm fine.
I have those days where I'm happy with who I am and my life and those other days where I can't stand myself.
I have harmful addictions and secrets that I cant bring myself to tell anyone and I hide my inner feelings with laughter. I laugh a LOT. I love my friends and I feel lucky to have them and time spent with them is quality time indeed.
I pretend to hate boys but rteally it's cos I'm tongue tied and I'm too self-concious to send subtle hints that I have a crush on them.
This has been bothering me for a while guys- I'm not a mean girl, am I? Or is it just a teenage thing?

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namenotrequired Dec 30, 2012  Student Interface Designer
Locked at OP request :lock:
You sound like a kinda of junky person. Oh well, get in the pile.
IndigoSparkles Dec 29, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
thanks for everyone for what they've done and said, but you can stop mailing me now. I'm good xxxx

IndigoSparkles xxx:)
namenotrequired Dec 29, 2012  Student Interface Designer
Shall I lock this for you then? :)
IndigoSparkles Dec 30, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
yes please
moxiee Dec 29, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
I think you are and I would have given you twice as many mean comments back if I really knew you but most likely we would still be friends until I get sick of you.
universalsugar Dec 29, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Feeling mean doesn't always mean your being mean. From quite a bit of the stuff you said it's seems that you appreciate your friends and that you are nice person. People can't always be sensitive to other peoples feelings when they them self are having trouble with there own feelings (such as you feeling like you may be being mean). The mood swings could almost certainly be explained by it just a teenage thing a lot of people have mood swings when there teenagers as its all part of growing up blah blah blah . In conclusion it seems to me your intentions are good, your a nice person and your just a going through a stage which is making you feel uneasy.

Hope that helped XD.
Amberissa Dec 29, 2012  Student Interface Designer
If you realize how you are to people around you, why not change your behavior? Appeal to your better nature. If you believe you're a good person, then you are! Prove people around you that they are wrong about you! It's not an awkward situation to suddenly change your behavior to people. It notifies people that you're trying to be a better person to everyone from now on. If you believe in the kindness of people, they'll believe in the kindness of you. And trust me, you'll feel it.

Expect great things if you're good and respectful to others. You're never to late : )
puppy-dangerous Dec 29, 2012  Professional Artisan Crafter
'and throw insults at them without thinking how they might react or feel inside and the I say I'm joking'

Don't need to read any further. Yep. You are.

You want people to like you, you gotta quit that crap.

WHY you are doing it doesn't matter in the real world. Only your actions matter.
IndigoSparkles Dec 29, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
this is what I'm tryna improve the most - thanks for your answer xxx
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