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December 11, 2012
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:iconpmmurphy:
PMMurphy Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Its ok to get involved if you think its worth it. But you gotta be resonable. There are phone numbers you can call if you think someone is suicidal even if they are on the internet. Or you can even report it to the cops in her area. Let professionals and people who deal with these kind of things everyday handle it before you mess someone's life up more then it already is and are the cause of the suicide.
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Requiemachina Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
wrong move.
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CrystalGoldfinch Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Professional General Artist
I don't think you're wanting to try and help them. :|
To be quite honest you're doing the total opposite!
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Mercury-Crowe Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Professional Artisan Crafter
If you want to help someone, give them a list of resources. Usually starts with the suicide hotline number.

You aren't helping. You don't know this person- which you have just opened up for harassment. Leave them alone.

Seriously, if someone did this to me- that is, what you just did- I'd go out of my way to get them. Or at least be very angry and creeped out. That is stalker behavior.
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CatapultedCarcass Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Wow. You are a dick.
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Morthax Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
You just posted her personal information for everyone to see. What the fuck are you thinking. :stare:
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Felissauria Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
Holy fuck, you creepy little stalker.
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Mew-Sumomo Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Student General Artist
Uh yeah, trying to almost-dox someone isn't the right way to go especially if you don't know them personally/haven't really tried to advise them at all.
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Knightster Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
The moment you post someone's personal info you're essentially putting them up for more harm than good.
Shit like this doesn't fly. Get this thread deleted yo.
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:iconelmida:
Elmida Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
What the hell man, it's YOU who should need mental guidance. Are you insane, spreading personal information all over the internet?
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dorkface4 Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
Also that looks like a poem not a suicide note.
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dorkface4 Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
Why on earth would you post all her person details on here? If you are legitimately concerned then you should have contacted her family on facebook.
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darkanddefiant Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
holy crap, that was not good. :stare:

first, it's her decision, sucky as it is.
but you haven't helped her at all with the tracking her down. in fact, that's pretty fucked up.
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SpookyInk Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Its her choice. :shrug:
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:iconnokari:
nokari Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2012  Professional Interface Designer
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I'm guessing that was you she's talking to?

This is not how to handle a suicidal person, especially a stranger over the internet.

For one, you don't know her at all, none of us do, which makes the whole tracking down her details and history quite creepy. Secondly, because you don't know her, you don't know how serious she is actually being. She could be writing a poem or rant. Third, you shouldn't be giving out other people's personal information in such a manor. If anything, you just opened her up to possibly a lot of spam and trolls on all of those accounts.
Lastly, if she does need help, you have as much information and ways of contacting her as we do, so I don't get what you're expecting from putting all this information here. It would be just as weird and confusing for her for any of us random people to contact her as much as it would be for you to do it yourself. From the looks of her journal, she's not only got friends she can talk to here, but also at least one she talks to in real life. So unless she only has that one friend and in some bizarre turn of events her friend encourages her to kill herself (not likely and assuming the girl is being serious), she's probably already got friends and/or family there to talk her out of doing anything bad to herself. From the looks of it, random people butting in is only upsetting her, so control yourself and don't be hysterical. 99/100 times we see this stuff turning out to be drama queen that just wants more attention and weeks, days, or even hours later comes back acting like nothing happened.
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CatapultedCarcass Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
"you shouldn't be giving out other people's personal information in such a manor"

:iconisayplz::iconsaysplz:Your manor or mine...? :eyes:
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PuzzledHeartBox Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
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iwishtoknow Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
Yes that was me she was talking too, I already sent a message to DA saying to delete/lock this post to hide her personal info.
Honestly regret even doing this seeing as I much mucked it up pretty bad.
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nokari Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Professional Interface Designer
You should start by going to #help asking a CV to at least close the topic right now, send that girl an apology, and leave her alone. If you're still concerned you can keep an eye on her for a while and report any sudden bad turn of events, but don't dig any further into her personal life and if you do report her to FB or dA, let them be the ones to decide what to do.
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siantjudas Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2012   Digital Artist
By the looks of it too, the user is both very pissed and creeped out that you tracked down her facebook and all that.
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bohobella Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2012  Professional Traditional Artist
Posting all of her private information here and telling her you're trying to report her suicidal activity are both terrible moves. If you live in her country, there are surely places you can call. Getting a ton of people on a public forum to contact her through these private means would far from save a life...
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siantjudas Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2012   Digital Artist
Don't you think you went a little overboard here, and really on the creepy side. Do you really think posting someone's personal information on a public forum was the best course of action?
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iwishtoknow Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2012
I see what you mean, I probably did go a little overboard. If this isn't allowed then lock/delete this board, but I dunno I rather be safe than sorry.
I really don't take this stuff lightly, but it is the internet and even as I posted this I even thought what the heck am I doing they could be crying wolf.
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siantjudas Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2012   Digital Artist
Yet you decided to post all their information on a public forum anyway, great job. You really just made her life that much worse you know that right?
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:iconiwishtoknow:
iwishtoknow Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2012
I probably did, pretty much did a damned if you do, damned if you don't type thing :(
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:iconsiantjudas:
siantjudas Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2012   Digital Artist
No you pretty much did a damned if you do thing.
No one asked you to stick your nose in someone else's business like that.
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Abstract-Mindser Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2012
Now I don't mean to be rude, but I had a recent encounter with a person online who pretended to be dying of leukemia as a stunt to get people to play their romhack. And not one of the lesser leukemias.

Can you verify that this isn't one of the thousands of attention grabs I've seen on dA?
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PuzzledHeartBox Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
:iconiknowthatfeelplz:

I've seen a couple of those "I'm dying please donate to save my life" kind of stunts :lol:
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:iconpmmurphy:
PMMurphy Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
the thing that sucks about those stunts is if you vent about serious problems on the internet thats how people treat you -_-.

But then again its more healthy to deal with serious problems with human contact.
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PuzzledHeartBox Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
EXACTLY!
Why SHOULD people on the internet help you, they don't know you.

And COULD they help you? Without just giving you money?
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PMMurphy Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I dont look at it as help. I don't want help either.

I see it as a way to get unbiased honest opinions of the matter. And possible more insight of the situation.
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:iconpuzzledheartbox:
PuzzledHeartBox Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
Well yes.. but expect people to flame you or disbelief you, it's the internet where everything is possible.
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:iconpmmurphy:
PMMurphy Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
i know. But i can still complain about it if i want to. I dont exactly have friends to talk to about this kind of stuff. All i got is the internet. Everytime i tell people in person about my life it always screws me over.
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iwishtoknow Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2012
Sadly I can't. I don't even know the person IRL, I just watched them for their art and she's already upset at me for commenting her Facebook page on her entry.
I hope she isn't really going to do it, but her reply to my comment shows she's already angry with me and even hid the comments so I dunno.
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CherylBlanche Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
I think she was only doing it for attention, and she didn't like receiving that sort of attention irl, in which case you linking her facebook to that journal was against her wishes, but well deserved.
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