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December 4, 2012


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Anxiety/boredom....REALLY bad habits forming!! HELP.

BlackPathway Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012
I've had an issue with nail biting for as long as I can remember. My parents tried to stop it, but I never kicked the habit. I'm almost 17, and I still do it just as badly. We've tried everything...taping my fingers, buying bitter polish to put on them, giving manicures, clipping/filing them frequently, and doing the rubber band thing. Nothing.

If for whatever reason I can't bite, or I just choose not to at that particular moment, I've gotten into the habit of hair-pulling. I won't always pull the hair out, but I pull at the strands constantly to the point where it is falling out and my hair is getting thin on the sides.
Even if I put it back and pin up my bangs, the second a strand falls out, I start doing it without thinking.

I do see a counselor/psychiatrist, and I take medications for major depression and severe anxiety. I've had a history of post-traumatic and eating disorders, but that hasn't been an issue in quite some time. Since last year, my mood has been great, better than it has been in probably my entire life. But these habits are still, well, habits. I rarely feel anxious anymore...only a little bit in the afternoon for the last few hours of school.

I'm having a hard time seeing whether or not this is due to anxiety, or boredom. Or just that I've gotten the habit and now I can't stop. I'm not expecting to get this fixed in a timely fashion...I know it will take time. Especially because it's two different habits equally as destructive.

Does anyone have any tips or anything?
(While trolling sometimes makes me laugh, I'm legitimately concerned, so please refrain.)

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Jade724 Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I have all sorts of habits like that. I bite my nails, twirl or braid my hair, tap my feet, drum on my desk. Half the time I don't even know when I do it. I don't think you will be able to get rid of all your habits, but it's possible you could change from unhealthy ones to harmless ones. Chew gum to get rid of nail biting(I know you can't always do that with school though, sorry) and whenever you start pulling your hair, stop and do something else with your hands. I have a bracelet that I made out of floral wire that I almost always wear that I play with it I need something to do instead of biting my nails. Try to transfer your habits to something harmless. Hope this helps! :D
Ms-JuneSummers Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Student Writer
I often sit on my left hand to prevent myself from scratching my face or plucking my lips. Perhaps it could help against the hair-pulling. As for the nail-biting, have you tried chewing gum to keep your mouth occupied?
saartha Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Compulsive hair-pulling/tugging is called trichotillomania. It's pretty poorly understood in the medical community, but it's commonly associated with depression and stress. So this is something you should definitely let your counselor know you're experiencing, if you haven't already. S/he may be able to provide some sort of cognitive therapy routine. In the meantime, this site may prove useful to you: [link]

I started pulling out my eyebrows and eyelashes in late middle school, and it's only been very recently that I've gotten it under control (I'm now 23 years old). The best I can tell you is to redirect your attention when you notice yourself doing it or begin feeling the urge. For me, I found that doing piano exercises on my legs or other finger games helped. Even just plucking at the fabric of my jeans helped to a certain extent.

Keeping your fingers busy may not necessarily ease the urge to pluck, but it will force you to be more aware. Don't get discouraged about relapses, just keep working toward breaking the habit by pushing your urge times. One hour without plucking eventually turns into a half-day, etc. Little victories.
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