Question for y'all (age 14+)


thewrabbithole's avatar
True or False...
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
-Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)

Oh, and I said 14+ because I think thats the lowest age y'all are getting into "serious" relationships, you know what I mean? I have no idea how young everyone's starting to "date" or anything :/

I want to know if there's something wrong with me ugh, thanks to everyone who answers ok u///u

-Wrabbit
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BlueKomurin's avatar
False
False
Average, I think. I've been called pretty and also been called uglier than Rosie O'Donnell :S
PhanThom-art's avatar
Zetikla's avatar
All false I guess
SadistSkunk's avatar
1) Yes. But the relationship I'm in now is the only one that lasted more than a couple of months.
2) I have no problems finding someone that wants to be my GF. But finding someone that I really like and that I can be myself around was a lot more difficult.
3) Yes.
IdNiDveifencetum's avatar
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
BF-GF relationship isn't really attractive to me. I don't want to be in this kind of relationship. And to be really honest, I have a lot of guy friends who really like me, but they see me as a guy.
-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
Repeating what I just said, I will never want one, but yea, it would be no problem finding one.
-Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)
I don't know. Do you think I'm attractive?

This is normal. Everyone asks these questions particularly in the teen stage of their life.
Whiskeybound's avatar
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
It's never really been easy. Too socially awkward.
-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
Not quite.
-Are you moderately attractive?
I wouldn't say I'm hideous. Decide for youself, check my DeviantID.
ZeFlyingMuppet's avatar
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
In a LD relationship for 3 years now, buddy xD age 17.

-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
How should I know? I'm actually still in my first relationship (and hopefully only) I was very shy at first, I'll say that.

-Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)
BITCH I'M FABULOUS :iconfabulousplz: Lol jk but I wouldn't say I'm exactly ugly.
lukasbennett's avatar
i always seem to have a girlfriend and i always find one quite easy..... i wouldn't really say i was attractive!

I'm comfortable that im not the conventionally good looking and never will be. im happy with the way i am and i know i possibly appeal to some but not others.
NoNoWhat's avatar
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
Oh no. It's a rare moment when someone has a crush on me, and it's like finding an extremely rare gem if I find someone who wants to be in a relationship with me i have a boyfriend now though who supports me a lot

-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
Oh no. It's quite a problem. Though, I'm not the type of person to want one.

-Are you moderately attractive?
Average.
Between-Winds's avatar
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
Once I got to college, I haven't have a hard time finding someone. Before then, the high school caste system placed me at the bottom, so I was never paid attention to.

-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
I haven't been looking and I've never noticed when someone was hitting on me. That said, people can smell desperation a mile away and it's completely unattractive. Several of my male friends do not have girlfriends specifically because they are desperate to have one. Once you stop making a big deal out of it, you'll find someone.

-Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)
I suppose I'm average. I don't really dress well, though.
Jet4321's avatar
Well. Im 15 and i just wanna say something. Scince right now, you have your own money, buy some flowers and give it to the girl you like when a ''special event comes up ''

Tips on how to make this ''asking out'' more sucsesful-

Forget EVERYTHING SCHOOL TAUGHT YOU ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS.(if you follow what they said, then you will end up looking like a dork.)

Try to (keyward) SOME ''new girls''

Ask some of the few people you like, because as ive heard that old man on the street, ''You cant win em all my friend''

ask some of the girls you know, so it will be easier to do it scince shes familar.

*remember!!! it doesnt have to be from your school!*

Finnaly, dont go for the popular girls. I know some of them are actually nice, but they may have an irogant mind set.

If none of this worked for you, then dont try that hard, and just stop for a while. Eventually the girls will get older and ''grow'' if you no what i mean ;)
thewrabbithole's avatar
aw wow that was really nice of you to write all that!
Hehe I'll definitely try doing that! but lol, what the hell did school ever teach me about relationships?
Thanks a lot, friend!
Jet4321's avatar
Well, in my school we had this unit about relationships. 1 thing i know is that flowers really do work when you older, like a teenager or higher. But when your a tween, it looks dorky and the girl will think your mom bought it. Heh, dont worry, as long as your not american( im american, but i mean amercian as in FAT ) then your fine :D
thewrabbithole's avatar
wowww i laughed so hard at the "i mean american as in FAT!" hahaaa...

Im not fat or anything (and i happen to live in california!) but hey- fat people get the girls too somehow... Maybe i could just say that i have a lot of money ;)
LOL
Jet4321's avatar
Yehhhh, dont do that. Then you will eventually run out of money... Well good luck in the military :D.
KillerFreya's avatar
False, false, false(at least in my opinion).

I'm cripplingly shy and find it incredibly hard to talk to people unless they talk to me first.
DemonLog's avatar
I'm twenty-four years old; as far as "attractiveness" goes, I wouldn't say I'm a supermodel, but I've been told I'm "good looking", and that I have a great smile that puts people at ease; I can get along with people fairly well on a surface level ( people think I love socialising and stuff, but I get discouraged and irritated in crowds fairly easily )...

Here's the kicker...

NO ONE HAS EVER, EVEN ONCE, EVEN HINTED AT, ASKING ME OUT OR BEING INTERESTED IN BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME. I had two relationships I thought may blossom into something long-term, but in the end the girls BOTH said, nearly word-for-word ( and no, they had no way of knowing each other ), "I love you a lot, I really care about you, and I really hope and pray that you'll find happiness... but I can't be a part of that. I'm sorry."

My mind has been boggled by this for years. Why the fuck would you love someone, tell them that you WANT to be with them, and yet tell them that you CAN'T even though you want to and no one could possibly give you what they've given you? I don't get this.

Anyhow, hope that helps you not feel like a loser. ( and PS - I've met some seriously mature and responsible fourteen-year-olds, few and far between, but still I've met a few )
summitstars's avatar
- Very true, but I say no 95% of the time.
- I like being single. Unless I really like you and/or we're very good friends, you have pretty much zero chance of me wanting to be in a relationship with you.
- I'll leave that up to anyone who has ever seen my face. I can't make that judgement.
ThornPie's avatar
Yes to the first and no to the second statement, since I'm an open lesbian living in a heavily conservative town. Whoop.

I at least consider myself physically appealing. Hell I legitimately have no self esteem issues when it comes to my body.

Once upon a time I was extremely bummed because of the whole relationship thing, especially since people feel the need to complain about petty issues in their love lives to me while I've been rejected by nearly everyone I've asked out. But I'm enclosed in a tiny town with a bunch of people I hate, and hopefully I'll be able to branch out once I graduate high school and develop some better bonds with people. UuU
yourmomisastapler's avatar
-False
-False
-I guess so...I consider myself average.
gator1949's avatar
1. no.....im usually viewed as a crazy at my high school...... not very, how should i say it..... open to relationships.
2.no. none of them are the right one for me it seems.
3. ive been told im a good lookning guy, but not like, crazy good looking.
Unpredictabloo's avatar
To answer all your questions in one fell swoop, getting into a relationship has proven rather easy for me whenever I've actually went out looking. The problem is that every time I've just been looking for a boyfriend I wasn't really interested in anyone I started dating. I was a bit in love with being in love, and it wasn't good. So now I'm just happy on my own, unless someone crosses my path who's smack-in-the-face everything I want in a guy.

I'm fairly young, though (17, and never been in a relationship outside a few highschool flings), for the record. And I'd say I'm moderately attractive, nothing movie-star gorgeous, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder I guess.
Meemie7's avatar
False across the board and I'm PROUD of it!
The-Blonde-Pony-Bear's avatar
1. true - It can be easy you just got to try your hardest
2. false - You can find someone who your friends with but when your friends ot becomes difficult
3. Yes I have been told 6 times that I should model but it's my choice not too