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Question for y'all (age 14+)

:icontheamazingwrabbit:
theamazingwrabbit Featured By Owner Nov 27, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
True or False...
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
-Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)

Oh, and I said 14+ because I think thats the lowest age y'all are getting into "serious" relationships, you know what I mean? I have no idea how young everyone's starting to "date" or anything :/

I want to know if there's something wrong with me ugh, thanks to everyone who answers ok u///u

-Wrabbit
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:iconbluekomurin:
BlueKomurin Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2013
False
False
Average, I think. I've been called pretty and also been called uglier than Rosie O'Donnell :S
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PhanThom-art Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
false
false
true
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:iconzetikla:
Zetikla Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2013  Student Photographer
All false I guess
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:iconsadistskunk:
SadistSkunk Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
1) Yes. But the relationship I'm in now is the only one that lasted more than a couple of months.
2) I have no problems finding someone that wants to be my GF. But finding someone that I really like and that I can be myself around was a lot more difficult.
3) Yes.
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IdNiDveifencetum Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
BF-GF relationship isn't really attractive to me. I don't want to be in this kind of relationship. And to be really honest, I have a lot of guy friends who really like me, but they see me as a guy.
-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
Repeating what I just said, I will never want one, but yea, it would be no problem finding one.
-Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)
I don't know. Do you think I'm attractive?

This is normal. Everyone asks these questions particularly in the teen stage of their life.
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Whiskeybound Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2013
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
It's never really been easy. Too socially awkward.
-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
Not quite.
-Are you moderately attractive?
I wouldn't say I'm hideous. Decide for youself, check my DeviantID.
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:iconzeflyingmuppet:
ZeFlyingMuppet Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2013
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
In a LD relationship for 3 years now, buddy xD age 17.

-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
How should I know? I'm actually still in my first relationship (and hopefully only) I was very shy at first, I'll say that.

-Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)
BITCH I'M FABULOUS :iconfabulousplz: Lol jk but I wouldn't say I'm exactly ugly.
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lukasbennett Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2013  Professional Photographer
i always seem to have a girlfriend and i always find one quite easy..... i wouldn't really say i was attractive!

I'm comfortable that im not the conventionally good looking and never will be. im happy with the way i am and i know i possibly appeal to some but not others.
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NoNoWhat Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
Oh no. It's a rare moment when someone has a crush on me, and it's like finding an extremely rare gem if I find someone who wants to be in a relationship with me i have a boyfriend now though who supports me a lot

-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
Oh no. It's quite a problem. Though, I'm not the type of person to want one.

-Are you moderately attractive?
Average.
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Between-Winds Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
Once I got to college, I haven't have a hard time finding someone. Before then, the high school caste system placed me at the bottom, so I was never paid attention to.

-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
I haven't been looking and I've never noticed when someone was hitting on me. That said, people can smell desperation a mile away and it's completely unattractive. Several of my male friends do not have girlfriends specifically because they are desperate to have one. Once you stop making a big deal out of it, you'll find someone.

-Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)
I suppose I'm average. I don't really dress well, though.
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Jet4321 Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
Well. Im 15 and i just wanna say something. Scince right now, you have your own money, buy some flowers and give it to the girl you like when a ''special event comes up ''

Tips on how to make this ''asking out'' more sucsesful-

Forget EVERYTHING SCHOOL TAUGHT YOU ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS.(if you follow what they said, then you will end up looking like a dork.)

Try to (keyward) SOME ''new girls''

Ask some of the few people you like, because as ive heard that old man on the street, ''You cant win em all my friend''

ask some of the girls you know, so it will be easier to do it scince shes familar.

*remember!!! it doesnt have to be from your school!*

Finnaly, dont go for the popular girls. I know some of them are actually nice, but they may have an irogant mind set.

If none of this worked for you, then dont try that hard, and just stop for a while. Eventually the girls will get older and ''grow'' if you no what i mean ;)
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theamazingwrabbit Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
aw wow that was really nice of you to write all that!
Hehe I'll definitely try doing that! but lol, what the hell did school ever teach me about relationships?
Thanks a lot, friend!
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Jet4321 Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
Well, in my school we had this unit about relationships. 1 thing i know is that flowers really do work when you older, like a teenager or higher. But when your a tween, it looks dorky and the girl will think your mom bought it. Heh, dont worry, as long as your not american( im american, but i mean amercian as in FAT ) then your fine :D
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:icontheamazingwrabbit:
theamazingwrabbit Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
wowww i laughed so hard at the "i mean american as in FAT!" hahaaa...

Im not fat or anything (and i happen to live in california!) but hey- fat people get the girls too somehow... Maybe i could just say that i have a lot of money ;)
LOL
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:iconjet4321:
Jet4321 Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
Yehhhh, dont do that. Then you will eventually run out of money... Well good luck in the military :D.
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KillerFreya Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
False, false, false(at least in my opinion).

I'm cripplingly shy and find it incredibly hard to talk to people unless they talk to me first.
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DemonLog Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist
I'm twenty-four years old; as far as "attractiveness" goes, I wouldn't say I'm a supermodel, but I've been told I'm "good looking", and that I have a great smile that puts people at ease; I can get along with people fairly well on a surface level ( people think I love socialising and stuff, but I get discouraged and irritated in crowds fairly easily )...

Here's the kicker...

NO ONE HAS EVER, EVEN ONCE, EVEN HINTED AT, ASKING ME OUT OR BEING INTERESTED IN BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME. I had two relationships I thought may blossom into something long-term, but in the end the girls BOTH said, nearly word-for-word ( and no, they had no way of knowing each other ), "I love you a lot, I really care about you, and I really hope and pray that you'll find happiness... but I can't be a part of that. I'm sorry."

My mind has been boggled by this for years. Why the fuck would you love someone, tell them that you WANT to be with them, and yet tell them that you CAN'T even though you want to and no one could possibly give you what they've given you? I don't get this.

Anyhow, hope that helps you not feel like a loser. ( and PS - I've met some seriously mature and responsible fourteen-year-olds, few and far between, but still I've met a few )
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summitstars Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
- Very true, but I say no 95% of the time.
- I like being single. Unless I really like you and/or we're very good friends, you have pretty much zero chance of me wanting to be in a relationship with you.
- I'll leave that up to anyone who has ever seen my face. I can't make that judgement.
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ThornPie Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Student Digital Artist
Yes to the first and no to the second statement, since I'm an open lesbian living in a heavily conservative town. Whoop.

I at least consider myself physically appealing. Hell I legitimately have no self esteem issues when it comes to my body.

Once upon a time I was extremely bummed because of the whole relationship thing, especially since people feel the need to complain about petty issues in their love lives to me while I've been rejected by nearly everyone I've asked out. But I'm enclosed in a tiny town with a bunch of people I hate, and hopefully I'll be able to branch out once I graduate high school and develop some better bonds with people. UuU
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yourmomisastapler Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
-False
-False
-I guess so...I consider myself average.
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:icongator1949:
gator1949 Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012
1. no.....im usually viewed as a crazy at my high school...... not very, how should i say it..... open to relationships.
2.no. none of them are the right one for me it seems.
3. ive been told im a good lookning guy, but not like, crazy good looking.
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Unpredictabloo Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Student General Artist
To answer all your questions in one fell swoop, getting into a relationship has proven rather easy for me whenever I've actually went out looking. The problem is that every time I've just been looking for a boyfriend I wasn't really interested in anyone I started dating. I was a bit in love with being in love, and it wasn't good. So now I'm just happy on my own, unless someone crosses my path who's smack-in-the-face everything I want in a guy.

I'm fairly young, though (17, and never been in a relationship outside a few highschool flings), for the record. And I'd say I'm moderately attractive, nothing movie-star gorgeous, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder I guess.
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:iconmeemie7:
Meemie7 Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
False across the board and I'm PROUD of it!
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:iconthe-blonde-pony-bear:
The-Blonde-Pony-Bear Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
1. true - It can be easy you just got to try your hardest
2. false - You can find someone who your friends with but when your friends ot becomes difficult
3. Yes I have been told 6 times that I should model but it's my choice not too
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:iconhewhoflewandfell:
Hewhoflewandfell Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012
1) False....unless you count the girl I met at comic con, but still false because she hasn't contacted me in half a year.
2) False - kinda just happens man, especially when you're not actively looking. Actively looking makes you look desperate instead of just mildly interested.
3) in comparison to the rest of the community...I'm pretty typical (considering I live in a town that's like 48% Hispanic, 48% Asian, and 2% white).

what the hell are you talking about 14 is STILL too damn young to be in a serious relationship. You shouldn't be thinking about it until you start searching for prospective colleges (say 16 or so)
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xJessie-chan Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
True or False...
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you

False, I'm sort of picky (ok, we'll I am picky) and even though I find myself wanting to be in a relationship, (cause my friends feel the need to intervene) either my insecurity or my 'standards' get in the way

-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one

False, oops I think I answered it in the first question

-Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)

Uh...False, I mean, I think I'm average definitely not rare, but quick as I typed false...I believe it's safe to say it depends on what day?
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xtinyheartx Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
- I find a lot of my guys friends saying i am pretty...so i guess...but i never actually tried
-not easy to find a bf...cuz i just have interest in anyone
-idk some days i am ...some days im not lol

im pretty sure nothing is "wrong" with you... unless you show up on the Maury show

anyways...if you are 14 don't stress about relationships just have fun. It was hard for anyone to tell me that, but they were right.
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avadaxxxkedavra Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012
I'm 15 and I don't really want a boyfriend lols. So I really don't know. People have been said to like me, but I don't find myself wanting to be in a relationship all that much
. I guess if I really wanted a bf, i might find one
I think I'm all right looking. I can't judge all of it myself, but people have told me I was really pretty. (oh, so you agree, you think you're really pretty XD)
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Word-Witch Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
1) Yes and no. Plenty of guys have claimed liking me, but I rarely find one I like back.

2) No. If anything it seems harder because I don't want to play anyone.

3) I'd say yes, pretty in a cute way. I'm not gorgeous but I've got looks for sure ;)


I'm 15, so hope this helps :)
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SmarticleParticle Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
1) No and 2) No. I don't know anyone who I would want to be in a relationship with and anyway, not many boys in my school are mature/responsible enough to be in a serious relationship. I wouldn't trust any of them.

3) I'm pretty average-looking, but I don't go to school all tarted up like a lot of girls, and they are the ones who have boyfriends. I don't really make an effort when it comes to my looks. '^^
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Neiot Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
1. ) True. My ex; imagine the look on his face.

2. ) False. When I want one, it will be difficult for me to find one.

3. ) True. Not all my opinion.
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Innocentfate Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
:bulletpink: True, depending on my liking or the friendship level is high.
-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
:bulletpurple: True
-Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)
:bulletpink: Oh c'mon! Its not like looks is everything. I mean, people prefer both personality and a little spice on
the looks. So idk.
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2numb2relate Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012
No, No, and I thinK so. I myself wonder if there's something wrong with me. No one shows any interest in me and it is a huge problem.
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:icontheamazingwrabbit:
theamazingwrabbit Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
right? that's exactly what Im feeling
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2numb2relate Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012
It is so annoying because I see other people who go in and out of relationships every other week, but after years, I cant even get anyone to notice me.
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OoNinaYuMeoO Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
+
-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one

=> I'd say it is true BUT you have to go for it, to hope and to have luck too !but it is clear that if you don't "make efforts" to meet people you don't get to know them so you don't get relationships :(

-Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)
I guess moderately ^^

Do not think there is something wrong with you... there are up and downs in everyone's sentimental life.
I am extremely satisfied of my current relationship with my boyfriend but i had to "try" a lot of relationships before :p, and to make HUGE amount of efforts to make this one right...
and sometimes you feel like nobody wants you and/or you don't want anybody around...
BUT there is always someone worthy at some point ^^
be patient, be brave ^^
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Baranamtara Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
No... Definitely not... XD

-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
... hehe... Nope.

-Are you moderately attractive?
I'd say normal? Not ugly, not pretty... XDDD
Something in between.
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:iconmosstarkitteh:
MosstarKitteh Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
1.) No

2.) No

3.) Meh, not really. I'm extremely average-looking.
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:iconvulpimo:
Vulpimo Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012
You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you

No

Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one

No

Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)

Yes

Actually, I think about 25 is lowest age w'all get into serious relationships...
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beesen Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012
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chubbycheeksmylove Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist
-You are easily able to find someone who will want to be in a relationship with you
False(for my ideal type) and True(for the guys that I don't like romantically).
They think of me as an IDEAL sister!!!WHY?!. Guys who are younger than me are the one who flirts or have feelings for me(I don't like younger guys).

-Finding a BF or GF is no problem to you when you find yourself wanting one
True
I can just have one whenever I want.

-Are you moderately attractive? (for research control purposes)
I don't know. It depends on whose perception are we going to rely.
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CharityK Featured By Owner Dec 25, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
FIRST of all, there is NO SUCH THING as a serious relationship when you're 14. No fucking way. and before all you kids who have no bills to pay, diapers to change, cant vote, drink, drive, or serve your countries (in most cases) throw an internet tantrum because of these words, stop, don't type anything in response to this, go draw some anime, and remember that because you're the age you are, the ONLY real problem you have at this very moment is how many faves you'll get on that drawing once you upload it to the screen that you're CONSTANTLY staring at, getting dumber and dumber while your parents work to provide you with clothing, food, and the roof over your head because your too young to do it yourself.
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OoNinaYuMeoO Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
even if teenagers are not experimenting "serious" (what does it even mean) relationships, doesn't mean they don't have feelings !
More over : the relationships you live when you are a teenager have a lot of consequences on yourself, on your future life... so they are as important as the ones following...
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CharityK Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Im not saying 14 year olds dont have feelings...Im saying they are just too young to have a serious relationship..and when I say serious what I really mean is ANY kind of relationship to be quite honest. Its not just that they are not emotionally equipped or that their brains and bodies haven't had time to mature whatsoever, or that they have no means of supporting another person emotionally spiritually, or financially, it's ALL of those things.
You are right, the "relationships" that occur in the teenage years have a lot of consequences...because you shouldnt be in one. I mean, I am 24 years old, married to the ONLY man Ive ever been with (since I was 20) and I have a child and I STILL sometimes feel like Im incapable of certain aspects of a relationship BUT I have lived enough and have let my mind, soul, and body mature enough to be responsible. Im fully capable of caring for myself and thus am capable of sharing my life with someone.
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OoNinaYuMeoO Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Okay, you have your point of view and i agree with you on some parts
but i have personally been in serious relationships since i am 15 and i did support my boyfriend in material, sentimental ways, etc ...

"because you shouldnt be in one" : says who ??

Come on this is 21st Century and teenagers DO have an emotional and sexual life BEFORE they are 20 (i don't mean everybody but like a half maybe)
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CharityK Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Im not arguing whether or not they do. My point is clearly that they shouldn't. A person that young should have other things on their mind besides relationships and sex. Its ok to have it part of your life. We as humans are sexual creatures, we were born that way but your body isnt even done growing yet let alone your brain so why would you commit yourself to somebody whether it be emotionally or physical when you're not even done "cooking"? Wouldnt you want to wait until you have more to give? Until you can give you're whole self to that person? Dont get me wrong..Im not one of these religious fanatics that believes in sex only after marriage. I just cant recall anyone I've met who started having "sersiousrelationships and sex at 14 that didnt HORRIBLY regret it. (And Ive met a lot.)
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OoNinaYuMeoO Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
i'm glad we can exchange quietly our point of views ^^

Well every person i know, who started serious relationships and sex at around 15, absolutely don't regret it.
According to you, how old do we need to be in order to be "finished" ??
I don't agree with you.
Our body is clearly able to do everything we want at 15 (okay maybe 14 is early).
And yes our mind is not completely achieved but is there some time in life when your mind is perfectly done ? i don't think so.
We are in constant evolution and able to share and give a lot even at 15.

I guess it really depends on the circumstances of the sex and relationships... but it can be good, safe and let a good memory ! just depends ... maybe there's a part of luck too.

and I'm glad you are not a fanatic too ^^
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theamazingwrabbit Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
omg, Im not 14, don't assume I'm 14...

I didn't know which age to put when I made this question ^ ^"
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CharityK Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
I need said YOU were 14.
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WizardOfUnseen Featured By Owner Dec 25, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Amen!
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