Deviant Login Shop
 Join deviantART for FREE Take the Tour

Details

Closed to new replies
November 26, 2012
Link

Statistics

Replies: 54

Help with an annoying sibling

:icongreekstyle:
GreekStyle Featured By Owner Nov 26, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
My brother is being quite judgemental towards me since some time ago.

His problem is that he believes I am lazy and do nothing else than being on the internet all day. However that's not true, actualy both him and my dad don't help in the household and my mom is at work, so I do most stuff myself, but he doesn't listen to me when I tell him.

I used to ignore him at first, but he talks about me to everyone, even my friends. He once yelled at me for this reason in the middle of the crowd -_- The worst is that I live in a small society and it's pretty easy to be stigmatized, and now some people laugh at me behind my back.

Of course you can say I shouldn't care about what others say at me, but I didn't expect my own brother to do such a thing.

So my point is: How can I convince my brother to stop judging me 24/7 and leave me alone?

btw, if you ask he is +20 years old
Reply

You can no longer comment on this thread as it was closed due to no activity for a month.

Devious Comments

:iconvaletdepik:
Valetdepik Featured By Owner Dec 2, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Hehe, I like the way people came here to talk to you.
That's nice ^^

Keep your guard up and always wear your armor.
ħEND¤CONNEXIONħ
Reply
:icongreekstyle:
GreekStyle Featured By Owner Dec 2, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
yeah! To be honest I was surpised as well :) And I felt a lot better, especially since I thought I had no one to talk to.

will do mate!
Reply
:iconvaletdepik:
Valetdepik Featured By Owner Dec 3, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm happy that there's people for you.
ħEND¤CONNEXIONħ
Reply
:icongreekstyle:
GreekStyle Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
me toO
Reply
:iconvaletdepik:
Valetdepik Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
heuheuha, clever, as always.
ħEND¤CONNEXIONħ
Reply
:icongreekstyle:
GreekStyle Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
of course since we are the same :P
Reply
:iconvaletdepik:
Valetdepik Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Yoooo, flattery!
ħEND¤CONNEXIONħ
Reply
:icongreekstyle:
GreekStyle Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
it's more than flattery. It's fact! :highfive:
Reply
(1 Reply)
:iconkristennoelle:
KristenNoelle Featured By Owner Dec 1, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I would try to sit down and talk with him. My sister is 27, and I don't really understand, because me and her are like 2 peas in a pod. But try and talk to him and tell him that it bugs you a lot and ask him nicely to stop and if that doesn't work, why don't you talk to someone? I mean like sit down with an adult and talk about your problem, because they might know how to solve it.
Reply
:icongreekstyle:
GreekStyle Featured By Owner Dec 2, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
He never listens to me, especially when he is angry. You have no idea, it's like talking to a wall.

I tred to talk with some people about the matter, but most of them told that I should try working more, or that he is just joking and I took him too seriously. That's why I posted my issue here.

Fortunately, =SaturnGrl helped me enough with her comment.
Reply
Add a Comment: