I think she's lying about it to you/not bringing it up because she thinks you'll be mad or upset. She's probably worried you'll be disappointed in her and she's nervous and doesn't want to deal with that. Sooo... I think you should just forget about it and when the time comes she'll probably tell you and if not, well... we all have our secrets. Don't let it bother you. I know that's easier said than done, but she probably feels guilty about it just as much as you feel betrayed for her not telling you.
Hmm, do you 3 tell everything to each other? I mean, maybe there is a reason for why she didn't tell you? and not telling you isn't exactly 'lying', if she twisted the truth, then she would be lying. If she still tells you she is a virgin, maybe in that case too, there is a reason for it. There is no way to know who is lying, maybe Alex is lying, how can you be sure? Maybe he is just joking about it?
Creativegirl91Featured By OwnerNov 26, 2012Hobbyist General Artist
I am honestly not sure if Alex is telling the truth or not. Like I said he has a very good poker face so it is hard for me to tell. He was serious when he told me about it and when I was in denial about it at first he came back at me and was like I'm not joking this really did happen. And I know I tell them everything, and they in turn have told me a lot of their personal things as well.
Who she confides in when it comes to very personal issues is her choice. You can be the best friends ever, yet sometimes, some things might seem more appropriate to discuss with someone else instead.
Alex on the other hand, is a lousy friend if he passed on something which was told to him in confidence. Who knows what his source was even, maybe she wasn't the one who told him, maybe it was the person she was with. Or maybe it didn't happen at all, maybe he's lying. In any case, the fact that he blabbed about something sensitive like that at all, made up or not, makes him seem rather questionable to me.
I would put it out of my mind entirely. It's her personal thing and who she does and doesn't feel too embarrassed to share it with shouldn't have any impact on your friendship if you respect her privacy. If she wants to talk to you about it, she will, if she doesn't, she doesn't have to. As for him, I would keep an eye on him and I certainly wouldn't trust him with anything private ever again.