Well, if she's playing games with you, don't play into them. You broke up, so do what you want to do now. If she didn't want that to happen, then she shouldn't have (I'm assuming?) broken up with you. If you're the one who broke up with her, then tough cookies for her.
no no no. She says that shes still in love with me yet likes someone else. I wasn't saying that you posted that. My apologies. And what i meant by "you assumed correctly" was because she broke up with me.
If you're going to break up with someone, it's best to break contact and move the hell on. If you can't then you probably shouldn't have broken up. If you're both so convinced that it won't work with the distance even if you both care that much, you have to let yourself heal instead of talking to them about your feelings for one another. There's really no exception to this. Neither of you will move on into functional relationships if you're going to sit around and miss the other while holding each other at a distance (metaphorically) because "it just won't work."
Obviously if someone cares about you they'll be concerned for your life, but if you both can't mutually put the effort into being together then they should probably not influence your choices.
Don't let her hold you back from realizing your dreams. This may sound harsh: but if she really loves you, she'll realize that this is your dream, and she will give you your freedom to do what you want.
Why would she be toying with you? It makes no sense.
You two broke up, because you didn't think the relationship was strong enough to be long-distance. That doesn't mean she suddenly stopped caring about you. Of course she'll be sad and scared of the thought of you joining the army. Nothing indicates that she's toying with you.
Do what you will, but don't make her look bad just because she still cares about you. Why would you do that?
I left out a part from my post because i was in a hurry and i apologize. She spoke to me when i told her about it and was sayin that she's still in love with me yet likes someone else. idk what to make of that.