Try to talk to her or communicate with things that SHE'LL understand/enjoy, regardless of what other people say. If you manage to become her friend before you try any moves, she'll hold you in higher esteem.
Ambition is key.
Firstly it shows he’s passionate about something and while it may not be you (yet), it’s a sign that he’s capable of commitment. A strong work ethic demonstrates a sense of responsibility – another positive indication for selecting a life partner. Ambition also reveals a healthy sense of get-up-and go. It shows that he’s not content just hanging out with his mates down the pub and that he aspires towards something more - the desire to make things happen and improve his life. There isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t find that attractive.
Show your drive, and make it happen. You can do this.
It would be worse if you had a high pitched squeaky voice. Girls like deep voices, don't pay any attention them ones. I've never heard of girl making fun of guy with a deep voice, it's usually vice verse. Maybe think about what you're going to say before you make small talk. I know it can be difficult but it's all in the mind.
ive never heard of a girl making fun of a guy for having a deep voice... im mean i dont htink that would bother anybody, My BF has a really deep voice, so of course i dont think its a big deal. I dont think you should worry so much about it. I think if something is supposed to happen with this girl it'll happen, ya just gotta stay positive about it
I agree with Damian-Blaze in that i don't think the girl you like is making fun of you. In fact she might be talking about it with her friends a lot cause she might like it just a guess tho. As for talking with people I sometimes have the same problem. When I was younger I didn't really have a problem with it but with my creative mind and all I started to get teased a bit by others which although it didn't bother me that much it still causes me to be more timid when talking to people I don't really know well. So as advise start talking to people about things you find interesting or ask them what they find interesting. Be yourself and don't try and act like someone your not cause you'll dig yourself a hole but if you act like yourself and you find something you and other people both find interesting then next you'll know you'll be talking a ton and slowly get more comfortable with talking to new people. Another thing is don't try and please everyone. What i mean is if you act like yourself and you can't find something interesting to talk about with the other person then its ok. Sometimes the best conversations can be debates to where you share different views on a subject. so good luck man hope it works out for you
I wish I had a deeper voice lol. I've never heard of a girl who made fun of a dude because he had a deep voice. Maybe she's not making fun of you and if she is, that's a pretty lame reason to make fun of somebody.
conversing with people takes practice if you're shy. Some people don't have that problem but people like me who was very shy my whole life just learned to force myself to speak to people starting with people who like the same things I like. Bodybuilding, cars, designing, heavy metal, etc.
Another thing that motivates me is in the field I'm in I have to be social and I want to excel in life so I forced myself to speak more. I use to have a bad stuttering problem and I was embarrassed to speak to people. I got made fun of a lot so I learned to control my speech and it started working. One thing I've learned is that the things you fear are usually not real. It's just an illusion in your head. I was so afraid that people were thinking certain things about me but I never had any proof of that. It was all in my head. Now I'm starting to enjoy talking to people. Sometimes I get a little nervous but I'm doing way better than I was before.
This may sound a bit funny but watching the Joker from the Dark Knight actually helps. I don't know why but watching him makes me want to be more social for some reason lol.