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Ethan4 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
It is thanksgiving break but I miss talking to my freinds and hanging out with the girl I like. When I am at school though I feel shy and very quiet. Most people know me but it is difficult to start a conversation or talk to them. My voice is also deep and I think that freaks people out when I try to say something . When I talk to the girl I like she laughs and tells her freinds about how deep my voice is. I feel like she is making fun of me but I am not sure. Can you please help ?
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SlippyMagnus Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Try finding things you've got in common.

Try to talk to her or communicate with things that SHE'LL understand/enjoy, regardless of what other people say. If you manage to become her friend before you try any moves, she'll hold you in higher esteem.

Ambition is key.

Firstly it shows he’s passionate about something and while it may not be you (yet), it’s a sign that he’s capable of commitment. A strong work ethic demonstrates a sense of responsibility – another positive indication for selecting a life partner. Ambition also reveals a healthy sense of get-up-and go. It shows that he’s not content just hanging out with his mates down the pub and that he aspires towards something more - the desire to make things happen and improve his life. There isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t find that attractive.

Show your drive, and make it happen. You can do this.
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Ethan4 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I think this is my favorite advice well at least to the girl I have liked for so long. Thank you
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SlippyMagnus Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Happy to be of service.
Be good now!
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Badgercheese1994 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Student General Artist
Is it deep like fat creepy guy deep? Or deep like sexy jazz singer deep?
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Ethan4 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
More like a small 15 year old with a older person's voice
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erarosaimmortal21 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012
It would be worse if you had a high pitched squeaky voice. Girls like deep voices, don't pay any attention them ones. I've never heard of girl making fun of guy with a deep voice, it's usually vice verse. Maybe think about what you're going to say before you make small talk. I know it can be difficult but it's all in the mind.
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Ethan4 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thank you but what did mean by them ones ?
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erarosaimmortal21 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012
Them girls that were laughing.
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gothlolilover Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
ive never heard of a girl making fun of a guy for having a deep voice... im mean i dont htink that would bother anybody, My BF has a really deep voice, so of course i dont think its a big deal. I dont think you should worry so much about it. I think if something is supposed to happen with this girl it'll happen, ya just gotta stay positive about it
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Ethan4 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thank you
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gothlolilover Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
your welcome :)i hope things go well for you
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Ben3418 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012
I agree with Damian-Blaze in that i don't think the girl you like is making fun of you. In fact she might be talking about it with her friends a lot cause she might like it just a guess tho.
As for talking with people I sometimes have the same problem. When I was younger I didn't really have a problem with it but with my creative mind and all I started to get teased a bit by others which although it didn't bother me that much it still causes me to be more timid when talking to people I don't really know well. So as advise start talking to people about things you find interesting or ask them what they find interesting. Be yourself and don't try and act like someone your not cause you'll dig yourself a hole but if you act like yourself and you find something you and other people both find interesting then next you'll know you'll be talking a ton and slowly get more comfortable with talking to new people. Another thing is don't try and please everyone. What i mean is if you act like yourself and you can't find something interesting to talk about with the other person then its ok. Sometimes the best conversations can be debates to where you share different views on a subject.
so good luck man hope it works out for you =)
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Ethan4 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thank you
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Damian-Blaze Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I wish I had a deeper voice lol. I've never heard of a girl who made fun of a dude because he had a deep voice. Maybe she's not making fun of you and if she is, that's a pretty lame reason to make fun of somebody.

conversing with people takes practice if you're shy. Some people don't have that problem but people like me who was very shy my whole life just learned to force myself to speak to people starting with people who like the same things I like. Bodybuilding, cars, designing, heavy metal, etc.

Another thing that motivates me is in the field I'm in I have to be social and I want to excel in life so I forced myself to speak more. I use to have a bad stuttering problem and I was embarrassed to speak to people. I got made fun of a lot so I learned to control my speech and it started working. One thing I've learned is that the things you fear are usually not real. It's just an illusion in your head. I was so afraid that people were thinking certain things about me but I never had any proof of that. It was all in my head. Now I'm starting to enjoy talking to people. Sometimes I get a little nervous but I'm doing way better than I was before.

This may sound a bit funny but watching the Joker from the Dark Knight actually helps. I don't know why but watching him makes me want to be more social for some reason lol.
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EllieGarcia Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Cool, you feel like that too? XD awesome
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Damian-Blaze Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
lol yeah.
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Ethan4 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thanks for the advice I did not expect for someone to respond to this fast but thank you.
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Damian-Blaze Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
No problemo.
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