My Boyfriends Strange Brother.

~cryingcrimson-dragon Nov 21, 2012 Hobbyist Artist

My boyfriends brother is, strange to say the least. Really I think he has some sort of mental disorder, though I can't guess what. I'll just start from the beginning.

When his brother was about 13(he's 15 now) he would do sexual things with his younger sister(she was 9). He would go into the bathroom with her and watch her go to the bathroom. He would "play" with her like get into sexual positions with her, and generally just touch her inappropriately.

He also eats very obnoxiously, smacking his lips VERY loud even when he is told that he is he continues.He also does other strange bodily things like rolling his neck to the point he actually injures it or licking all around his mouth in the winter until his whole mouth is chapped.

He never does his school work, he recently got a letter from the school saying that he had not turned in a single assignment all year. He also has done several things like his mother making sure he has an assignment done, and put in his binder, but the next day he just doesn't turn it in.

He is also very destructive. He carves things into the walls and interior of the car with knives. I've heard some stories about him when he was younger about him destroying things (most of them pretty valuable) for no real reason.

The thing that made me write this post was something very shocking he did.

This summer I brought my boyfriend a present home from San Francisco. It was a very cool stuffed octopus (he loves octopuses) nothing major but he really liked it.

My boyfriend told me his brother had cut the back of the octopuses head open, put some type of tube in it, and masturbated into it. His brother has done some things like this like masturbating onto other belonging or clothes of my boyfriend (they share a room) This behavior alone is very disturbing.

Really I have no idea whats wrong with him, it seems too sever to be just being a horny teenager. I'm sort of venting and also trying to see if anyone has any idea what this could be or has similar stories. I know this kid needs to see a psychologist, but I know his parents wont take him. Any ideas?

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!shogun3540 Nov 22, 2012 Professional Artist

he masturbated with a stuffed octopuss..........he's a fucking lunatic, get away from the family before he rapes you, and your pic gets on sixty minutes before they find your partially decomposed body in they're basement where he has been raping your lifeless corpse...

RUN!!!! RUN FAST!!!!!

*JOVictory Nov 22, 2012 Hobbyist Interface Designer

well this seems like a problem an professional has to solve. i suggest you are nice to him and treat him well because he clearly struggles with something. i think he`ll find out of it himself but it may take years...

~Glori305 Nov 22, 2012

This is beyond strange.

And his parents already have to be aware of it. So they are either in denial, or are doing things that people are not aware of.

There is only one thing you can do, and that is call in the law on the sexual abuse. They will look into things, and if they find evidence of sexual abuse, and there is someone willing to press charges, he will be arrested.

That is about all you can do.

~ILoveBigCats Nov 22, 2012 Hobbyist Traditional Artist

That's called abuse. His parents have more serious issues than him if they think he doesn't need some professional help after KNOWING what he did to his sister. I'd turn him over to the police.

~cryingcrimson-dragon Nov 21, 2012 Hobbyist Artist

I should have added that he doesn't do the sexual things with his sister anymore, it has turned into the acting out sexually in other ways, like the octopus incident.

~signsofortune Nov 21, 2012

Listen cryingcrimson-dragon

I am going to say something that I don't even like saying

But it sounds to me like this kid is seriously disturbed and needs help ASAP.

I once went to a seminar on pedophilia before volunteering somewhere,
and at least one of the actions you have described fits the bill for someone who is likely to become a pedophile older in age. (the molestation of his sister)

I would recommend reporting what is going on. but don't tell his parents it was you who did it. report it anonymously.

~cryingcrimson-dragon Nov 21, 2012 Hobbyist Artist

I would, but I have the feeling that it would tear the family apart if I did. They don't seem the type to be understanding or be able to handle something like this.

=Soni-Ganishi Nov 22, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

As much as that sounds like a bad thing, it might actually need to happen for them to open their eyes and realize the seriousness of this situation. Like what others have said, if he's doing things at this age, then who knows what he will do later on. This screams all types of warnings.

Act now rather than hope things get better. As sucky as it may be with the possibility of the family falling apart, you or your boyfriend NEED to go to someone else that can do something with this situation, because based on what you've typed, all the parents are doing is putting their fingers in their ears and going "LALALALALA NOT LISTENING".

=Svataben Nov 22, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

What about the little girl? Why not worry about what it is already doing to her RIGHT NOW?

She is being destroyed, and no-one is helping her.

!dorkface4 Nov 21, 2012

If a family will not protect their daughter from sexual abuse then they deserve to be torn apart.

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