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Cheating?

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~Apathetic-Princess Nov 19, 2012
What does it mean for guys? I mean if a guy has a girlfriend and he cheats on her, does he really love her? What if he likes another girl too? Advice would be awesome.
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~2lazy2talk Nov 23, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Really depends on what type of relationship they have.
In my monogamy views and lifestyle, if I found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me, I'd make sure to give him a good reason to spend a few weeks in the hospital...and all the chicks too.
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~Coterabeth Nov 23, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Is it possible that the person who cheats might not be getting what they want out of a relationship?
If so, they should break up with the person of breaking his or her contract. Sex of each party aside.
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*JericaWinters Nov 23, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I don't think highly of someone who risks passing STDs to their partner by cheating on them with other people. Their actions show how little they care for their partner. It's really an awful thing to do. If the relationship is an "open" one than that's a different matter.
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~DanniStarr Nov 23, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
I agree with so many people on here;
If you are in a relationship with somebody and they cheat
its just not okay. There are many reasons a person does it
normally to do with feelings they have or insecurities they
have about themselves. Fear? Of being committed, or just like
the thrill of what they cant have and shouldnt do whilst in a
relationship with another >.>
People can be cruel sometimes, and it can be quite heartbreaking.
Out of experience; If being cheated on, do break up with them.
Most people who try work through it, end up being hurt again :/
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~Apathetic-Princess Nov 23, 2012
Thanks that helps. :)
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~DanniStarr Nov 23, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
Thats okay! :3
I try to be helpful :'3
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~Wikidtron Nov 21, 2012  Professional Artist
This is why I'm polyamorous.

I have 3 boyfriends and two girlfriends, and they all have their own other partners, and they all know about each other, and there's not TOO much jealousy and we all have lots and lots of fun.

It's like having a cake and eating it too. A gigantic fucking wedding cake. With an orgy on top.
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~LaurenHasCombusted Nov 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
They could still like/love you, it's just that they don't like/love you enough to stay only with you.
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~DutchConnaisseur Nov 20, 2012
Cheating is cheating, if you are male or female. I don't see the difference.

Or talk about it and come to a solution
Or accept the way it is
Or break up
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~RavynneNevyrmore Nov 20, 2012  Student Digital Artist
They might love you, but they don't respect you. So they're not worthy of a relationship with you, regardless of how they feel about you.
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