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~PictureOnProgress Jul 4, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Ok, my mom just gave me a speech about how I'm in risk of failing this year. I'm fully aware that I have all the blame, BUT...As she speaks, and keeps speaking, I start getting angry. Even my thoughts become a horrible mess.
So, while I know it's my fault, I still get mad at her, and I find it really wrong. Even more the fact that I was talking her back at times.
Is there any advice to help me stop being so temperamental? Any is thanked in advance
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$kozispoon Aug 25, 2012  Student General Artist
Temper or not, no one likes being told they are wrong. Especially when we know we're the cause of our troubles. It requires tapping into humility our own egos don't like doing which can result in lashing out, or in this case having a temper.

It sounds like your folks care and are taking the time out to actually give a hoot about your future and academic success. Some parents don't even know what classes their kids are taking much less whether they are failing or not. Like all the other posters here have said, think on the positive rather than the negative.
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~PictureOnProgress Aug 25, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Thanks :D
I'll start trying to change my point of view
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=BasiliskX89 Aug 10, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
When you start getting angry, try and see the point from the other person's point of view. Try taking deep breaths and thinking about things that make you happy.
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~PictureOnProgress Aug 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Think like others : Partially done.
Deep breaths: Done.
Think about happy things: Better work on it o.o
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=BasiliskX89 Aug 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Well that you have to do fully. Always out yourself in others shoes. Lol, best of luck mate.
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=RebelAtoli Aug 10, 2012   Writer
Ah, hormones do a real number on emotions and tempers and stuff.

If I ever get really angry, or mad, I just walk away and avoid everyone for a bit until I calmed down. Usually doing something I enjoy helps, like reading or writing, or listening to music...

Also, counting in your head from ten, and taking a deep breath can also help.
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~GrowlingCat Aug 10, 2012
I had a foul temper as a teen. It got better the older I got :)
Counting to ten helped me way back when.
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~PictureOnProgress Aug 10, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Counting.
Will keep it in mind:D
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~PuffyAmiYumiFan1215 Aug 9, 2012
For that particular situation, I totally get it. I got mad at my parents when I understood something I was involved with was wrong, and it just pissed me off when they went on and on about it. Maybe you aren't temperamental.
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~PictureOnProgress Aug 9, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Maybe it's the fact they rub it too much on my face?:confused:
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