Getting Over Her

*rockmal May 20, 2012

Hey, guys, just asking for a little help. I recently, officially broke up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago. Before then, we were kinda doing that break up and get back together by default thing, back and forth since like December. But now, its actually done. I feel myself getting over her and I'm beginning to think about her less and less everyday as to what it seems, even though I don't want to, but I have too. I was dating her for almost two years and she was my first girlfriend, which makes it a little harder. Anyone have any tips on how to forget about her a bit more easily? I always stumble upon different things that remind me of her, from anime couples (lol), to a lot of songs on my Ipod, to simple random things I see every now and then. I still love her and I don't think I will ever stop. My philosophy is kinda like, you never stop loving someone, you just learn to love someone else much more. But yeah, any tips? Thanks everyone, I would really appreciate it.

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*rockmal May 20, 2012

It was sort of the same with us. We were basically planning lives with each other, but I guess we kinda saw it coming. Thanks, I hope it does go pretty easy for me. So far, so good I suppose.

~IgniseDraconis May 20, 2012 Hobbyist Digital Artist

Main thing is to stand straight and keep your jaw firm. Straight-faced march through the shit life throws in your face every day you draw breath. In the end words will only help you as much as you allow them to help you. You are the source of your happiness, your anger, sadness, etc. You control it. Whether by allowing the words of others to aid you or by your own way of self-motivation and self-restoration.

You're welcome

~AmalaAzula May 20, 2012 Digital Artist

That is pretty hard since she was your first girlfriend. I don't really believe in breaking up with anyone hence me being with my fiance, he's my first boyfriend ever.

But there are some people who have to let go for the better. I say keep yourself occupied. There will be little things that remind you of her. That's normal. If you're ready to get back in the dating scene then go for it. If not and you want to take it slow, talk to some ladies, get your mind off of your ex and enjoy yourself. Or hang with your guy friends. Stuff like that. Really basic.

*rockmal May 20, 2012

haha, your one of the lucky ones! I probably won't really be doing that until another few months. Thanks alot.

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