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Issues family of verb abusers

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:icondrybonesreborn:
=DryBonesReborn Apr 2, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
All 3 of my family members are Narcissists. They make fun of my health conditions and call them excuses.
My sibling threatened to poison my food saying I'm not allergic to something when I know I am! He's healthy! They refuse to repent or feel remorse for the abusive words they told me, and other disrespectful things such a mocking me, dismissing me, belittling me etc.
Just because I'm a certain 'age', does not mean I can move out.
I want to move out. So help me, if I'm a millionaire I will get out and leave them behind. Real parents do not abuse their children! I am not a b*Tch, Lazy, etc

So yeah. So angry right now. I've seen other familys. They don't care if you don't hav ea job, if you are looking they are happy.

I walked in the house with applications, in a rant he told me I'm lazy and I walked out.
I went to a job workshop today, same thing. When I am demonstrating this I get yelled at

Or a job I know due to legitimate reasons, my sibling thinks he knows more tells me (at a job I was not called for) it's open. Why re apply when I was turned down once? :iconfaceaplz: God so needs to help me now. Phone book and online can only do so much. I've been on interview already, and others got turn down for.
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:iconbasiliskx89:
=BasiliskX89 Apr 8, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I hope you get a job soon mate since you do have to move out. You may talk to your family about this and try not to take them too seriously when they are abusive. I know what you are going through. It is not easy but it is something you have to bear so learn to avoid them by being busy. Whenever they tell something abusive, take your headphones and pop them on your ears. That would burn them inside. :D
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:icondrybonesreborn:
=DryBonesReborn Apr 8, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thanks. I'm female by the way. If I was 18, healthy, then it would not be an issue. I'm trying to find a job. Most have limits of what you can lift etc. Yeah. Thing is they accuse me of being the devil when I didn't do anything. :shrug: Thanks for the encouragement
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:iconbasiliskx89:
=BasiliskX89 Apr 8, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
People will find out flaws no matter how perfect you are. Learn to ignore them. What kind of health problems do you have?
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:icondrybonesreborn:
=DryBonesReborn Apr 8, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Noted.
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:iconbasiliskx89:
=BasiliskX89 Apr 8, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
:( I wish I could help you but there you go :hug:
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:icondrybonesreborn:
=DryBonesReborn Apr 8, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thank you. :hug:
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:iconbasiliskx89:
=BasiliskX89 Apr 8, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I know this is going to sound weird since we barely know each other, if you want to talk, I am willing to listen. :)
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:iconkinzerkinz:
*kinzerkinz Apr 7, 2012   Photographer
Have you tried talking to them about the way they treat you? If they won't listen, you can try to set up something with a family counselor. Or keep trying to get a job and move out. Either way, they have no right to treat you that way and I think you should stick up for yourself.
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:icondrybonesreborn:
=DryBonesReborn Apr 7, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah. Their reaction is "I don't care". Or "The world will not apologize to you."
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:iconkinzerkinz:
*kinzerkinz Apr 7, 2012   Photographer
Jeeze. You should definitely get away from them.
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