and don't get me wrong, as most guys... if not all of us, enjoy sex without condoms, but it concerns me, the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy.
granted she uses birth control, but the last time i tried to use a condom she looked at me with this strange offended-hurt-kitten sad face, and said to me, "you don't wanna have a baby with me?"
i have had similar issues. condoms suck, for girls its like all feeling is gone and its not really enjoyable. i prefer to use the pulling out method but it is still risky. birth control can be dangerous as well. just tell her everything, be truthful and listen to her ideas. all methods have risks, downsides, and failures.
also wanting a baby is natural. i have the worst maternal instinct and just can't shake the urge. if you two are good for eachother a simple open conversation should help things
Why would you feel bad about what she says if you don't want to get her pregnant? Do you think she'll feel fine about you leaving eventually if she has kids? Things will be even worse then and you'll feel trapped in a marriage that you can't escape without causing a third world war.
Dear god I cant believe this thread is still going lol and I cant believe you are still replying to these post aha Also suprised that you havent knocked her up yet ! Good job.
First off, because of her age, if she desperately wants to have kids with you, then find a online game thing where you both can have tons a virtual children until you're both old enough. Second off, I am not suprised at guys for that. Third, you two don't have sex often, correct?
granted she uses birth control, but the last time i tried to use a condom she looked at me with this strange offended-hurt-kitten sad face, and said to me, "you don't wanna have a baby with me?"
what do i do?