haha! Wow! Italian daddies girl and and Irish catholic! It reminds me of me and my ex!
except I wasn't a daddies girl because I hate my stepdad. He forbid me from dating anyone in general. So I just said 'fuck you' and did it anyway.
Maybe you should ask her to ask them if she could bring you over for a dinner or something so they can get to know you and feel comfortable with you dating their daughter. Show them that you're not a guy looking for sex and that you respect he, and them for that matter.

If that doesn't work...
I'll try to think of something that could help other that dating in secrecy....

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Looking for a way to be with her is going to be deceiving her parents no matter how you slice it. I don't know where you live, but in most states a 19 year old with a 15 year old is considered perverse and if you have sex with her, her parents can throw a statutory rape charge on your butt. If that happens, your not only labeled as a rapist for your entire life, but also a pedophile.

Something to think about. Maybe you should wait a few years.

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You can't. Don't stir up more family drama that's already tearing her apart from her family

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if you're 19 years old and find an emotional connection with a 15 year old, then you should run very far away from her because its BAD news for her and bad news for you. there's a very good reason as to why a) its illegal for you to be with her sexually and b) why her parents want her away from you. i'm trying to be nice, but what i'm saying is that at 19, you're light years ahead of her in personal experience and maturity. you're ending your teen years and she's just begun hers.

if you truly cared about her, you'd wait until she's of LEGAL age to pursue a relationship. until then, keep it in your pants and respect her parents.

I agree

Also it's like, how can they have dated for 8 months yet he's never met her parents? That's just wrong in my opinion. I think that there's obviously a very GOOD reason why her parents dont want her dating/with him, and they should both respect that, and it's just tearing her up with her family/causing drama, that's never good She needs to find someone her age if anythign at all, and so does he.

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exactly. see, most any MATURE 19 year old guy has the decency to want to meet his girlfriend's parents if its going to get serious. he hasn't met them because he knows its wrong.

i was a 14 year old dating a 19 year old guy once (i used to attract real winners...), and i can tell you that right now, she's so in love with this guy that she doesnt care about her well-being or her family. she's 15, her mind and emotions are silly putty in the hands of a more experienced person. kids are impressionable, especially by older men who are entering adulthood yet can't find it within them to pursue somebody their own age. you better believe that when i hit 19 myself and looked down on other 14 year olds i came to realized just how sick that guy was, and he got to hear from me exactly how disgusting i found him to be. ugh, i get shivers just thinking about it.

Yeah I went through a similar thing I get nauseous thinking about it, and that's what's the worst - is that her emotions are all fucked up and she's got this impression from her "wonderful boyfriend" that he must come first and that her family is being close minded or something, its like nooo theyre being smart and loving like theyre supposed to be

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Listen to me closely.

Parents may serve as an occasional wedge, but in this case, I cannot blame them. There is a good chance that Sara was honest to her parents and told them your age, in which case the parents have a responsibility to protect their child.

In my opinion, to allow their underage daughter to be involved in a relationship with a legal adult would be a very horrible example of parenting. Point blank.

Your dA profile states that you are living in New Jersey. As I am sure you're aware, it is illegal for an adult to be involved with a minor. If it is true love, three years will make little to no difference. Neither will any other reason the parents can think up. But for the time being, it would be best for you both to keep your distance.

In addition (and this is me just adding my here), the following statement hinted at something for me:

"Now, what reminded me of this is Sara's recent haircut. She got it cut from down-to-her-butt length to above the shoulder. And it looks AMAZING. She's so irresistibly cute, now, that it MUST be karma taunting me."

Now, to me, it sounds like you are infatuated with her and her apperance, or at the very least, do not truly know her yet.

So allow me to give you a piece of wisdom: love can wait. It is the only intangible element that can outlast time. If it is nothing more than a crush, then this feeling of "I must have her now" is not going to go away, and is going to nag at the both of you until you do something incredibly stupid that will get you into a crapload of trouble.

But if you were truly in love, you would already know that love can wait three years, love can overcome her family's objections, and love cannot exist through deceit.

Learn that, and the rest will fall into place.

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It's a combination of two things: the consistant asking of the question...
...and a persistant search for the answer." --F.S.

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actually, i dont think i've ever met a girl who dated a guy dramatically older than her when she was a young teen that DOESN'T resent the guy. and you know, i remember feeling so angry when my own parents banned me from talking to my creep, but now i'm so glad that they did what they had to do. she'll realize eventually that her parents are actually doing a good thing by keeping her away, but till then...

Well, the age gap makes the not getting yourself arrested bit harder. Much harder.

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