Do something for yourself, in relationships usually things are shared, now your free, spread your wings and do what you want to do

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Try to tuck it under your belt as a learning experience - the pain you are feeling is a growing pain, you are maturing and growing and learning what's better for yourself Make yourself your first priority

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Care for yourself first.

You can get over anything you want to.

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"Emo is what happened to punk when it got kicked in the crotch."=Prince-Charles

FAITH IN HUMANITY: Lol fail.

Shit happens.

Most wise piece of advice anyone has ever given another. Because sometimes, shit does happen, and you need to realize this, accept it, and move on. Of course, it's easier said than done. But in the end, that's what it comes down to.

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Love isn't happy. Hate isn't angry or sad. Scared isn't helpless. Emotions don't have synonyms.

Until next time, I leave you with the wise words of the inside of my Sobe cap: "It takes a nation of lizards to hold us back."

"No one is worth your tears…When you find someone who is, they won't make you cry."

“Music mends broken hearts.”

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"A shattered heart is not meant to be fixed, but instead is meant to be spread amongst the world, piece by piece. Take a shard of your broken heart, and give it to someone who is missing a piece."

When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal.

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rain rain go away come again another day

Go exercise. Working out is said to help you feel better. And go treat yourself to something you like (ex: designer bags, comics, etc etc). It is also important to not isolate yourself so much. It us understandable you will do this for most of your time for awhile, but make a habit to at least try once a week to hang out with someone who you can lean on for support. Also, try to think of the postive things as to why things are this way (maybe they were an asshole? Or Selfish? etc) I know that last one will be hard, but sometimes for a bit it will work.


Im currently in the same situation as you and Im doing all said above.

Hope everything works out! And remember to stay strong!

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Look at yourself now. Are you satisfyed with who you've become?

Whenever heartbroken or alone, I do like to look at quotes about love and remember that someday, somewhere, someone will love me like that.

One of my favorites is from Brian Andreas. "I read once that the ancient Egyptians had fifty words for sand & the Eskimos had a hundred words for snow. I wish I had a thousand words for love, but all that comes to mind is the way you move against me while you sleep & there are no words for that."

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The poem on the page is only a shadow of the poem in the mind, and the poem in the mind is only a shadow of the poetry and the mystery of the things of this world.
- anon

I think a huge part in the healing process is letting yourself be angry (for a short time) but then most importantly allowing yourself to love and want good things- for the person that may have been part of the heart breaking,-and for yourself.
Oh, one thing a friend did for me once:
She took me to a place that was of solitude and began to ask what made me enormously happy.
She asked me to tell her five things.
(So I will ask you the same?
What are a 5 things that contribute to your happiness??)
I listed them off and she shared hers as well. a lot of giggling and smiles were exchanged..
After our "session". haha. together I realised that I had much more to be greatful and excited about than I realized....
I feel that we must find and remember the good and loving aspects about our lives the most when we are hurt.
Also, talking to others about their harships surely puts mine into perspective....

What you need to do is not dwell on your feelings. Find something that interests you and immerse yourself in it. Preferably something that requires total focus.
If you can't think of anything, volunteer for habitat for humanity [link] or some other charity.

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