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Sex after 2 months?

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~EmoBunni

Mar 30, 2008, 1:02:24 PM

Ok, so I have been going out with my gorgeous boyfriend for just over two months. (Although we were friends before that too.)

We see alot of each other at school and at each others houses and going out to places with each other ect - as you do when you are going out right. And I feel really comfortable around him so we have gone pretty far with each other. I'm 15 - almost 16 - so that maybe doesn't seem right to other people however.

But because we have done just about everything, I want to go one step further and just have sex with the boy. But My friends say that 2 months isn't long enough and that I should wait until we have been going out for longer and just think about it more.

But i want to do it anyway

So, how long should I wait, if I need to wait at all?

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=Juliabohemian

Mar 30, 2008, 1:03:50 PM

Well, since he's GORGEOUS I say don't wait another second.

Seriously. You're 15. You'll have plenty of time for sex later.

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=bohobella

Mar 30, 2008, 1:05:12 PM

He's just looking for somewhere to put his penis!

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=Juliabohemian

Mar 30, 2008, 1:10:02 PM

What 16 year old guy ISN'T?

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~Typik

Mar 30, 2008, 1:14:20 PM

Me!

Except this sandwich I have right here is tempting.

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~SweetXBliss

Mar 30, 2008, 1:17:43 PM

You're fifteen. I wouldn't rush into anything right now. You're just finding out who you are and the things that you want.
After only two months, you might regret it later if you do decide to have sex.
Wait awhile longer. If it happens, it happens.

Just take everything that could happen into consideration:
sex is a serious thing that changes everything once you do it. It'll either change for the better or for the worse. A relationship should be strong in order to handle this and you should both know what the other wants and the limits of each others boundaries. And you should make sure that you guys truly love each other and it's not just the infatuation stage in the relationship.

After two months, even though you were friends before, it might be difficult to know all of this so I would think and make sure it's what you truly want before you do it.
After all, it could just be your body wanting the sex and not your heart.

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=Juliabohemian

Mar 30, 2008, 1:23:25 PM

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~Kristow

Mar 30, 2008, 1:31:05 PM

Well, it could work depending on how you feel about the guy. I was fifteen when I met my bf, who was sixteen at the time. We fell completely in love, were inseperable, and after two months exactly I decided to lose my virginity to him. It was the best and most memorable experience of my life so far. Guess what? It's over a year later, we're still happily together, and we're engaged.

It all depends on the people, and whether you feel you're ready. It could also help talking to your parents. I got a lot of support from mine - my mum took me to the doctors to get me on the pill - and that really helped. Good luck!