And this is why I'm frightened to have two pre-teen stepdaughters. I know what THEY'RE doing here at home and they know damn good and well I'd flay the skin right off their butts if they did anything like was mentioned above. But the girl down the street who is at least a year younger and dresses like a complete and utter tramp and spends all her time hitting on the 18 year old neighbor across the street? I KNOW her parents are at home. I just can't figure out what the hell they're thinking.
I don't think people that young should be doing shit like that either, BUT, food for thought/discussion:
Up until recently (~200 years in the west, less in other parts of the world), 12-14 was the average age to marry a girl off, and get pregnant.
God. You think thats bad? my sister is in third grade, and I swear to god, her class mates are so slutty. Once I had to take my sis and 3 of a her friends to the restoraunt. They all wore skirts that look like belts and brought hula-hoops. when we went, we ordered, and then they all went to the bathroom. They came back, underware-less. they started hula-hooping the hoops, shaking their asses to everyone. Sick sick sick.
As long as I can get a good bj I don't really care. *que crickets* Seriously folks, I hate preteen whores and the like as much as the next guy, but I've found a magical solution to not having to deal with them: Don't fucking visit myspace! The ones that go out in public are even harder to avoid, but I stay in my basement all day playing Splinter Cell, so I'm safe.
Some people just think of kids as asccesories or something.... Not really about the kids future you 6th grade moms. Kids are a big responsibility. Think is you can raise and support the child or god sakes!
the main reason why i find it disturbing/disgusting when children exploit themselves is that if they get pregnant, they cant support their child, who might either die, or have a horrible and shameful life, just because they just had to have sex before they were supposed to
I don't know why they act like that. They've barely developed boobs. They're not hot and they need to get over themselves. It's quite sickening. But if you look at the things and role models around these girls that could be one explination. And there's always the "daddy never loved me" excuse.
girls begin puberty at roughly 13-14 ish so now their just able to show it off. as ive said before, its only gross because youve been taught that way. i choose to not look at that stuff. if you dont like it dont watch. but you shouldnt call them names, maybe to them your crazy.
but thats how you think, shit those same girls might grow up make an online sex site and become millionares. hell, good for them, attention is whats needed for makin money anymore, just being known makes you money now, look at kevin frederline. like ive said before, a shiek in the middle east got married last year, to his something like 50th wife..... a 13 year old girl, i think hes like 65. 10,000 people from all over the world came to his wedding, including from america. so whos view is more close minded
just because he got married to a 13 year old doesnt mean its right
money isnt the most important thing in the world, and just because some famous idiot did it doesnt mean everyone should. in fact, if its his 50th wife, she probably isnt staying with him for long, and if they do geta divorce, who will help her bear her child?
she may be an exception because, with her husband, she can support her children with his help.
the reason I find pregnancy at young ages sick is because children generally cannot handle having kids before they are ready, and their kids' childhood would be horrible. if their kid needs them, they wont know what to do or be able to care for them. with school in the way, how would they find time to even keep an eye on their children un less theyre in the classroom, disrupting everyone else's education?
sure, she could drop school, but then she'd never be able to get a job to support her future family.
"shit those same girls might grow up make an online sex site and become millionares"
you see, the problem with these girls is that theyre not even smart enough to make a fucking website, and i doubt the idea would come through their thick skulls.
if their ever-so-irreponsible parents knew about them fucking around for attention, theres no way theyd ever support it either.
uh no, all 50 are still his wives. hes a shiek= many wives
my sister got pregnant at 14, she then took on a full time job, two after her daughters birth. and basically supported me, my sister, and my parents and her 2 kids. and shes now a nurse, with a good job and a loving family. yes i agree some kids are dumbasses, but to categorize all of them and say their not responsible enough to have sex, is incorrect.
"uh no, all 50 are still his wives. hes a shiek= many wives"
ah, i see, my bad.
"yes i agree some kids are dumbasses, but to categorize all of them and say they're not responsible enough to have sex, is incorrect."
true, not all of them are, but a vast majority are. around where I live, all the attention-whoring little girls rely oh-so-much on mommy and daddy's money, and expect all problems to be solved by someone else.
"my sister got pregnant at 14, she then took on a full time job, two after her daughters birth. and basically supported me, my sister, and my parents and her 2 kids. and shes now a nurse, with a good job and a loving family.
Well, good for her. She is definitely more intelligent/responsible than many others would be at that age. However, most people of her age and below can barely take care of themselves, let alone another human being. Also, I bet your sister wasnt trying to get pregnant at the time, was she?
anyhow, until a female is a fully-matured adult, I dont think they should have children.
"When a woman is too young, pregnancy—wanted or unwanted—can be dangerous for both mother and infant. Complications of childbirth and unsafe abortion are among the main causes of death for women under age 20. Even under optimal conditions, young mothers, especially those under age 17, are more likely than women in their 20s to suffer pregnancy-related complications and to die in childbirth. The risk of death may be two to four times higher, depending upon the woman's health and socioeconomic status."
So, yes, I dont think that underage females should have sex and risk getting pregnant, whether it be for their child's sake or their own.
i agree they shouldnt have children. but i also think IF they are responsible and want to have sex, i dont think its wrong. if their stupid whore mongering teeny boppers then i agree with no, but there in lies the problem, when it comes to that, theres no way to judge, so i dont think its right to say all of them shouldnt be able to, because then your categorizing and forcing opinion based on that categorization. which is why my stand is to let them, but i completely understand your point.
Geez, and I thought it was bad when my fellow Sixth Grade females would go on and on about their boyfriends, or how many guys were asking them out. 3 pregnant in the Sixth Grade? What has this world come too!?
This makes me recall the one time I had forgotten my CD Player for the bus ride too and from school, and was scared out of my wits due to the conversation that my fellow male busriders were having.