Child labour, sorry, pageants, child pageants.


PuzzledHeartBox's avatar
So I’m beautiful, drop dead gorgeous and a real princess.
My mommy is the best mommy ever cause she brings me my Go-Go juice that’s so full of sugar and energy
it makes my eyes twitch and my legs and feet tingle with excitement and diabetes.

It’s okay though, it makes people think that I’m just a poor unfortunate Ritalin child,
while in reality I’m spoilt rotten and bad to the core, suffering from permanent sugar rush.
I’m beautiful, fat, no, not fat. Curved to perfection.

Honey Boo Boo by kogalover97  
 
Child pageants, child labour, child abuse, discuss.

What are your thoughts on children’s beauty pageants take Honey Boo Boo for example,
do you think the children enjoy it? Do they deserve better or is it all an innocent game and I’m blowing things out of proportion?


Here Comes Honeybooboo by gumwolf  
TL;DR: My child’s perfect, and you’re all haters, every single one of you. Shame on you. 
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Pokey-Bunny's avatar
I think they're okay as long as it's done for fun and the parents aren't being horrible to the children if they don't win. And if the child decides it's not their thing then they shouldn't have to do it.
popculturecollection's avatar
If the kids actually like it themselves without being pressured by parents, it's probably fine, even though pageants are still disgusting. However, most kids seem like their mothers are living through them and it's not okay. It's even worse that everyone just finds it 'adorable' or 'funny' and that they're getting stupid television shows about their lives of being forced to perfection when they're like five. Ridiculous and just horrible.
tsuyameki's avatar
Some mothers go too far. But I was a child pageant contestant when I was a little girl, and I never felt unhappy about it. It was the best thing ever! Except that in my country we didn't go as far as they do in the West. We didn't have fake tan etc (maybe because it was also the 90's, so it was a little different). There were fake teeth though ;D

I always found it fun. But then again, my mother never pressured me to be 'perfect'. If I forgot my dance routines, I'd just improvise and it was fine. Actually, I was so cute back then that even if I got confused and called out to my mom "What do I do now? D:" everyone just laughed and thought it was adorable. I won plenty of awards even with situations like this. It was basically focused more on the natural charisma of the child on stage, rather than a scripted performance.

But I loved it. I loved picking outfits (many of which my mother hand-made), I loved making up dance routines (which we also did ourselves), I loved the attention, the pictures, being on stage... It was just reaaaly great and super-fun for me as a little girl. I got to wear things I couldn't wear on daily basis. Basically, I miss it and wish I could have continued to do it. 

True, I remember well many mothers shouting at their daughters backstage etc, and I rarely saw them get any awards- they weren't enjoying it at all, and it was easy to see, so yeah, and any logical mother will stop sending her kid to those if they have to lash out $300 on every entrance fee just to come back home with nothing. Unless they're crazy, in which case I'd be a little concerned for the child's safety.
PuzzledHeartBox's avatar
Sadly enough the pageants have become everything but that which you described.
It could be the difference between West and East, but I somehow doubt it's just that.

I mean, if you have to spray tan your kid, you know somethings wrong.. 

I'm not against pageants, as long as the child can enjoy it, and it's not a weird childhood fantasy of the parent.
tsuyameki's avatar
Indeed, that's the correct attitude towards it!
andlighet's avatar
let's not forget the fact that Honey Boo Boo's mother is dating the man that molested one of her daughters :lol: child pageants are garbage, though.
I once saw a video of a woman taking her very young daughter to get a spray tan. kid couldn't have been any older than five. when people(like the man interviewing her, the camera crew, etc.) questioned the woman, she started going off about how her daughter 'loved it so much' and had 'so much fun.' ten seconds later the camera is filming the little girl getting spray tanned- lo and behold, she's screaming and crying and trying to get away. disgusting.
harperyo's avatar
It becomes a problem when this whole concept is being laregly mediatized and when parents are forcing their children in some way or another. I saw a video of where a mom was forcing her daughter to use spray tan and also forcefully plucking her eyebrows. Seriously, who plucks their 5yo daughter's eyebrows?
PuzzledHeartBox's avatar
I couldn't agree more.
harperyo's avatar
I wonder what will this evolve into.
PuzzledHeartBox's avatar
Spoiled rotten children, no doubt.
graceyanneiseki's avatar
I want to talk about this through my personal experience as a kid. When I was in third grade, my teacher selected me to participate in the school pageant. My mom let me, because I said I really, really wanted to join. Well, I was a kid, so I thought I would be popular if I joined that. After the pageant, I realized that I didn't like such events. It was tiring for me to practice walking every afternoon on uncomfortable shoes. On the night of the event itself, the makeup made my skin feel thick and heavy and I couldn't eat properly because I hated the taste of lipstick. My hair reeked of chemical because the stylist wanted doll curls, so they sprayed a lot of stuff on it. The worst part was when we had to stand under bright lights for a length of time, just smiling and waiting for the ceremonies to resume. Maybe it's just me, maybe I'm more of a sports-oriented kid, but I really, really hated the whole experience. When I have a daughter (or son) of my own, maybe I will let them have the experience as well, if they wanted it, but I would never encourage them to take it up as a career or a business opportunity.
PuzzledHeartBox's avatar
I'd say it's good to allow them to choose whether or not they'd like to have that experience, but I personally do not endorse it.
And your mother doesn't really sound like she forced you to do it, so there's that.
graceyanneiseki's avatar
Yep, I did say that I was the one who wanted to try it out. My mom actually never liked child pageants.
PuzzledHeartBox's avatar
Good for your mom that she actually allowed you to try it then.
graceyanneiseki's avatar
I remembere throwing a tantrum back then. I'm a spoiled kid! :dummy:
PuzzledHeartBox's avatar
PrairieLily's avatar
I think it depends on the level of child pageant we are talking here. I see no problem with having a cutesy little fashion show either at school or as a local thing where the kids dress up as princesses/princes/whatever. What I do have a problem with is national television where little kids dance around on stage in more than their body weight's worth of makeup and glitter, all the while trying to be miniature adults in both outfit and mannerisms.

Despite the blatant sexual precociousness of these children, I agree that one of the worst parts is ruining them as people by spoiling the shit out of them. No one likes an idiot who thinks the world and everyone in it belongs to them. :no:
PuzzledHeartBox's avatar
I couldn't agree more :hug:
JeanneDeaux's avatar
People with curves are beautiful, people swimming in their fat, entertaining this fat with greasy unhealthy food and doing the same to their children are disgusting and shouldn't be authorized to have children, they are a danger to them.

This fat cow that calls herself a mother should be ashamed of herself and what she teaches her children, and she should be very ashamed of exploiting her children to get money and fame for herself.

Sorry for the term fat cow, but people mistreating their children like this disgust me.
DalmationCat's avatar
I hope the people who started child pageants get eaten by titans.
Kitsunefireball's avatar
Before that though, smacked repeatedly with a metal pipe. to the face.