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Why are women so goddamn emotional?!

:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 2, 2013  Student Writer
Let me start by saying hello to you people because this is my first thread. I've been on this forum before, usually posting on threads of my watchers/internet friends.

Secondly, if this thread offends you and you happen to be the type of person/woman I'm talking about; do both of us a favor and either don't post or just leave a post that tells me to go fuck myself. I'm not particularly interested in hearing I'm a bad person. I am only interested in venting on this thread, because it's something that is really starting to annoy me.

Now, let's start by admitting that I can't really interact well with my fellow human beings. I suck at it, but I do try and I can get interesting or funny conversations with people.
But I interact in a certain way. I very much enjoy being sarcastic and really like using 'painful' humor. I will most likely make fun of you via certain things you tell me, but I don't mean most of that. If I did I would've killed a LOOOOOOT of people by now.

Needless to say, I tend to piss off quite a lot of people, especially the sensitive women. And of course they react in the most passive aggressive way I have every experienced, but I just kind of question why they have to be so manipulative about it.
The main reason I'm writing this thread is because two of these women pissed me off today.

The first one did something I really, really hate: giving  information I gave her via private messages (this was on a different website) to someone who had nothing to do with it. They're called PRIVATE messages for a reason and I'd very much appreciate it if I didn't have to watch every word I write down. So naturally I was pissed off and told her to fuck off (I was angry, okay?), because I wanted to be left alone for a while.
Her result: she became emotional and told me that if I didn't want to interact with her anymore I had to say so because it wasn't fair to her (paraphrasing of course).

... What?
How does "I want to be left alone for a while" somehow translate into "I don't want to talk to you anymore"?
Do you really have so little respect for me that you're not even willing to give me some space? I just told her that if she's acting like that then she can just stay away. I'm not her boyfriend, yadayada.

Woman 2 was even worse. She came in the chat of the different website while I was there. I greeted her in my usual witty way and she acted incredibly aggressive, telling me that I'm the most annoying person she's ever met. Of course I responded sarcastically and she responded by saying that 'non-idiots would ask someone what's wrong rather than being an idiot', which I paraphrased right now.
Because of course I can smell it when someone's in a bad mood on the internet when that person hasn't spoken yet.
So I asked her why she was acting like a bitch (smart move) and she of course responded aggressively and kept insulting me. She kept blaming this on her personal problems, which I won't reveal.
So I told her that just because she has some personal problems she doesn't have the right to unload all of her securities unto me, to which she responded it's my fault for being who I am.

...

What?!
Try telling that to victims of bullying, murder (relatives), kidnapping, robbery,... 
"It's your fault for having to go through this awful time! You're just that kind of person!"
Of course she left when she realized she was in the wrong rather than being a grown-up and admitting it.

And these are only two examples, but there are so many different situations where mostly sensitive women bitch and whine at me for saying something they just CAN'T ignore. But of course I'm the misogynistic son of a bitch when I wonder why women can be so damn emotional and whatnot, because it's politically incorrect and all that other crap..

But the thing I really can't stand is the manipulation they try to put behind it. I don't know if any of you has ever experienced this, but they always try to make it seem like you are the bad person rather than them admitting they're wrong. Instead of womaning up (see what I did there?) they have to somehow try to get me to feel pity for them and feel shame because I'm acting like I am.

"I get to be a bitch because I have some personal problems!" 
Welcome to the world honey. Everyone has those.
" Well, you were saying some pretty mean things!"
Oh, so just because I use a few curse words I suddenly say 'mean things'. Grow the fuck up and learn to tolerate words like fuck or shit. Words on their own aren't bad. The people behind them might have malicious intentions.

Again, two examples of shitty responses I get rather than them owning up to their bullshit.
And then people wonder why I'm so quiet...

Oh, and yes, I'm completely aware that this is not something every woman on this planet has. I've met tomboys and women who can take jokes before. :iconsadistskunk: is a perfect example, but I'm just getting sick and tired of always having to walk around eggshells around people.

So yes, this was my very first rant. Feel free to leave comments, to insult me or whatever you wish to do.

And just as a curiosity: how many of you have the feeling I'm a misogynist after reading this thread?
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:iconawesomelyanonymous:
AwesomelyAnonymous Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2013  Student General Artist
Quite a lot of males pretend to be women online for fun.
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2013  Student Writer
Yeah, I've read something about it myself. Apparently it's really enjoyable for both men and women to pretend to be of the opposite sex...
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:iconmiss-mustang:
miss-mustang Featured By Owner Oct 19, 2013
I'm not sure it's that women are more emotional...it's just that they are taught to handle their emotions in different ways than boys  are taught. 
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 20, 2013  Student Writer
I once made that very same claim in a discussion and someone managed to prove me wrong, in a sense: while there is little difference between the emotions of men and women there is a difference in empathy. Women are naturally empathetic towards everyone, men are only empathetic towards women, not men.
But yes, nurture certainly plays a role in it.
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Bo-Po-Mo-Fo Featured By Owner Oct 18, 2013  Professional Interface Designer
I am a perfectly normal, agreeable person about 3/4 of any given month, but then crazy time hits.  Basically, when that happens all rational thought goes bye-bye.  I'll also drop about 20 to 40 IQ points. I don't mean to act this way.  In fact, when I am stomping around picking fights I think I'm just standing up for myself and being totally normal.  It's kinda like I'm possessed by a demon who is hell bent on seeing me destroy myself and all of my relationships.

I'm not saying ALL women are like this when they are PMSing, but some are.  I'm making progress on controlling my hormonal mood swings, though.  Hormones aren't a a good enough excuse to not be a decent human being.
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 19, 2013  Student Writer
I wouldn't say it's a female-related issue, but a human related issue. Men can also be controlled by their emotions and hormones. The fact that I made this thread at one point to rant serves as proof.
But I like the analogy you made. Maybe it could be considered acting as if a demon possesses you and is hell bent on pissing off everyone you know. It's certainly easy for me to do that if I'm in the right mood, no matter how much I know I'll regret it later on.

Well, trying to control things like that is good, depending on how far it can be controlled. I think you can only learn to hold it in for a while and then release it via 'safe or healthy' methods.
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:iconmiletich2:
miletich2 Featured By Owner Oct 7, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Simple. Women are from Venus and men are from Mars.
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 7, 2013  Student Writer
And I'm from Saturn! :D
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:iconmiletich2:
miletich2 Featured By Owner Oct 8, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
So am I. :XD:
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 8, 2013  Student Writer
*High fives with seven fingers*
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner Oct 7, 2013  Student Writer
Because most women are stupid. Emotion clouds their reason and they just do things without thinking about them. That doesn't mean they're bad people (bitches) per se.
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:iconpokecat:
pokecat Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I hate bitches like that, and I'm a woman too. XD

I think that being a bitch thing is eather a inherited trait or learned though parents who treat them like princesses.Maby even both.
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Student Writer

Yeah, I've noticed three kinds of answers from women:
1) those who call me insensitive jerks.
2) those who agree with me or try to give advice.

It's odd to see.

I think it has a lot to do with the way we're spoiled in this society. Many girls and boys get whatever their little hearts desire and as a result they bitch whenever things don't go the way they want.

 

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:iconhashae:
Hashae Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
.....................................................................................................................damn I wonder how long it took you to write this.
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Student Writer
Idk, half an hour?
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:iconarsenikfairy:
ArsenikFairy Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Student General Artist
Try to explain that to her. Tell her you tend to be a very sarcastic and rude person, even to people you like, and that you're sorry you offended her, and that you didn't mean to hurt her feelings. Sometimes you have to let go of your pride. A lot of us women have sensitive personalities. It's in our DNA
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Student Writer
Euhm, which of the two women are you talking about?
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:iconarsenikfairy:
ArsenikFairy Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Student General Artist
the first one; the second one I think was just being rude for no reason.
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Student Writer
We've already talked things out. She understood why I was hurt, she told me why she was hurt and we forgave each other and moved on.
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:iconfallure:
FAlLURE Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Hobbyist
Just date men then. :lol:
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:iconrandomxeno:
RandomXeno Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Who said men wants him? :iconteheplz:
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:iconfallure:
FAlLURE Featured By Owner Oct 18, 2013  Hobbyist
:iconohuplz: sassy thing, you.
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:iconcodepurpleyedrawings:
CodePurpleyedrawings Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
Are you by any chance a stand up comedian?
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Student Writer
I am not.
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:iconcodepurpleyedrawings:
CodePurpleyedrawings Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
You sound like one.
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Student Writer
Because I rant and draw in a lot of trolls?
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:iconcodepurpleyedrawings:
CodePurpleyedrawings Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
Well, you were close with the ranting bit.  I meant you use a trope used by many stand up comedians. The "women are so emotional" sketch. C'mon admit it, you're Louis CK.
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2013  Student Writer
Well, Bill Burr is more known for his 'misogynistic' jokes, so...
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:iconwizardofunseen:
WizardOfUnseen Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I did not read the what you wrote entirely but I would like to point out that the person you pointed out can totally take a joke. How do I know that? We share offensive jokes. Some of them can be labeled as sexist.
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Mystiecub Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist

Emotions cuz hormones.

 

Seriously though, I don't understand it either. Instead of taking things the wrong way and immediately flying off the handle, use your brain and think for a second (:O BLASPHEMY!) before opening your mouth.

 

I've seen it in men too, they just go about it a different way. And it's just as annoying. :stare:

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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Student Writer
True enough. Men can be just as annoying.
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:iconthetaoofchaos:
thetaoofchaos Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013   Writer
"Blame it all on yourself 'cause she's always a woman to me."

-B. Joel 
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Student Writer
Yeah... No.
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:iconxannijn:
Xannijn Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Student Filmographer
Tl;dr

You mention you suck at basically being with other people, then claim that women are wrong and too emotional. Any chance you're just not giving anyone a fair chance? Why would anyone ever give you a chance, then?

You also strike me as the kind of belgian boy that wants to study dae in kortrijk but has no clue what they'd start on, and fails the first year.
Of course that's probably not true. 
But it's the kind of vibe your gallery and this rant gives. :shrug:
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Student Writer
Read the rant again.
I don't claim that women are wrong and emotional (read beyond the fucking title, would ya?), I claim to have a problem with women who use their emotions to try to get guilt or other forms of manipulation out of me.

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:iconxannijn:
Xannijn Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Student Filmographer
Most of us have better things to do than that. Adding a tldr section next time would probably help you get better responses.
So a girlfriend of yours acted hurt to get you to feel bad or such? Frankly, that happens to every guy out there. Some girls do it constantly on purpose. Others only when being overly emotional because of their period. :shrug: Not all women suffer from it at an emotional level, but seriously, give girls a break. Chances are that she either couldn't help it at all or that she's just a bitch. In the last case, don't fret over it and ignore it.
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Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Student Writer
If you have better things to do, why are you even on these forums or why would you even take the time to make a respond?
And if I were to include a 'tldr' section it'd only to tell everyone to read the whole thing.

I'm assuming that's the case. And I am aware that I shouldn't fret over and all that. This WAS just a rant, a way for me to vent over stuff and to laugh at the pathetic comments of the trolls while I'm at it. The few good responds I did get were more of a bonus than anything else.
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:iconxannijn:
Xannijn Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Student Filmographer
I highly doubt that you couldn't possibly fit your problems in a smaller rant.

This is more or less relevant: was one of the women actually really your girlfriend? Or just a friend? For frankly, I don't see why you would take it so personally coming from just a friend. As far as I'm concerned friends get to bitch against each other and still get along afterwards. With a girlfriend matters are of course often more complicated.
If they were actually complete strangers, then honestly, this rant is really not needed. Why give a damn about what they think or say?
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Student Writer
I like to take my time to talk/write about things.

Well, you don't have to see this as just two 'internet friends' being assholes. It's mostly the fact that this kind of stuff happens a lot in a very similar way and me just having to vent about it at some point. Right now I don't really care about it anymore, for example. It was just something I needed to get off my chest at the time.
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Xannijn Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Student Filmographer
As others have said to you in replies before, you have to consider that you're likely the one who's wrong and/or treating people badly, if this is a common thing for you. Scolding at people whether you know them well or not won't get you anywhere. Being the 'bigger man' doesn't always have an effect on people: but being a bitch about it all the time never has a decent effect on people. If you could calmly accept other people's opinions and flaws, you'd be a lot more sociable.
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Student Writer
I know which flaws I have and I have worked on them to the extent that I like.
As I have answered before: I don't feel like changing myself for others anymore. I've tried it before and it failed. I don't feel like doing that shit again.
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Maerorem-Caligo Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Professional Writer
I'm a girl and I too think women are waaaaay too emotional. Like Jesus, quit giving the rest of us a bad name. Depending on their age, though, it could just be hormone shit. But seriously, you sound like a decent dude, a bit on the sarcastic side, but I think it's amusing. In short, there, there dude, bitches be crazy.
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Student Writer
Well, there goes the claim that sarcasm doesn't attract people. :P
And you're not the first to suggest that this could be them on their period or something. I don't know either and I don't really want to find out. o.O

Also, I think what you speak of is: "Got your back, Jack. Bitches be crazy!"
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:iconmaerorem-caligo:
Maerorem-Caligo Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Professional Writer
Okay, allow me to rephrase;
dem bitchez be totes craycray
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:iconnightreign123:
Nightreign123 Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Student Writer
Better, much better.
Sure, it's a massive generalization, but it's better. :P
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:iconmaerorem-caligo:
Maerorem-Caligo Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Professional Writer
XD All bitches be craycray.
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:iconoperia:
Operia Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
As the Lesbian Overlord, I find interacting with females to be rather entertaining

Yeah, I'm too lazy to read your whole thread.  So shoot me.
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:iconwizardofunseen:
WizardOfUnseen Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Quick, pringles or women?
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:iconoperia:
Operia Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Can I choose both?
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:iconwizardofunseen:
WizardOfUnseen Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Nope, one or the either?
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