I think negativity has become the culture of the western internet. In that way, we have to expect it, and not be surprised by it. It's a difficult lesson sometimes, but the upside is that it always has a cure; unplug from the consciousness. If you're talking about real life, it's true some people express all these things sometimes, personally I try and weed the judgmental ones out because life is too short to entertain assholes.
I remember being told that quote before, that life is too short to be upset about things. Or to entertain assholes as you mentioned
Sometimes I get upset about matters like this, but I will remember these words and try to be as respectful as possible of other people's opinions, and their right to say them. Perhaps some people just can't agree on some things, this fact too should be respected.
Because you've totally never judged anyone ever, right? Hell, you're - oh my goodness - voicing out your negativity here! Which makes you a well rounded hypocrite. Or are you going to say that your negativity is justified whereas everyone else's isnt? Pssh psh.
The difference is that I'm not directly referencing any people that I do not know, my statement was generalized. In my statement, I mention my dislike of how people judge others without knowing them, I am not explicitly stating that I dislike the people THEMSELVES that voice the negativity. Therefore, my negativity is at their negativity, not them.
So you think it's okay to judge a mass of people who have eons of differences between eachother, but not an individual?
Okay then, all black people are illiterate thieves. Furthermore, judging someone or saying something negative about them does not necessarily mean you dislike the person, it is extremely childish of you think that people disagree because they personally dislike one another.
I see ignorance a lot. It can be anywhere, on the street, in reviews of things, even on radio shows. It upsets me to see such negativity, but I will admit that people have rights to their opinions as well as their speech. As I mentioned before, all I wish is for peace in the world, that people will not need to worry about unfair negativity being cast at them.
I know people can respond with negativity as well when it is cast at them, which is also upsetting.
DariaDzyubaFeatured By OwnerFeb 22, 2013Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Everybody wish for a peace in the world, you're not the only one. ...But you need to stop hating people just because they express negative opinions of others no matter what they know or don't know. Your anger won't help, but will bring you negative opinions about others. Maybe you will not say them by words but you will always have them in your mind. This is the real world, what you mentioned here is a part of it, but there are worst things. So stop worrying about things you will never change and stop exposing your negativity about negativity.
I completely agree with everything you said, especially the part about negativity towards negativity not helping anything. It was wrong of me to be negative like that, and for that I apologize. I'm sorry.
Positivity can definitely be better as a way to ward off negativity. If anyone negatively judges someone, the person being judged can simply shrug it off, because they have their own positive opinion of themselves which is the important thing.