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February 11, 2013


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Waited 2 Years - LDR - Forever Alone, Broken Heart. Fail.

Yahpeep Featured By Owner Feb 11, 2013  Student General Artist
I should be sleeping i know - but my insomnia is making it much too difficult. And i felt like whinging. I'm new-ish to forums - so i particularly enjoy that i can vent in the specified complaints column.

Anyways - I fell in love with a boy - A handsome boy at that - wonderfully creative like me - Anyways - he's a Mormon and i am too - at least i was. Now i am just classed as inactive because i don't go anymore.

He went on his mission for church - before he leaves he asks me to wait. Like a fool i said yes. For two years - I wrote him, sent him care packages - drawings, all that jazz - almost every week.

Boy get's back - Says i don't know you anymore.

I say okay - that's fine let's get to know each other again.

Boy says you talk to me like you do back then.

I say Okay. - Crap i don't know how to be around you now.

Boy says take some time apart. I say sadly. Okay.

Go to a party. Boy is with another girl. Turns out they have been dating since he got back.

Heart shatters.

Oh yeah this just wasn't some guy. This was also my well used to be best fwen.

Ugh - the sadness is overwhelming.

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SROnivera Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Step one: It's recommended that one should quit the Mormon church, it's filled with creepy, greedy, and fucked-up practices on top of it being a church that's started by a bat-shit crazy scam artist (much like scientiology, only back in the 1800's and it being christian based). Fuck, even Catholicism seems appealing in comparison to those dumb fucks.
Step two: Learn grammar, because we gotta be able understand what the hell you've just typed down.
Step three: Learn to explore the world, explore yourself, and overall, live a worthwhile life until you've found someone along the way. Chances are you'll find someone that isn't a Mormon that won't treat you like that.

TL;DR, forget about him and go have fun with your life.
WizardOfUnseen Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Well, consider yourself lucky you did not waste your life on him. Go out and live your life and forget about that idiot. The best form of revenge is to be happy and do something with your life.
Hearts-Are-Cold Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2013  Student General Artist
Church mission? Is he LDS?

My ex boyfriend is mormon. He broke up with a few months before leaving for his mission because he didn't want to be 'pulled in', whatever the hell that means. Anyways, I've only written to him once since. I figured that things would play out when he got back about the same way they did with you. Missions change people.
whatonearth Featured By Owner Feb 13, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Dude, fuck him. That's no way to repay someone for 2 years of faithfulness (no pun intended) and he didn't even have the balls to break up with you.
Atlantech Featured By Owner Feb 13, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
sounds like a real piece of shit to me, you're better off without him.
alzircon Featured By Owner Feb 13, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Maybe it has something to do with his religion. Back when I used to go to church, I knew several couples, who loved each other, but were told by the pastor that they can't get married because "gawd said so" and one of the parties ended up marrying someone completely different very shortly after breaking up to a person the pastor thought to be more suitable.
When I grew up and left, I realized the pastor was just trying to marry rich people into his family and church in order to get his hands on all of that glorious cash.:no:
Arvellas Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2013
That's fucked up. :iconwthplz:
alzircon Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I know. When I first started suspecting shit, I didn't want to believe it, because my whole world started crumbling, but as I grew older, I realized just how full of shit the church leaders actually were.
On another fucked up story from same place: the pastor's eldest son divorced his wife after less than a year of marriage, because he wanted her to pop out babies and she wanted to study in uni, because that particular thing she wanted to study and make a career of was her dream. She was boo'ed by the son and pastor as an "unfit" woman, because she "disobeyed" her husband.:stare:
Arvellas Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2013
Kill them. Kill them with fire.
jadedPhotographer Featured By Owner Feb 13, 2013   Photographer
HWL is that way :icongtfoplz:
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