some guys are just stupid and weak when it comes to big ass, fake tits(wth is sexy about silacone? lol) and no personality. just like chicks with low self esteem. When I was in high school there were alot of chicks that were desperate for attention for example, i was in the senior lounge with a few friends and one of my friends was sitting with this girl and she started rubbing lotion on here legs...in front of all of us.. >.> i was thinking wow..um ok..the hell? lol then in winter she was wearing a skirt... again wth? you want frostbite on ur vag or what? >.O lol. sorry rambeling but anyway thats just how most guys are, they become physically attracted first... but im happy to say that my bf is nice and caring and calls me beautiful everyday X] lol
Yeah, I find it somewhat offensive that it appears the only thing some peopel want in a relationship is intercourse to the point that not only are people desperate (I would have been greatly disgusted in your situation) but care nothing for actual personality.
Awwwwwwwww /)^3^(\ Soooo sweet. Well, I'm happy for you. My girlfriend is similar. We always shower each other in compliments and have fake arguments when we debate who is the prettiest.
yeah to me thats saying that guy is in it to just fool around hes not ready to be a man. and yes i was quite disgusted thats why i got up and left XD while my friend was smiling at her lol jeez *rolls eyes*
hehe thats cute me and my bf pretty much do the same thing XD
Indeed. I am personally against sex until marriage in my own life. I would make sure that it would be the life I had chosen before committing, and then actually committing. Ughhhh. It's good you left though. Better not to get involved.
Youre a good person I wish there were people like you out there.
I'm sick of seeing guys droop over tan skinny girls with big hips and big boobs! Its not possible for that to be natural guys always say they like girls with a natural look but they get all excited over fake girls like that!
I'm surround by guys like that.
But as a girl we have things like that too. Most girls want the built blonde guy well at least that's the girls I know. One girl thinks I'm insane because I lldont like that. She thinks its weird that I don't like guys my own race and she will constantly call me racist. I'm not obviously I just have a different type.
But you know how people are about the word different.
It's alright for everyone to have their own prefrences, but I'm sickened that some of my female friends who DON'T fit into that group feel like they're unattractive. You know there's a problem when I have to spend long periods of time trying to convince my girlfriend that she is beautiful and attractive and I want her over the "more attractive girls" It's not even these "more attractive" girls faults, just how they tend to be idolized by the media. In a way, I'm thankful that there's guys who want certain girls and girls who want certain guys, it means that eventually, tho "leftovers" as I once heard a jerk in highschool call them. Would be able to find a kind, loving partner who isn't superficial.
The racist physical attraction thing always made me mad. I've seen lots of people in the US and Canada that are weaboos and snub western girls because they want an eastern girl. And lots of other examples for different ethnic groups. The whole point of "love them for what's in their heart, not what their body looks like." Prefering one race over another to the point that the other is basically, chopped liver I find wrong, not so much just prefering a different race. (I will admit that Italian accents are attractive) But when it becomes rude. It actually reminds me of the Black and White segregation. Back when the two groups were not allowed to marry. It shouldn't be that way. Love shouldn't be limited to a way someone looks or what country they come from, not what gender they are either.
I need to find a person just like you.. so hard these days
I'm considered a left over I guess, I'm not tan, don't have a big chest or big but I'm not a perfect height or anything I'm short tiny and paler than a dead person. I'm an "unwanted" one haha but that's the thing being a left over means that all the jerks go for the "prettier" ones and the leave the other guys the sweeter ones with left overs like me! so yes in the end it all kind of works out.
See i love seeing a couple who are not the same race. It's like finally we're moving on!
See? That description you just gave of yourself, I fuind much more attractive than what is normally considered attractive. It's beautiful and it is exactly how my girlfriend describes herself. Perfection, is a flaw. Beauty lies with uniqueness. Yes. Chances are, if a guy only loves you because of how you look, he's not going to be very loving or kind or care about your life or what matters to you. You need to wait for someone to come along who loves you for your heart.
And yes, I agree. Also, crosses over from different "cliques" or "groups" Like someone who's parents are really rich and paid for their education who falls in love with someone who spent time living on the street who never could really afford anything even when they worked really hard. It warms my heart to see love crossing boundaries that are often overlooked by others.
It's kinda started to bother me how people always make things about a girl's looks Whatever they are doing on a video gets boiled down to whether she's hot or not. Even if someone is let's say- singing, the comments are always like "I'd bang that" or even "too thin/fat". Wtf. Did any of those girls ask "Hey, now that you're watching this, what do you think of my body?"
It's kinda... disgusting, really. Always makes me lose faith in guys a bit
Oh my god! YES. This. In videos (like gaming playthroughs) You'd expect to see people talking about the subject matter, how the game is, how the player reacts.
But then people talk about the body of the player if she is female. And it;s like "Well, I don't see what this has to do with the actual subject of the video."
Also, it doesn't even stop with real women. I've gone on videos of songs and music, they add a picture to the video and the picture is of a girl, do any of the comments actually talk about the song? NO. Of course they don't. They get into debates about how hot she is and who wants her most.
I find it really offensive, personally. Seeing as I'm one of those guys who is new to the whole physical attraction thing. Currently, there's really only one girl I am attracted to at all. My girlfriend. And I like that. Seeing guys hitting on (or dissing) every female on the internet really makes me upset with the bad rap they're giving every member of the sex. Then of course, people start saying how "insensitive, mean, rude, unreliable" guys are. Which ends up offending me. It's a vicious circle.
The latter. It's a psych thing...males in general are more attracted to physical attractiveness of females...thus, they have a weakness for skin. (For females, they look for financial stability and social status in men.) Females put less emphasis on body image so yes, we do like six packs but there had better be a nice face attached.
Wouldn't people who are attracted to personality FIRST all be bi/pan sexual? If personality is the MOST IMPORTANT THING, it's not like one sex has a monopoly on personalities. Even if someone liked, say, a girly personality, there are certainly guys out there with personalities much girlier than many biological girls.