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January 25, 2013
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VICTIM BLAMING

:iconpanda-jamican-pie:
panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Why is it that people always want to blame the victim if something bad happens to them and then devalue their experience and pain? This usually happens to POC groups, WOC and women.
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:iconneurotype:
neurotype Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
:lock: OP request. :aww:
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:iconfantasylover103:
fantasylover103 Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Because some people are retarded.
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ForestRabbit Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Hmm... probably because it's easier to say "well, you should/n't have done this or that" and blame one person than it is to blame society and a way of thinking instead? IDK. :ashamed:
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panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Oh no! Don't get mixed up in this! Lol this thread is ugly! But I do understand what you are saying. It's like when someone does something wrong and they get upset and blame you. For example, if your mother forgot something and blames you for not reminding her. A LARGELY simplified statement to the issues. But it's kind of in a nutshell/
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ForestRabbit Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
It really is. O_O
Exactly! :D
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:iconpenhuin:
Penhuin Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Go back to Tumblr with the other children.
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:iconmasterplanner:
MasterPlanner Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Professional Artisan Crafter
I think you must have confused :icondaplz: with :icontumblrplz:
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:iconprosaix:
prosaix Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
Go back to tumblr, stupid justice warrior fuck.:lol:
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:iconpinkmitten:
Pinkmitten Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
WOC? POC?
Walter Ordered Crack and Patty Ordered Cocaine. Yes?
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:iconpanda-jamican-pie:
panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yes, of course.
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:iconsbkmulletman:
sbkMulletMan Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
No, no, no!

It's "Wieners Only Club" and "Pregnant Old Crones".
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sbkMulletMan Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
I blame you.
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:iconkoyukuk:
Koyukuk Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist
You might want to take a lesson on sarcasm before you come here next time.
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:iconpanda-jamican-pie:
panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yeah, I was gone from DA for too long and forgot about the kind of people who are on this site.
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:iconjuliabohemian:
Juliabohemian Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
So you don’t take responsibility for anything. That explains your position on the matter.
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:iconpanda-jamican-pie:
panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Haha, that did not help either. Maybe when I'm up for this type of abuse again, I will make a more elaborate discussion.
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:icontoxicotic:
Toxicotic Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
Sorry that everyone is DERAILING you and not agreeing with you in general about the whole "rape usually happens to ~*WOC*~, ~*POC*~ and women" thing. :petting:
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Lovely-Words Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Yep. It's full of people who don't like being reduced to a single trait.
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FerricPlushy Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
When people start taking responsibility for their actions, I think there would be a lot less victims.
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panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yeah, like for instance, instead of teaching girls to not dress a certain way or try not to get rape (even some boys get rape, that is a fact), how about teach people not to rape. It actually works. My older brother went out drinking with his friends, and one of his friends was all over this drunk girl who couldn't even stand straight. So she couldn't even give her consent to sex, so my brother stepped in and told him to back off. I'm not saying this because he's my brother, but we need more people like that in the world.
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TheLightsWentOutIn99 Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Student Writer
Everyone, repeat this sacred oath after me:

I, for one, will never cease to respect you as a helpless victim, deprived of a voice and carelessly tossed about as the plaything of the heedless and powerful. Nothing that ever happens to me will ever be as bad as whatever has happened to you, and I can tell, because your gender/sex/sexual preference/skin color/ethnicity/nationality/sexual fetish/delusions make it clear.

I will never doubt anything said by a member of your particular demographic group. Every word you say and action you take, must be both true and right. If the barest shred of doubt should stir in my heart, I will remind myself of my privilege, an unalterable, omnipresent fact that makes your viewpoint worth an infinite amount more than mine. This I pledge, so help me God/deity of choice/universe/nothingness/nothingness+.
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:iconsbkmulletman:
sbkMulletMan Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
And to wear unwashed lederhosen every single day of the rest of my life!

That's it! You're in our secret club!
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:iconkoyukuk:
Koyukuk Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist
I love how the OP took you seriously.
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:iconjuliabohemian:
Juliabohemian Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
I am but a leaf in the wind.
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:iconangelishi:
angelishi Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I want to hump this comment. Violently.
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:iconangelishi:
angelishi Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
And then blame it.
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:iconjunete:
junete Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
:lmao:
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:iconneurotype:
neurotype Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
:lol:

hey, you're back!
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panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Oh my goodness, this is perfect. Can everyone in the world follow this? Then we won't have victim blaming and countless other problems we face.
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:iconjuliabohemian:
Juliabohemian Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
:iconfacepalmplz:
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:icontoxicotic:
Toxicotic Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
Ew, go back to Tumblr and take your buzzwords with you.
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:iconpanda-jamican-pie:
panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Buzzwords? You mean words and terms that have been around since the 1970's?
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:icontoxicotic:
Toxicotic Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
Stop DERAILING me and take your ignorant POC and WOC terms back to Tumblr, please.
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:iconpanda-jamican-pie:
panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Buzzwords if I understand are words that are popular at the moment right? And I've been on DA WAY longer than tumblr, I've been on this site since I was in middle school....so....yeah.:/
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:iconjuliabohemian:
Juliabohemian Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
So...last year then?
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:icontoxicotic:
Toxicotic Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
More DERAILING, I see.
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:iconmurphysdinnerparty:
MurphysDinnerParty Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Inb4 you're called a social justice warrior.
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panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Oh sorry, I didn't see your original comment until now, this thread is kind of blowing up, it's kind of hard to keep up! Sorry again!
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MurphysDinnerParty Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
How did you even reply to me then?
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:iconpanda-jamican-pie:
panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Because, I read something else but replied to you without even checking that's all. I'm truly sorry about the mix up. I have like two or three different people calling me a Social justice warrior.
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panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Oh cool, stick a label on me to dismiss and DERAIL my point! My life is totally social justice! 24/7! Yeah!
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:iconmurphysdinnerparty:
MurphysDinnerParty Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
It's also really nice how you refer to me as a troll when there was nothing about my post that was "trolling". I suggest you look up the definition of trolling as well as getting your reading comprehension and your sensitivity.
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panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Well look up the definition of Social Justice because I don't think I've come across it being used in a positive light but negative. And why is it such a bad thing for someone to care about this issues is society?
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:icontoxicotic:
Toxicotic Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013
Please stop DERAILING ~MurphysDinnerParty.
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:iconmurphysdinnerparty:
MurphysDinnerParty Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I DIDN'T CALL YOU A SOCIAL JUSTICE WARRIOR SO YOU GIVING ME A FUCKING LECTURE ON IT IS STUPID.
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:iconmurphysdinnerparty:
MurphysDinnerParty Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Because I was directly calling you a social justice warrior, right? :slow:
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:iconpanda-jamican-pie:
panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yeah, because I'm not?.....Caring about something in society is not being a social justice warrior it's just caring and being aware?
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:iconmurphysdinnerparty:
MurphysDinnerParty Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I didn't call you a social justice warrior and the fact that you took my post and made into that is fucking ridiculous. I was referring to people taking what you said and calling you a social justice warrior just for said POC and WOC. Nowhere did that indicate I was calling you one or implying you were one.
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panda-jamican-pie Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
As stated, several people at the same time called me it, I just mixed you up by accident. I didn't go back to check the forum, and I'm answering this in my inbox, as you can see, it can get kind of confusing.
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:iconangelishi:
angelishi Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
... POC and WOC?
My God, you imbecilic bitch. "Whites" are not freaking transparent or invisible, they're colored too, just lighter than you. Get over yourself, you self absorbed snowflake.


No, it doesn't "usually happen" to any specific group of people. It happens to fucking everyone.
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