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These jerks don't know when to quit! (VERY Long rant)

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Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
It's 6 in the morning, I didn't sleep, time for an angry rant.

Alright, here's some background for you:
So last year 2 dudes in my circle of friends decided they were gonna excise everyone they didn't like from the group. I was one of the unliked. I don't know what I did to earn their ire; Apparently one of them never liked me to begin with. (Though I didn't like him either so all's fair there).

For convenience's sake, I'm gonna refer to them as Mommy and Toadie. Toadie would be the one doing all the dirty work and then go crying to Mommy if something went amiss. Now Mommy had blown up at me before, because everyone was making beach plans but then I realized it was the weekend after Prom, the weather looked like shit, and the beach would be packed. Because I brought these facts up, Mommy EXPLODES via facebook messages about how they had been planning this for a while and I guess me stating the obvious problems made his girlfriend cry.

This is where things begin. A few months later, my relationship begins to fail for various reasons. So I go talk to Toadie, who up until then was basically my best friend. He had been acting like a total jackass since he started college, but I decided to give him a chance anyway. So for a solid week, when I come to him for help or advice, he just comes back with negativity and insults to me and my relationship, basically calling it a sham. At the end of the week, he says that my girlfriend only ever had sex with me in the first place was because she had daddy issues. Quote unquote.

I /LOST/ it. The whole thing ended with me threatening to break him if I saw him on campus. Keep in mind, I'm bigger than him in pretty much every way. So he calls his military buddy over to the campus for protection, but I never had a confrontation with him. By then I had already cooled down. But of course, he went crying to Mommy.

Like, 9 at night, he messages me and says he's gonna kill me if I touch his buddy. Death threats EVERYWHERE. I'd had enough so I decided to call him out on how he's been manipulating everyone to hate specific people and basically worship him. Of course, he denies everything. Then I call him out on how he doesn't have the nerve to talk s*** to my face. He responds saying that it's because he doesn't want to make a scene. Note that I am ALSO bigger than Mommy. No sir, you are not afraid of making a scene, you are afraid of having your teeth knocked out.

The whole ordeal causes me to develop both an anger problem and severe paranoia since they were obviously out to get me. These were further contributing factors to my relationship finally falling through after 8 months, shortly before Halloween. We still remained friends though, which was good, since we were basically best friends anyway. A week later, she texts me and says to never contact her again. Earlier, she told me she was going out with her mom and she'd text me later. What really happened was she went to a party where Mommy and Toadie happened to be. They ganged up on her and told her all these horrible things, like me telling them she was only good for sex and that I thought she was a huge whore. Obviously I had never said those things. There was nothing I could do, it was over, they won.

Fast forward to this week. I run into Toadie on campus. He tries lording his new(first) girlfriend over me, but I've heard from a good friend (Another one who was excised) that he acts VERY fake around her, and when the real him slipped out, she greatly disapproved. So I gave him extremely generic, neutral answers until he walked away disappointed since he didn't get a rise out of me. So now yesterday, I see him again, and he tries comparing his oh, so amazing relationship to my failed one, how he's not gonna fuck up like I did, etcetera, etcetera. I call him out on how he acts fake. He's flustered for a good couple of seconds, since until then he had no idea that I already knew all this. He leaves in a hurry.

He cries to Mommy. Mommy tracks me down on dA. Oh joy of joys, what wondrous games have begun again. He tries to tell me that what I had with my ex wasn't real, that it was baseless and pathetic. That what Toadie has is so much more than me and her ever were. That I could've learned a lot from Mommy's own relationship, had I just listened to him. I answered him very simply. "Because a girl who's in love with an idea, and a girl whose love is so blind she'll follow a boy into a slaughterhouse without question if he told her to is so much better than a boy and girl who knew that with they way things were, they couldn't work." Blacklisted, end of story.

This has been much longer then I intended, but when the hell it is enough? They took a good 80% of my friends away from me already. Where's the sense in beating a dead horse? Is it a sadistic pleasure? Some insane plan to get me to off myself? Is that how they expect this to end? No matter what the answer is, I truly feel sorry for them.
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:iconcrimeroyale:
CrimeRoyale Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Professional
Eesh. How'd you get to be friends with these dicks in the first place?
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:iconkrazzulimaii:
Krazzulimaii Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well, first off, they can get criminally charged for death threats.

Secondly, there's not much you can do, besides completely cutting off all communication with them. They don't seem like the guys you want to hang out with.

As well, I would say make sure people know the real you. It seems they're trying to undermine your reputation
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SEVMD Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You should move on and start anew, make new friends even if you have rarely talked to anyone outside your circle. I would do that, and if I see them I would just exchange a few words if they try to talk to me. If they threaten you then just walk away even if they insult you, I would ignore them by then and if I'm feeling confident enough I would shake my head and walk off.
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Juliabohemian Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013
I didn’t know guys did this kind of shit. You sound like a bunch of girls.

These people are vacuous and obviously not your friends. If your girlfriend would break up with you based on something someone else said, without discussing it with you first, then your relationship probably wouldn’t have lasted anyway.

Get some new friends and perhaps a restraining order or two.
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Dragonflae Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013
Oh, fuck them. I'll be your friend. :hug:
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redmarlin Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013
All I can say is, if they managed to take your friends away from you, then perhaps they weren't friends to begin with. Also, please, for the love of god, point out Mommy's account for us, pretty please. Toadie's too, if he has one.
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Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
The latter does not. The former does, but I'm very sure he never uses it. But on the off chance he does check it, I'd rather not make the situation worse than it already is. Trying to be the bigger man and all that.
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TheRebornAce Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
All I can say to you man is that I understand you. I do hope things will turn out for the better in your future and a fiery death pit of hell for them. anyways, good luck, my friend.

(PS: should've put up a link to his profile. it's been a while since i cussed and dissed someone online (not including those i've dealt with on the online gaming world...))
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Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I don't think he even uses it at all, it was just the one medium I hadn't cut off. And even though I ranted about the whole situation, I'd like to try and be the better man and not make things worse than they already are.
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vi0letdreamer Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Student Photographer
Did Mommy make a dA account just to stalk you?
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:iconvaz612:
Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
No, he's had it for a while but he never actually uses it. I guess it was just a means to contact me since I cut off all other mediums.
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:iconvi0letdreamer:
vi0letdreamer Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Student Photographer
Maybe it would be wise to just knock his teeth out and call it a day.
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:iconvaz612:
Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I would, but he would undoubtedly press charges.
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:iconvi0letdreamer:
vi0letdreamer Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Student Photographer
:cry: but at least...

♪Joy to the world
except for (insert name here)
I hope that fuckass dies!♪
*to the tune of Joy to the World
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:iconkell0x:
Kell0x Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Student General Artist
Jesus it seems like they are obsessed with you :o its really sad.
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:iconmasterplanner:
MasterPlanner Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Professional Artisan Crafter
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:iconvaz612:
Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I actually found this quite funny. A+ post, sir.
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:iconmasterplanner:
MasterPlanner Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Professional Artisan Crafter
:bow: Always happy to help.

And when you have time, check out the plushies! [link]
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:iconzodiacgal:
zodiacgal Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
That... is some impressive drama.

Sounds like they're both dicks though. You should exact your revenge somehow.
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:iconkinrift:
Kinrift Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013
You'll be able to laugh when his relationship fails.
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:iconvaz612:
Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
And boy do I plan to.
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:iconkinrift:
Kinrift Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013
Good, good. :)
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:iconangelishi:
angelishi Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm surprised a 12 year old whiny little girl would be bigger and stronger than two young men.
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:iconvaz612:
Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Deviantart's affinity for physical brutality is kinda disturbing me at this point. Apparently prison and the law doesn't set off any alarms here.
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:iconangelishi:
angelishi Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
How does that have anything to do with what I said?
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:iconprosaix:
prosaix Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013
No wonder they're weary of you...
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:iconvaz612:
Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Because they agitated me and I needed to vent but chose not to reveal who they were? Yeah, quite the reason.
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:iconlifh:
Lifh Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013
Why the fuck do you care about such a jackass anyway? If I were you, I would give him a beating of a lifetime and then laugh at his face.Obviously he's a fucking pig. The only reason I can imagine why you care about some asshole is if you have a lesbi-gay wet dreams about him.
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Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Honestly I just had to get that all out cause the encounters this week, along with them digging up something from months ago just really agitated me. Believe me, I would have put him in his place, but when you're 19 a proper ass kicking is called "Assault and Battery"
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:iconlifh:
Lifh Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013
Use a ski mask.
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:iconaret:
Aret Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
All of you need to leave high school already. Seriously. Grow the fuck up. Your stupid petty drama means less than shit, and if you weren't stuck in high school, you would make friends that couldn't be pulled away so easily by high school level bullshit.

I have no other advice to give. If you can't even see how stupid and childish this is, then there's nothing I can say. The obvious ways out won't be things you're willing to do until then.
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TheRebornAce Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
geez dude, there's no need of being a dick. from your reply, you're acting almost like those two jackasses that he mentioned. c'mon man...you stated "grow up." well, with your reply, you're in no better position than he is. you don't like the thread? then leave, it's that simple...at least show some sort of empathy for the poor dude...
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:iconaret:
Aret Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Why should I show empathy? If he wasn't a child with a bunch of childish friends this wouldn't be an issue. For that matter, as we only have his side of the story, its possible he is the problem. You don't know their side, kinda rude to call them jackasses with only part of the story.
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TheRebornAce Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Being childish? What are you to say he is childish when you are no different? If you were not a child you wouldn't be encouraging them to drop out, but say let it go and focus on your future. And also knowing another side of the story is important but even knowing both sides you won't know who is telling the truth. It is the third party member that is needed. Understand law and then, knowing the correct side is easier to decide.
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:iconaret:
Aret Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Ohh, I get it. You totally missed the fact that OP and friends are all in college, and when I told them to get out of high school, you misunderstood. The problem I have with OP is that he and his friends are not in high school, but are behaving as though they are. A bunch of whiny, hormonal brats.
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:iconaret:
Aret Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
What? When did I say drop out? Don't randomly put words and meaning in my post that was never there. It only makes you look retarded.
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Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Believe me when I say it was over last year, I only went on a rant because they insisted on bringing it up again. With that reply that I mentioned, I'm done with the situation. Should I encounter "Toadie" on campus, he's no longer a blip on my radar.

I realize the entire situation was basically one huge 12 year old girl hissy fit, but it was a situation I wasn't being allowed to escape. Now that I've finally been able to cut off all ties, I can be free to do or say whatever the hell I want.

Why your anger is directed at me, I'm unsure of, seeing as how I've committed no wrongs and if you've bothered to read any of the other comments, I AM trying to make new friends, but the social caste that's in place at my university makes things difficult. But that's a different hurdle altogether.
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alzircon Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
They have a dA and you didn't provide a link? Shame on you.:iconmadnoesplz:
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Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I totally could but I'd really rather not make the situation worse than it already is. Y'know, being the bigger man and all. I think he barely uses it anyway, he just needed a way to hunt me down. For all I know, he didn't even see the reply.
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alzircon Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
But if he watches you, this thread will show up in his message centre, so you're screwed either way. Might as well give it up now, so great lulz can be had by all.:lol:
Btw, I noticed that your profile says male. And the people you're talking about are also males. And you're all in college. THEY'RE ALL ACTING LIKE 12-YEAR-OLD GIRLS.:iconstareshakeplz:
Oh, and I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but your ex sounds like a complete idiot tool bitch. So she heard some rumours and didn't bother asking you about it - doesn't seem like a smart person to stay with in the first place.:no:
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Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Yeah it's pretty much one massive hissy fit at this point.

And I dunno, the relationship ended with her having some serious problems trusting me, not to say that she didn't have trust issues with me to begin with.
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alzircon Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well, from what I've read she sounds like an idiot. Have you ever given her reason not to trust you? Because right now she seems like the type of person, who's ready to believe anything other people tell her, so you're much better off without her anyway.

And drop that whole circle of "friends". Why would you want to stay in contact anyway. Friends come and go, and for a good reason. Be more wise, when choosing your friends next time.
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Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Oh and I did, but not until quite near the end of it all. A big mistake on my part, but that's another story. The trust issues occurred even before that.
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alzircon Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
But you said she had trust issues from the start, so it wasn't gonna last.
What did you do to make her trust you even less?
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Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Kind of a personal thing. It involved intimacy, I'd rather not say more than that.
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Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I did drop them, at no point did I say I was still in contact. The two I mentioned found me.
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WalkingRen Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013
They're dicks, time to move on
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Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I basically have, I just got pissed because they brought back something from months ago.
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WalkingRen Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013
They need to move on then =P
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Vaz612 Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Indeed.
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