People shouldn't get drunk, period. Its dangerous to others around them, and it puts yourself at risk. (Just think about all the drunk driving accidents that happen per year...) That being said......there is no excuse for rape. Not sure what how friendzoning turned into rape though...seems kind of random to me.
So you're saying we should teach people "don't get raped" rather than "Don't be a disgusting excuse for a human being and don't rape people". I don't care how drunk someone is. It's not okay to rape them and it certainly isn't their fault that some abhorrent piece of shit decided it was okay to rape them.
If a guy gets drunk and wakes up next to a woman that he doesn't know and doesn't remember.... then she raped him? then the same woman wakes up feeling the same as him... she instantly thinks she got raped.
It's not ok to rape someone, it's the most awefull thing a person can do to one another, but sometimes you get drunk and end up in a situation that you don't like because you got drunk... there is not body to blame... you just need to deal with it and move on.
I'm not talking about rape in general here, not about men punting pills on drinks.... I'm just talking about a girl that got drunk, while drunk she was awake and moving.
The rapist is to blame. Male or female they made the decision to rape. Is it the victim's fault they got mugged or killed. Why should this be any different? We teach people to not do those things, why not teach them not to rape?
The world is an ugly and unfair place... people need to know this, If I know that drinking to some extend will put me in danger than I wouldn't do it.... I'm well aware of those gays. If I chose to passe out in some random club, than I take my chances... It's like standing in the middle of the street with cars expecting not to get hit... you take the risk.
That doesn't answer any of the questions I presented. I don't care if I'm walking around Time Square stark naked and blackout drunk. No one gets to rape under any circumstances and saying things like "don't get raped" is really just telling people to make sure it happens to someone else.
like women get drunk men do too... you said both have brains... so both need to take full responsibility over their actions, saying that the man needs to take full responsibility for a women that is drunk when he is also drunk is stupid... women are also sharks drawn to meat....the problem is that they regret it and call it rape then start to look for someone to blame for their own actions, instead of taking their own responsibility.
If a women is drunk she needs to know that she might do something stupid during that time... so if she does it... she needs to be aware that she was the one who put herself into that situation and no blame people around her for it.
Teaching women not to do something bad doesn't stop rape... it just means that the man will take advantage of someone else. If all women stopped drinking, it'd mean that men would prey on the sick and the elderly.
Also, saying that the rapist is not to blame for what he did is very disrespectful, demeaning and sexist to men. Saying a man 'can't help himself' or that 'she put herself in that situation' implies that men can't control themselves. It implies that men are creatures of base instinct and no morals.
It's a dangerous attitude that harms both females and males.
women when drunk make the same decisions as man sometimes and end up having sex with some random dude and call it rape when it's not. women need to aware of it, that's all , not always call it rape.
once I got drunk and I found some guy very attractive and ended up doing something I wouldn't have done while sober... it was my fault not his... I regret it a little... but I put myself into it and I need to deal with that's all... didn't think about it too much and moved on that is that kind of situation I'm talking about.
Happens differently for uhh..buffalloo (whatever those bull things are called :C) thingies in the Savannah. The weak kid was attacked by a lion and was almost going to be eaten as it was slow and the adults left. But then they all charged and whooshed away the lion and protected the weak. \o\
From what I've seen of her, I don't always disagree with what she says, but I feel like she's the really extremist left person. Which to me, isn't necessarily better than the really extremist right person. It's always a "Well, if only the Republicans were more reasonable, because all of the Democrats were being totally reasonable," etc.
I've seen some of her comments in the past and I don't always disagree with her, either, but I think you're right about her being extremist left.
But mostly I've just seen comments from people that call her daft, some have said she makes mountainous, dramatic replies out of small, tame comments like all the time, and she apparently argued with some guy's friends that she believes he doesn't have a job and his grandfather's death is a conspiracy or something.