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Have no girlfriend :(

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PhanThom-art Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm 18 and I still don't have a girlfriend! :( There are also no girls in my direct surroundings whom I'd like to be my girlfriend who are also not taken yet.
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FruitsOfHarvest Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013  Student General Artist
18 no boyfriend. Not really a problem, things normally happen when you least expect it.
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everfae Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013
You're only 18, that's still young.
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UBOA-CHAN Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
rosy palms will never let you down :lol:
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sana24 Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Student General Artist
I'm 18 and I don't have a boyfriend :P Your time will come eventually.
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b-nicoleT Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Professional Writer
If you don't have a girlfriend yet then you probably just haven't met the right girl. I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend. I don't feel bad about it. I don't need a dude to validate me, and I'm not going to waste my time on a guy who I don't really care about just to get other people's approval. Same should go for you. You're perfectly fine on your own. Do the shit you like to do, be happy, and eventually the right girl will come along and things will click.

Just don't, whatever you do, be desperate, creepy, or try to hard. Contrary to what romantic movies would like you to believe, stalkers/overly obsessed guys are not attractive.
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smileyboxaloo Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Student Digital Artist
You'll find someone soon ^^
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SpaniardWithKnives Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Unlike some folks have told you, you can have a serious relationship at 18 and being faithful and making it work, some people are able to, some are not. The relationships can get in the middle of your projects or not, depends how you handle the situation. Of course, it requires maturity, but is not the first time I know somebody who got married to the boyfriend or girlfriend they dated in the teen years and are happy now.

But again, you do not "need" a girlfriend. Eventually you will get one, but forcing it only will make you look desperate and scare possible "girlfriends to be". I do not say you are desperate, but it can look like that if you go "in hunting mode".
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PhanThom-art Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
thanks man, 'bout the only normal comment I've had on this :P
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SpaniardWithKnives Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Lol!. Woman, lol, my icon is misleading, but yes, you do not need to stress out for this. The more relaxed you look, the easier it is
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wolfclaw97 Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You're still young, practically your whole life ahead of you.
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tentabulge Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013
get off the internet
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TheAwesomeFaerie Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013   Traditional Artist
Become an interesting/attractive person! :la:
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MaddalinaMocanu Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
That's rude of you :/
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Kinrift Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013
Hey! Guys! Look! It's the internet police! :lol:
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MaddalinaMocanu Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
You don't get it do you? See my comment to the other one who nit picked.

"Who thought Nicepeter raped better?!"
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TheAwesomeFaerie Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013   Traditional Artist
Hey, you're not the OP, why do you care? Besides, it's true. If he was an interesting or attractive person it would be easy to get a girlfriend. If he already is, then he's just too picky.
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MaddalinaMocanu Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
I care because I'm in the same shoes as him, but regarding boyfriends. Saying "Become Interesting/attractive!" is ultimately an insult to dignity. People should not have to change in order to find the right people. It's like in a faulty relationship with your parents: You want them to change, but you are perfect! You need nothing to change! That isn't true, because ultimately not only one side in the parent-child relationship is at fault; each side has its own faults.

I am sure girls would swoon over this boy if their own standards and opinions about themselves being too good for him would change. He is 18. I am sure that by this time he has made a heck of a lot of changes to his life in order to encourage his success in finding the girl he would like, but the girl he would like may be in the category of "too perfect for you". Point of the matter: people are faulty on both sides, not on just one.
Embrace that and realize you are not the height of all things mighty and that maybe in the lowest slumps there are people like this fellow here that have a tough time getting a girlfriend, which ultimately is an outburst for his need to be loved. Everyone deserves that, but society enforces some incredibly stupid rules and limits, especially towards introverts.
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TheAwesomeFaerie Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013   Traditional Artist
True, I suppose, though the way he worded his post makes me think that he is being overly picky. Desperate for a girlfriend, but won't settle for anything less than a perfect one, and perfect people don't exist.
Not to mention, he sounds like your stereotypical Nice Guy. "Wah I don't have a girlfriend. The universe owes me a girlfriend, because I'm so nice."

True there are people on both sides who are faulty, but you can change then so you're never going to get anywhere without actively doing something about it on your side, for instance, making an attempt to be more sociable.
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Sauti-Alamisi Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
What are you going to do? Kill yourself?
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kittysophie Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Student Digital Artist
XDDD
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Sauti-Alamisi Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Seriously, I have heard of a person who said he was going to kill himself because he can't find a girlfriend. :facepalm:
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kittysophie Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013  Student Digital Artist
wow thats insane D:
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SinisterStick Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
The solution is pretty simple: you're trying far too much.
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Shockity Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013
tfw no qt3.14 gf
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LeucisticCrow Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
My brother's 21st birthday is in March and he's never had a legitimate relationship with a male or female (I don't think he's gay, anyways...).

Cool your tits.
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MaryYana Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013   Traditional Artist
You have internet. What more could a person wish for?
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Zalcoti Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013   Digital Artist
Lots and lots of sex.
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soda-with-cyanide Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013  Student General Artist
I don't have a girlfriend either and I'll turn 19 this year. Yet I have so much to study and I have to get prepared for so much shit that I wouldn't even have time for one.
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Wyntry Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
You'll find her. Keep looking, and until then...well...just ....Idk, get by with porn? :lol:
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Kiwi-Punch Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Eh...I don't need a girlfriend right now; not when college is so much more important. I am waiting until I am at least 25 to have a serious relationship. For now, I'm just going to have one-night stands until that time when I feel like I am mature enough to be in a serious relationship. Seriously, that shit takes dedication; something a lot of males my age do NOT have. Young lovers are more likely to cheat on one another and thus, I don't want to pursue something serious. Seriously, wait. Wait until you're done with school, have achieved a major goal, etc. Be comfortable with yourself before you date. I have confidence in my looks, and I know I can handle a social situation, but even so, I just want to be free and do what I WANT before that time comes.
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Kiwi-Punch Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Jesus! I would advise AGAINST having a significant other until you're at least 21. For now, just go have some one-night stands like most youngins' your age do. Seriously, 18 is too young for a serious relationship.
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DariaDzyuba Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Disperate for sex? :bucktooth:
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ARTificialphanTOM Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You have kind of a cool user name, so the woman will come around eventually.
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SahidenEthare Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013   Writer
Who needs other people anyway?
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siantjudas Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013   Digital Artist
Well not everyone passes the first part of their life.
Hopefully you don't fail the next part too. :D
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Patt-Ytto Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013
I had my first girlfriend at 19. Had my first sexy time at 21. I feel no shame for waiting. :shrug:
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Kiwi-Punch Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Good for you! :clap:
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RockLou Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
:iconbawplz: Man up, bitch.
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oathbinder-3D Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013
im 20 and dont have a boyfriend.... ever . so what, you are 18 soak in the benefits of single life before you get with someone!

If there is no girls around why stick around, go somewhere else where girls might be :P
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intricately-ordinary Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Quality, not quantity, hon.
Don't base your lack of a girlfriend on all the girls who won't work.
Wait for one who will.

Relationships are meant to enhance your life, not become them. Be comfortable enough with yourself that you CAN be alone. That way if (when) the right girl does come along, you will have room for her in your life but she won't become your sole purpose of living, if that makes sense.

When you focus on "this is what I don't have" you set yourself up for disappointment. Wait for a girl you really like who can fit into your lifestyle.
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dorkface4 Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013
Find one not directly near you.
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CindarellaPop Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
Rosie Palms is always there for you.
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mastersmith Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013
You probably wont find one here.
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Kiwi-Punch Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Or ever with his attitude.
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WatchHerFly Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013
I'm 20 and still don't have a bf. What's your point? Are we pathetic or what!? :iconpanicatthediscoplz:
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LoboSabio Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013
Eh, I wouldn't bother getting a girlfriend. Dogs are much better at fulfilling that role.
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Redfoxbennaton Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
That's okay. I have no girlfriend. The only problem with that is it's a red flag.
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KillianSeraphim Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013  Student General Artist
I'm 22 and have no girlfriend. Granted, my life thus far has been a bit nomadic, so that's something of an excuse. Most of the girls I want to date are either in a different state, or different country.
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MisterKhact Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013
I used to have a girlfriend, but I broke up her neck.

Wait, that came out wrong.
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